Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

I feel that my mom is always on my brothers side no matter what. He gets bad grades so my dad yells at him and makes him do chores then my mom argues with my dad and says my older brother should have to do those chores cuz i do nothing but thats not true i have daily chores that i do. I have better grades then my older brother, im nice to my mom and i do everything she says, but yet she seems to always choosse my brother over me. My brother is out ever night, he is 16, has a girlfriend(who lies to me, and my mom and dad) he got a car, didnt even earn it, my brother has no job gets 20 dollars or more a day, gets to do fun stuff all the time, and i hate him for all of that! I hate my mom for choosing him over me and then my dad always gives my brother attention, either yelling or being nice. I dont know what to do. My parents seem to think that i dont need them, which i probaly dont but i would like some credit for the things i do. Please just give me advice! Sorry its so long!

2007-08-26 16:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by cass. 2 in Family

I am helping a friend plan her wedding but the date is in february and she would like it outside could someone help me this is my first wedding.....

2007-08-26 16:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by Cathia 1 in Weddings

2007-08-26 16:28:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he was here illegally before our marriage but now he is trying to pettion his ex-mistress

2007-08-26 16:24:08 · 3 answers · asked by angelina41 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...It was great!

2007-08-26 16:21:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he had a few beers, yet he was summoned to court for DUI.

They dated it too .089 and he blew 1.24 on the spot.

How much did he really have to drink, roughly. Because I think he is talking ****.

2007-08-26 16:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by sittingborderline 1 in Singles & Dating

will he still/enjoy checkout/pursue other girls?

2007-08-26 16:16:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is for all the guys out there

2007-08-26 16:14:53 · 2 answers · asked by kruse_marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

lately. She's a very manipulative person. I don't trust her at all.Once, I told her that if I have to move out of the place my husband and I shared, since he's gone, I'll drop off all his stuff at her home. I never told her when. I really don't want to talk to her, or the rest of his family. I don't have anything against to them, but I don't really think I have to be in contact with them anymore. Today, I receive a phone call from my sister in law asking me if I needed help to move my soon to be ex husband's things to their mother's place today. I never mentioned when I'll do it. I still have to get money, find a place, etc. I feel like my mother in law is tryng to control me, or at least monitor my movements. I don't think I really need to talk to them anymore. The only tie that I have to them was my husband and with him gone, I don't want anything to do with them. I have a child, not my husband's that my mother in law says that she loves. My child doesn't care about. Any suggestion?

2007-08-26 16:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-26 16:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I'm in love, but i dont want to be, I'm only 15, anyway, I been trying to forget this girl, for the past week i haven't talked to her, we usually spend nights talking on aim and stuff, till like 3-4 in the morning. I just made up my mind, about personal stuff, and how I feel about my life and etc, well the point is the past week even though i haven't talked to her she's like all i can think about.

I need a really good way to get her out of my mind, dont just say move on its too hard, I'm like literally sitting here crying.

I don't really want to say why i want to forget her but i just do...

I have told her how i feel, which i actually regret, I have no FRICKEN idea why...

I'm not the flirty type...I dont go for girls easily, so don't tell me to move and and get a new girl...I can't and i wont that easily.

AND trust me its not infatuation, i have never looked at her in a sexual way or a way just to have sex, im not that kind of guy.

2007-08-26 16:13:20 · 1 answers · asked by _kish_ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There are some women who do NOT like to be told anything....to the extent they leave the house...if things do not got their way... You are one of them.... To the extent you can leave the house or NOT reconcile...when opportunity is knocking after 5.5 years...

Such a situation is very dangerous for both of us....

So the answer is clear.... BY your actions... and inactions... and stubborness....

Ask yourself.... Have you been a RESPONSIBLE person looking out for the family's interest and future ?

You have still not admitted that you removed the jewelry.... so that would always be a sore issue... as I would touch it... Only YOU or my Mom has removed it... There is NO one else...

So I guess... you still did NOT become honest and admit a thing you did... I would have loved to see you or the child wear and enjoy it... But to you hiding such petty things are more important... than WINNING ME... YOUR MARRIAGE AND MAKING A LIFE.


Really screwed up. Admit your weaknes

2007-08-26 16:11:37 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I have a huge shoe delema?

Heres my problem. There are sketchers that I really really really want but I live in Australia and Sketchers.com will only ship within the US. The sketchers in Australia are all really really crappy and my current shoes are hurting my feet so I really need new gym shoes :o(
I have been trying to get these shoes for like 6 months and I am against a brick wall.

I have finally come to a way which I could get them. If I was able to give all the details so someone in the US, they could put them on Ebay with a buy it now bid, I could buy it, paying with paypal, then they once I've paid, they could buy them and send them on to me. If anyone would be interested in helping me, they can email me and I will send them the product link so I can get my shoes, if anyone can help me I will love you 4eva and help you out if you ever need similar...

Thank-you for taking the time to read this :o)

2007-08-26 16:10:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's out of town. he called me and told me hes coming home tomorrow as planned but moving to where he is now. he wants to get to know another girl there and continue college there so he can be with her. i'm interested in my friend who's a guy. my friend is interested in me. should i go for it or stay single?

2007-08-26 16:07:07 · 2 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married next year. The place we are going to have it is in the Carribean. It is going to be a destination wedding. The resort is also adults only. This wouldn't be a problem except my Fiance's sister has a toddler. Of course I want her there and to be a part of it (children are allowed on the property for weddings and receptions only) but she would have to stay somewhere else for sleeping/staying accommodations because of the baby.
A part of me says to just completely change the whole wedding (and even consider having it local so we don't worry about the wedding just for his sister), and the other part of me says "But, it is OUR wedding and it is OUR dream to have it here..."
I think I would be upset with myself if I let her baby change our entire wedding dream but I couldn't bear for her to feel left out.

This is the ONLY child that needs to be considered out of our entire guest list but my Fiance' is close to his sister and I don't want to upset her.

2007-08-26 15:59:48 · 24 answers · asked by Peppy Lover Gal 2 in Weddings

Most guys I know dont care too much about girls in real life, so lets put that theory to the test. On your perfect girl, what cup size would she be? If you've already met your perfect girl, how much did her breast size determine this decision? How much has breast size judged women you've dated?

2007-08-26 15:56:23 · 28 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Singles & Dating

hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??

2007-08-26 15:54:41 · 2 answers · asked by fran c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't mean to be over -reacting, and please tell me if you think so, but I'm 16, and yesterday at a family get together, i was practically on the coucgh falling asleep because I had a stomach ache, and I had taken some pills that made me sleepy. So as I fall asleep, a long time family friend wanted to rub my tummy to make it feel better...In my oppinion he wasn't rubbing only my tummy. I don't know, I just feel so violated. it's in my head, i cant get the feeling out. I can't discribe the feeling, it's just you know it only after you experince it. I told him to stop, but he kept going, untill i got up and left. What should I do? I feel so alone, and disgusted with myself. I told my mom but she doesn't believe me because i've been moody all day and made her mad, so she thinks im just making it up...please share your thoughts with me. do these feelings ever go away?

2007-08-26 15:46:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 15 and have never had a boyfriend?
its kind of weird because i way 154 pounds but i dont think inm that fat. im 5.7 ft tall. and when i look in the mirror i allways wonder what it is about me that isint good enough. im a bit shy but once people get to know me im pretty crazy. ive never had a drink and i dont doo drugs and i dont feel comfortable curseing in front of others. and what is even weirder is that when i see adults that havent seen me in years they are ike"omg your soo beautiful", or when my neighbors see me they say"youve lost weight" or when old teachers see me there like wow you gotten so much taller and so beautiful." why dont guys feel the same way?? i know i can be a very romantic and great girlfriend. why dosent anyone like me??? it sometimes feels like ill spend the rest of my life alone. teenage boys: whats your point of veiw about my situation? Everyone tells me i dont need one but when i see my friends with thiers i ijust want that special someone. you know?

2007-08-26 15:45:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 15:44:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime me and my bf have sex of course theres an orgasm... but its wierd cuz he screams his mothers name... he tells me not to worry about this but i find it really distrubing and it makes me think theres something mentally wrong with him.. please help me i dont know what to say or do...

2007-08-26 15:40:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 15:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well a friend of mine left me a message on myspace like at 130 am that she was feelin down and needed someone to talk to but I was asleep. Well I left her a message today sayin why I wasnt on and tried callin her 3 times but she didnt answer. I also called her once by blocking my number and she did answer but I just hung up I didnt want her to know it was me. Anyways she finally wrote back on myspace sayin shes fine she already talked to someone and shes makin plans to go to the movies later on with some friends. Is she bein ****** up and ignoring me or whats goin on?

2007-08-26 15:36:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This friend of mine, who I have had feelings for, and I went out for dinner after work the other night, and at first all we could do was complement eachother, and how wonderful he thinks I am, and how he thinks of me all the time, and how he's constantly impressed by me (ego trip!).
Eventually, I came around and told him, straight up, that I really do like him. He told me he already always kind of knew. He told me also, however, that he really needs my friendship before any relationship. He told me I am truely his best friend, and that he feels like he can talk to me about everything--and that that's what he needs in his life now.
He told me, also, that he just started counseling to get through some issues he's had for a while with himself, and other things relationship related.
Do you think that perhaps down the line, eventually--he and I have the chance to be together, beyond our already outstanding friendship?
He's the most genuine person, I don't know what I do without him.

2007-08-26 15:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.. well i have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months and i love him with all my heart. we know we're right 4 each other. the thing is he's 17 and im 15 and we both want a baby really badly. we know we're young but we love each other enough that we feel it would be right to. but we dont know if we should or not cuz of respect that might be lost and his career. we need some advice plz!!!

2007-08-26 15:30:28 · 23 answers · asked by crazygurl17 1 in Family

Do you regret it?
Were you udner the influance of anything?
Did you love the person?
Did you jsut do it to do it?
Where did you do it?
Did you use protection?

2007-08-26 15:30:02 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 15:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by Shay G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I were thinking about doing scratch off lottery tickets as our wedding favors. They'd be in little glassine envelopes with a sticker that said "Lucky in Love" or Wishing you riches from the new "Mr. and Mrs." with a penny inside.
Good or bad idea?

2007-08-26 15:27:34 · 18 answers · asked by Cindy 3 in Weddings

I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?

2007-08-26 15:18:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His old car that I traded in for was an 8 year old car that is practically about to break down. I bought him a used Audi A4 and he is very mad at me. It was suppose to be a surprise gift and that is the reason why I did it. His old car was in his name only and the new car is in my name. Am I wrong or his he?

2007-08-26 15:14:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce