2007-08-26 17:30:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try to understand the problem or situation for the lack of love reciprocation. If it can't be resolved, I would end it because a relationship with love only going one way is lonely and painful in the end.
2007-08-26 17:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Don C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, you will always love them. If that person has no interest in you, what else can you do, but to move on? You'll just live in misery. Your heart will heal over time. But since you said 'seem' that means you may be unsure. Have a talk with them if you can.
2007-08-26 17:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by A G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did I do, would be a more appropriate question. I gave this person one year to make up their decision. They lived with me and we did not have sex shortly after living together, but were cordial to each other. My demand was if you will not sleep with me (in the appropriate manner) within one year, then you will have made your decision.
I was generous. During the time, I was chatting online and my partner was going out and sometimes not coming home. The excuses were numerous and unimportant. Even though I was tempted by my internet interest, I told them I had made an agreement and could not meet them until the year was over.
Time passed and my room became mine and the guest room was theirs. The only rule was not to bring anyone into the home. We both abided by that rule. I told my online friend when the date would be. After the year was up, I said to my live-in, "This is it, what is your choice?" They said, "I like living here with you but not in your room." I said, OK and asked if they wanted to stay in the house and they said, "Yes".
Coincidently, the person I was talking to on the web was one who was dating my lover, but we did not know this until I disclosed the vehicle that they drove and their name. It was awkward, but we still met. It turned out that my online friend and me hit it off great and when my live-in found about it, they moved out and never talked to either of us again. I know it was out of shame and deceit, but my online friend did not know who I was or my relationship with the one who lived with me and that they were dating them.
2007-08-26 17:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, i did the wrong thing..
i just kept on loving them thinking i would change them...
or i was wrong or just over looking it...
if u do not feel u are loved...
then u can not make anyone love u.. from ur spouse to ur own mother...
they either had it or they don't... and even if they do.. and they can not show it.. as sad as it is...
walk away..
i no my ex loved me.. he was not able to show it...
i suffered from it a lot.. felt very lonely and sad a lot.. and we still didn't make it.. i lost a lot of time ... 14 yrs..
leave...
and pray about it.. what will be,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Will...
2007-08-26 17:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find someone that loves u back..
you should love someone that loves u as much as u love them
2007-08-26 17:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rayray 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Distance myself and end contact with them
aint worth being around
2007-08-26 17:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would eventually have to get over it, unless there was a small chance that me and the other person could get to know each other and, perhaps, start dating.
2007-08-26 17:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by daemonfurby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do, really to help yourself, is to get over it. it would be unhealthy not to. you have to cut your losses and look for someone else...
2007-08-26 17:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by withay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't tell them
2007-08-26 17:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by The_Info_Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋