is there anything wrong with married people going out to the club without their spouse??

Answer 1

Yes, they expose themselves to the temptation of lust and adultery.

Answer 2

I have gone out a few times with friends to bars and clubs. My husband has gone out with friends a few times, as well.

As long as there is trust and communication, I see no harm in an occasional night out without your spouse. Heck, it can even be good for the marriage. Some time to relax and let off some steam and then come home to your husband or wife with new things to talk about while feeling refreshed.

I do think there should be boundaires, though. No all nighters, that kind of thing.

Answer 3

Depends on the married couple and why they'd go to the club without their spouse.

If there's trust in the marriage and one spouse likes to go to the club and dance and hang with friends, but the other doesn't, then it's cool that they can both do what they enjoy without thinking that "it MUST mean that they want to cheat on me!!!"

Answer 4

if your a woman then, its probably more dangerous and guys will think your single and try to pick u up. if you do go out then go out with 2 or more friends. safety in numbers.

guys - well, they do this more often than their wives i think - there is a real low chance of them being "raped' but a higher chance if the wife just went out.
Thats just for obvious reasons

As long as you trust each other and dont do it all the time. Just every now and then for a girls night.
Make sure your spouse is ok with you going out coz communication is everything, dont give them reason not to trust you

Answer 5

I think if you are with a group of friends and going out to have a girls night out or to celebrate something sure. But clubs are usually to go to with your spouse or to be picked up.

Answer 6

Most often there are more problem associated with going to clubs. One of them is temptation, cover up of home problems, sometimes it would lead to infidelity, and insecurity in marriage. For example, if you go out to a club, off cause there are many single women out there who are there jsut to get men. Men to are busy hunting more and blames being drunk. Married and club causes problems unless you are strong enough to deal with whatever happens down the road.

Answer 7

Don't kid yourself the reason people go out to clubs is to meet people of the opposite sex.There is all kinds of temptations that can end a marriage lurking around in these clubs.If you want to go clubbing make sure your spouse is with you.If you want to go out with your friend there are better places to go for a night out.

Answer 8

it's always better to bring the spouse along since married life is about the two of you all the time for as long as you live. but nothing particularly is wrong if your spouse isn't with you unless you have impure motives that would jeopardize your relationship with your spouse.

Answer 9

I am dying to take my wife clubbing someday. She has no absolute idea of how to have fun in life, dancing and drinking. I sometimes, go by myself, without the wife, but it is extremely boring without her. I would do anything, to drag my wife, by the hand to a nice dance club. She has no idea of how fun it is. Well I guess I married the wrong woman in my life. Sucks!

Answer 10

I do not think it is a good thing; but it sometimes does happen and hopefully your spouse loves you enough not to do anything wrong.

Answer 11

Kinda is.

1. Clubs are primarily a meat market for meeting the opposite sex.
2. Some may not be able to stay focused on their marriage.
3. You should take your spouse to prevent temptation.

I personally stay away from clubs just because that scene no longer is appealing to me. That change took place after I met my wife (then girlfriend). We would still go occasionally but it was no longer the same (I was no longer on the hunt).