hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??
2007-08-26 15:54:41 · 2 answers · asked by fran c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
seeing an ex for the first times after a split can re stir feelings for one or both of you. sometimes they are bitter feelings sometimes feeling of remorse and "why did i let him/her go?"
do you share these feelings? do you think you would be able to rekindle the spark you once had or is it gone for you?
as hard as it can be, i would encourage you to respond and be honest in return either way.
Be brave, and do what is right for you, if you want to give it another go explain what you expect before biginning, and deal with whatever it was that caused your break up in the first place so you dont repeat the same thing.
If you dont want to rekindle anything, say so, dont let him pressure you with flattery and remorse, it has to work both ways.
Good luck, true love is there waiting for you somewhere :)
2007-08-26 16:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing is going on with him that is going on with you...you said you moved on, but seeing him kiss another girl bothered you a bit, so I imagine, he moved on, but seeing you with another guy bothered him a bit. You went over to talk to him at the bar, and he gave you a phonecall. I don't think he really wants anything. It was just a tinge of jealousy that struck you both, but remember why you broke up in the first place.
2007-08-26 23:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋