he is atleast 25 maybe in his thirty's and he is a trainer at 24 hour fitness. He asked me, and gave me his number while i was working out. (fist time i talked to him). He only knows me from checking me out all the time while i work out, He is cute but i know its wrong if we were to just go on a date. RIGHT?
i responed with a "I will call you".
2007-08-26 17:55:32 · 25 answers · asked by marina_703 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell the guy you're 15. He probably thinks you're older. Do not go out with him and THEN tell him how old you are, that's just putting him in an uncool position. I can almost guarantee he thinks you're 18 or 20-ish, if not older.
2007-08-26 18:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by that_guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he KNOW that you are 15? Ask him that first. That will probably take care of the matter if he is a decent human being. If not, decline the invitation. A 15 year old girl should not be dating a man that much older than she is.
2007-08-27 01:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ohh please do not do it, this guy sounds like a shark and only wants one thing..your body. Try to change gyms or ignore him and date guys your age, you will be so much happier in the long run. I was 18 when I met up with a 30 yr old, I am so sorry I did this for I grew up before my time and gave my virginity to a player who turned out to only want that one thing..IT IS NOT WORTH IT! And he is breaking the law!! Tell an adult about him!
From experience I can say, stay with guys your age and enjoy dating them and taking your time before jumping in with the sharks!
2007-08-27 08:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knows your 15 he should be aware that he can do time in prison for takeing you out with out the knowleage of your pearents the boys 16 17 are the ones to take home to mom and dad one that has part time work, they are more fun the other is looking for someone to clean and cook ect you dont wanna be a slave or loose your innoence too young once the babies come it's not your life any more thank you hope it helps
2007-08-27 01:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by kadibeast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, do no go on a date with him. You need to let him know that you are only 15. Since you were at an adult gym he probably thinks that you are 18+. I'm sure that if he know you were only 15 he probably wouldn't have asked you out. If he still wants to go on a date, tell him that you cannot go with him.
2007-08-27 01:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by magooi1234 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Since, you said you'll give him a call, give him. Talk to him for a while. See what his intentions and thoughts are.
I think you should know that person well before going out with him. Take some time in knowing him, if you are interested, get to know his likes/dislikes, thoughts on different things and if you think he is what you wanted then take the next step.
2007-08-27 01:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Siddarth S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly what you just said on Yahoo. You're too young and he's too old. As it goes it sounds pretty creepy, and geez if it didn't work out then considering he's a trainer and he turned pretty stalkerish, then you'd probably have to change gyms.
2007-08-27 01:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Squish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell an adult. Tell your parents or any other adult you trust. They can protect you. It doesn't matter at this point whether or not he knew how old you were when he asked. Don't approach him alone for any reason, have a parent take care of this for you. Also, why are you going to an adult gym alone. Please learn how to stay safe as a female in this world today.
2007-08-27 02:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by nic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows how old you are and wants to take you out I doubt he has very good intentions. 25+s yr olds don't want to take a 15 yr old out for the heck of it....... And I don't think you want to end up on the news as his victim.
2007-08-27 01:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by cihccihtog 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it my dear. He's almost twice your age and that's usually a bad thing if they're trying to hit on you and stuff. You don't really know what is really on his mind. He probably does know that you're so young cause he can always look on your profile and they tend to take advantage of it. If you really want to just be careful OK. Do what you feel is right OK.
2007-08-27 01:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by *hayn/filipina* 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋