I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?
2007-08-26 15:18:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with mafiosu. Enjoying the feeling of silky hose and other clothing is more common in men than most people realize. There is really nothing wrong with it, as long as you both are okay with it.
2007-08-26 15:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Well I do not know where this is going for you. As a male I have all was like The feel of silk ageist my body. It's a great feeling and a big turn on. I like to were pantie hose When ever. A little story. I was at Wal-mart in a pair of shorts with hose on. I was in check out line. I got cough. The gal behind me saw that I had hose on. What a big smile I got from her.Their is a lot of men that to were silky things. It is up to you. Do not think what others might say. If you do not minded this. Then enjoy it. Go out and buy him a few pairs hose from the Department store. Wrap them up. When he takes shower. Put the present on the bed or hand it to him . I bet you will get one of the biggies kiss and hugs you will ever get from him. Just remember keep and open mind. Don't think what others might think or say. If you Really love him try to under stand him. His not the only on there are more men that enjoy this than you think. Our lives are always changing. I never though When I was young the things that I have done now I never thought I would have do them. What fun I have had. Best of luck.
2007-08-26 23:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by tadm 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's healthy to experiment within your marriage so I think how your handling him is wonderful and the fact he trusts you enough to do this in front of you with your permission and encouragement not a lot of couple's have what you have and you should be proud , and yes it may seem weird but try some sexual jaunts with him while he wears them a type of role play if you like.
I'd be more worried that he fit's your panty hose lol maybe buy some for him so he doesnt wreck your's.
My brother is a cross dresser only in under garments it causes both of his divorces and I felt sorry for him ,People need to be more understanding and less judgemental I think when it come's to someone who you claim to love kudo's to you sweety.
2007-08-26 23:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its a fetish with him. You can't take away the fact that he thinks about it and that he likes the way it feels. So, by denying him something so small, you would be encouraging him to be less open with you.
As long as this doesn't bother you, indulge him and have fun with it.
If it does bother you, then ask that he indulge when you aren't there.
2007-08-26 22:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There is nothing wrong with it at all. A lot of women are married to men who like to cross dress. It has nothing to do with their sexual orientation and it is just as your husband has said--they like how it feels and how it makes them feel. I think it is funny that women can dress in trousers and jackets and no one thinks a thing about it. But if a man wants to dress in clothes generally seen as "women's wear" people assume they are mentally unstable. If you don't have a problem with it, and he does not have a problem with it, then there is really no problem, is there?
2007-08-26 22:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think it is sexy and beautiful when a man can do something that is considered "feminine" and honestly tell about how much it turns him on, or how intensely it makes him feel ...
keep enjoying your husband's fetish. You may find some things you like about it too!
2007-08-27 04:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you two can enjoy kinky moments like this together, then by all means have a blast. However, if he does that type of thing on his own in private, then it becomes creepy. But right now, seems like harmless fun.
2007-08-26 22:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i say that there is no harm i guess its better to know this fetish or whatever it is than to come home and catch him in the act i think that it is great that u and ur husband are so open to each other i think thats what a great marriage is all about no judement
2007-08-26 22:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by curvykirst 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
More power to him. Yea don't be creeped out or act funny around hiim he might not be honest with you again. Buy him his own pair and he can wear them when he wants I guess. If it bothers you maybe you can seek counseling with him and figure out his obsession with the hose. ;p good luck
2007-08-26 22:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
So your husband appears to have a fetish for pantyhose. I see nothing wrong with it.....as long as it doesn't affect his daily life.
2007-08-26 22:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋