Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

I am trying to get mobile we for free on my verizon wireless phone. this is legal i have been told, but i am unaware how to change the proxy settings on my phone to use a public proxy instead of verizon. any ideas on how to access the proxy settings or ip port? thanks.

2007-08-26 15:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-26 15:10:47 · 36 answers · asked by Intrigued 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-26 15:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by bigchill2007 2 in Singles & Dating

i am not racist but i mean i have a friend that i used 2 like but never told her. We went on this field trip and one of my freinds says he likes the girl i like. So he wanted 2 text her but he didnt have his cell so he used mine and he didnt know what to tell her so i helped him. And at the end he went out wit her!!! i was so mad for helping him but she thinks that he wrote those nice stuff but i did, but she still doesn't believe me! please tell me why do you girls think that were less attractive? Please answer. Thanks in advance.

2007-08-26 15:05:12 · 32 answers · asked by Kelvin 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a nice, funny, down to earth person, but I have no life. I am married with two kids, I go to school full time, and that's it. My friends all live in different states along with my family. I have tried really hard to make close friends at school but they all have their lives. I don't make friends easily because I am a little shy and insecure. My husband and I don't get to do much because when we have money we have no babysitter and when we have a babysitter we have no money. All we do is sit around and watch sports on TV. I am tired of being bored and having no friends here. Please tell me how I can make more friends and have a life, I am soooo lonely. Peace.

2007-08-26 15:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he wants me more expirenced to date just 2 other guys to have sex with to makeup for the two girls he did before he knew me. so I can see if there is a difference. If he is trying to set me up to cheat onhim like his last relationship ended. he lived with for 7 years. keep that in mind. I think he wants me to be like his ex cause he has never been with some one past 7 years before now and i think he is try to find ways for me to leave him by talking down to me and trying to avoid having sex with me to make me go and have it with some one else. why is what i want to know. is it me did i do some thing wrong by staying a virgin before marriage? why would it matter if i was. what makes a guy think this way? He is not giving me sex to make we want to get else wheres. i think he wants me to be like his ex girlfriend. I can't be that way and he wont give me sex till I do! so what should I do? say i told him how i felt and nothing comes out of it.

2007-08-26 15:00:23 · 39 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & i have been married for 7 years, & have many problems with his mother (a.k.a The Mother-in-law). Here is the short version..

My mother-in-law has 3 sons, including my husband. They are all over the age of 25, with the oldest being 35. Except for my husband, they all still live at home, with no job. Thats how she likes it. Ever since my husband and i have started dating, she hated me, & now that we are married, things are worse.

When we becamse pregnatn with our first child, she tried to talk me into getting an abortion. She didnt want ME to be the mother of her grandchildren. I refused the abortion, of course, & when our daughter was born, she told everyone that i had mental problems & should have the child taken from me! Our daughter passed away at the age of 4 months due to SIDS, & she told everyone our daughter died because i didnt love her.That was 5 yrs ago. We moved out of the state due to his job, & now have a 2 yr old boy. Continue reading the details please.

2007-08-26 14:52:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We talked for about a week so should I ask her out now or get to know her first? Do I ask her out and then get to know her? Which one is it?! We both already like each other.

2007-08-26 14:48:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why say "I love you" to a girl if you really truly dont!! And you know you arent getting into her pants ever. So why insist you love her?

What do you hope to gain from it?

2007-08-26 14:46:56 · 29 answers · asked by MichM 4 in Singles & Dating

guys just want to hook up with me but they never want a relationship. i've had enough! i want to know whats up? the last straw was today. my exbf said "i was really sexy, have an amazing body and im badd that i make him think dirty and how he loves kissing me and how much of a great kisser i am" but the thing is thats it. he doesnt want me as a gf. but every guy that im with says "how come you don't have a bf..you are amazing" HA. obviously, how come you dont want a be my boyfriend if i am "so amazing"?

why do you think?

2007-08-26 14:46:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my business partner. Its so hard to work with her on business projects, let alone have dinner with her husband and kids. Her feelings are the same with me, but shes not ready to leave him. I've never been in this type of situation before and I'm not sure what to do. I would do anything to spend every second with her, but I can't becuase of the situation. I've never had these feelings with anyone else before. I'm tired of spending my nights and weekends alone. How long should I wait for her to change?? I'm willing to give her everything, but I will never ask her to leave him. We have a great time together, and we make each other happy.They're always fighting and he's always upset about her success. She is a great mother, and the perfect wife. I could never ask for anyone eles. She's perfect in every way. I'm willing to wait, but just not sure for how long?? We've been working together for 5 years, and have been really close in the last 6 months.

2007-08-26 14:44:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for a total of 15 years. and he has just walked away from childern and all after I lost my job and became ill from the stress.

2007-08-26 14:37:57 · 24 answers · asked by tiny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, if someone was sitting in a chair she always sit in at school should i beat the crap out of that person and get her chair or when someone is playing around with her and accidently hurt her and when some one tell her the cold hard truth about her should i beat the crap out of the person who did it.

2007-08-26 14:36:34 · 33 answers · asked by bigchill2007 2 in Singles & Dating

My cousin asked my guy friend out, who (she doesn't know this, nor does anyone know) I like. The problem is, he only likes her as a friend and only said yes not to hurt her feelings. He likes me, and I like him, but now we can't go out because of this. Should I step up and say something or just butt out and let them negotiate it? And how should I tell him that I like him?

2007-08-26 14:35:24 · 3 answers · asked by Ellophante 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, she is my second wife (divorced my first for an encyclopaedia multitudes of wrongs, not the least of which was her concealed lesbianism which ruined the marriage at the least).

I am just so nuts about my second wife - I worry about her when she is away from home, when I am at work I think about her all of the time! I help her with the dishes when I get home, I give all of my money happily and pleasurably to her!!!! I do anything for her, I rebuilt the upstairs bathroom for her, ripped out the old rotten floor and rebuilt it from the ground-up.

She occupies every cell of my brain and I just can't get enough of her! She's the most intelligent, radiant and beautiful woman who has ever graced my small life!!!!

Why me!!!!!

2007-08-26 14:34:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-26 14:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he had told me they broke during the beginning of summer and we've been hooking up lately. well, i just found out that they are still together!!!!!!!! I feel like SHITTT what to do??! please help!

2007-08-26 14:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when theres a wedding the father of the bride puts his daughter into the safety of the man and the protection. and if you see your friend whos a guy and his gf they usuallly say take care of her or treat her well i mean why is this!!!!!!?????? are they supposed to always make sure were safe? DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE KNOWING MY BF IS HERE TO PROTECT ME! but i dont get it????????????????????????????

2007-08-26 14:30:21 · 23 answers · asked by aroura s 1 in Singles & Dating

At a school dance last week something bad-ish happened. This boy was grinding me, and I turned around to see who it was, and as I turned around my fingers sort of brushed his face. For the rest of the night everytime a boy came up behind me he would tell them not to because I would slap them.

I never slapped this boy, and he walked away after I turned around to see who he was.

How should I confront him/what should I say to him at our next dance?

Thanks Bunches!

2007-08-26 14:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by Sarahbelle 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you like to use the public restroom either in or out the stall or does it make you nervous?

2007-08-26 14:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is the most important thing on a girl's body...I mean what has to be perfect for you to like the girl???

2007-08-26 14:23:41 · 54 answers · asked by eddie 1 in Singles & Dating

I know some of you may be getting tired of the melodrama of breakups... but please dont be rude to me... just skip my question if you're irritated...

my bf and I have been together for years.... we've been doing great... then yesterday out of nowhere.... he just broke the relationship... he wasnt txting since morning so i got worried and called him he said he was at the hospital... then when i hurried to go to the hospital.... he said he's got his prescriptions and need to go home... then i said wait for me... but he said just go cause im leaving you anyway... and then he broke it off right there.....

we've been okay..... the day before we were just exchanging jokes and sweet words.... but he won't talk.... he's avoiding me.... i dont know what to do.....

2007-08-26 14:23:03 · 23 answers · asked by terra 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband gets jealous of me talking to other men. It doesn't matter if it is a cashier at the store or my non-biological brother*. He will ask, "Is he bothering you?" and turn all dark and moody. He accuses me of sleeping with my guy friends--which I've never done, I'm just not that girl--hence, I no longer have any guy friends(in AK, in VT it's different). I can't talk to another man in public without him freaking out. I know there is no reason for this! I don't know why he is so jealous and insecure! I have NEVER cheated on him. He has even gone so far as to accuse me of claiming someone else's baby as his (when his son looks JUST LIKE HIM)!

I am sick of feeling like I have to creep around to keep the few friendships with other men that I have left.

*To explain, I grew up with these guys, we went to youth group together and it has always been platonic between us. We are like blood.

Why won't he trust me? I have never lied to him! I feel like it is poisoning our relationship..

2007-08-26 14:22:52 · 10 answers · asked by la_frou_frou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Buenos Aires, Argentina with my girlfriend. She has two children, boy 16 and girl 15. They use to ask for a taste of wine or beer during dinner but more recently seem to expect that they can drink a glass of wine or beer with dinner. Is this common, normal, and/or healthy?

2007-08-26 14:22:49 · 4 answers · asked by mitscherman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-26 14:22:26 · 4 answers · asked by smiley 3 in Family

2007-08-26 14:21:24 · 8 answers · asked by smiley 3 in Family

I caught my husband wearing one of my panties. He didnt look to bad in there but a lil funny though so you think I should make him my little lingerie slave????

2007-08-26 14:20:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i reconected with an old friend 3 months ago,ever since then he has been asking to hang out together but honestly im still not sure if i want to see him in person.the thing that bothers me is he only calls me 2 or 3 times during the month and to me thats not being a real friend.we discussed this prob before and he did better for a while but of course he slacked off so basically its an off and on thing he does.even though we are only friends i feel if he wants to spend time with me he should make a better effort to contact me.does anyone agree? what do you guys think?

2007-08-26 14:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Friends

I have tried to figure out what girls look for in men by observing the couples who come into my store (I am the supervisor) and see what the guys have in common. The only thing I can really see is that all the guys with girls my age (early twenties) buy alot of beer! Sometimes nothing but case loads of alcohol.

I have always heard that girls today drink and party non-stop, but that presents a problem for me. I have never had a drink in my life and can't start ( coming from a long line of of alcoholics). I used to be very shy but it is starting to go away. i am just worried that when the issue of drinking comes up with a girl, none will ever see me again when they find out I am always sober. What should I do?

2007-08-26 14:18:41 · 29 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the story. I'm 17 (I'll be 18 in exactly a month). This past March, this 22 year old guy that I have known for about four years finally confessed to me that he liked me. I was so flattered because I have never had a boyfriend and he was, in my eyes the perfect guy. We went out one night and hung out with him and his friends and just kissed a little in his car. After he dropped me off, he kissed me and called me before I went to bed to wish me goodnight. I thought everything was perfect and we would be together. However, after that night he didn't call me or even talk to me. My friend talked to me in Chemistry the next day and said she saw him at a party and him and this punk rock chick went upstairs and had sex. So I e-mailed him and basically said **** you for breaking my heart. He sent me a long one back saying that he simply could not date a 17 year old because it made him uncomfortable. He told me that he liked me and would be with me when I turned 18. What should I do?

2007-08-26 14:17:54 · 22 answers · asked by Holly 3 in Singles & Dating