Forgetting love?

Question

I think I'm in love, but i dont want to be, I'm only 15, anyway, I been trying to forget this girl, for the past week i haven't talked to her, we usually spend nights talking on aim and stuff, till like 3-4 in the morning. I just made up my mind, about personal stuff, and how I feel about my life and etc, well the point is the past week even though i haven't talked to her she's like all i can think about.

I need a really good way to get her out of my mind, dont just say move on its too hard, I'm like literally sitting here crying.

I don't really want to say why i want to forget her but i just do...

I have told her how i feel, which i actually regret, I have no FRICKEN idea why...

I'm not the flirty type...I dont go for girls easily, so don't tell me to move and and get a new girl...I can't and i wont that easily.

AND trust me its not infatuation, i have never looked at her in a sexual way or a way just to have sex, im not that kind of guy.

Answer 1

I guess some ones going to need to wise up and understand that society right now is a VERY lonely place, and finding geniune relationships that make us feel good about ourselves, meaningful in our endavours, and basically in a way, more human then we've ever felt are unbelieveable VALUEABLE!!! Lossing those HURTS!!! One of the most painful things to deal with in our world is lossing someone, when they didn't even die, and thanks to the game of romance, we can have that fate. Your best bet is understanding this and acting accordingly. Be more clever about your relationships and your actions within, but also realize that relationships leave scars, and in a way, if you've done right, you never loss anyone, just the hope you had to have the future with them you thought you'd deserve. Let go of that and find faith in just having the bond with people, and this won't hurt so bad, put everything on them thou, and its going to be heck. Its a crazy world we live in, made crazier by the fact our society knows nothing about the most important force in our lives, namly LOVE.....