Im 15 and have never had a boyfriend?
its kind of weird because i way 154 pounds but i dont think inm that fat. im 5.7 ft tall. and when i look in the mirror i allways wonder what it is about me that isint good enough. im a bit shy but once people get to know me im pretty crazy. ive never had a drink and i dont doo drugs and i dont feel comfortable curseing in front of others. and what is even weirder is that when i see adults that havent seen me in years they are ike"omg your soo beautiful", or when my neighbors see me they say"youve lost weight" or when old teachers see me there like wow you gotten so much taller and so beautiful." why dont guys feel the same way?? i know i can be a very romantic and great girlfriend. why dosent anyone like me??? it sometimes feels like ill spend the rest of my life alone. teenage boys: whats your point of veiw about my situation? Everyone tells me i dont need one but when i see my friends with thiers i ijust want that special someone. you know?
2007-08-26 15:45:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also fear rejection!. cuz when i was in 7th grade...my [[fat]] stage. i liked this boy and when i told him he called me the ugliest girl he ever saw. and its weird how a girl will remember those coments years later. and when i see him in the halls at school i still glare at him. i just afraid of getting hurt again.
2007-08-26 16:09:56 · update #1
Im around the same age as you and dont worry about not having a boyfriend. People say the same things to me and your time will come. You will have your first boyfriend and you will realize that nothing is wrong with you. I used to have the same problem you have now and I realized just last year that once I started flirting with the guys I liked the guys started to take an interest into me. Maybe the problem is is that the guys dont know you are interested. Sometimes you have to make the first move and then let the guys come towards you. I totally know what you are talking about when you say you want that special someone in your life. Try my suggestions and see what will happen. Good Luck!!!
2007-08-26 16:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by fishingfroggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was there- about 38 years ago! I know, you think I'm an "old fogie" but the years pass very, very quickly and I remember that time in my life like it was yesterday! It's tough to see your friends starting to go out with guys- I know cuz I was the one who was always alone, never going to parties because I didn't have a boyfriend, didn't drink or smoke or use drugs. I was a band "geek" and even my friends from band and orchestra were "busier" with the opposite sex than I ever was. BUT GUESS WHAT???? I met someone when I was almost 17, married him, had 3 beautiful daughters and now I have 3 awesome grandkids, too! I'll bet you're a terrific girl- you sound sensible and smart- don't change that for ANYONE! Don't do stupid things just for a guy. It WILL happen for you. Maybe not til you're in college, where there will be a much larger wealth of nice boys with the same goals and interests as you. Don't rush things- I know it's hard- but for now, just continue to do well in school, make lots of friends, maybe do some volunteer work. I won't wish you "good luck" cuz I think you're already a lucky person- sounds like your parents have done a super job and have a great daughter! But, keep your chin up and try not to fret too much. Your time WILL come- promise!!!
2007-08-26 16:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by nanny411 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
High school relationships never last and usually only cause the two involved lots and lots of pain. I'd be totally against them if they weren't so good at teaching lessons and giving people a nice learning experience. So trust me, you really aren't missing anything.
And you shouldn't worry about "not being pretty enough". You don't want a guy who only wants you for your looks, those guys are the worst! The right guy will come along one day who likes you for you, you've just got to be a little more patient. Everybody has someone out there for them, and you're only 15, so you've got plenty of time to find him :)
2007-08-26 16:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Your Highness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you don't want the "you are too young speech", in which case we shall try something else! First of all don't be desperate. guys do not want a girl that is too easy. Going to the mall to meet guys is considered being too desperate and easy. Try to get invited to parties and you will definitely meet some one. By the way guys want a girl that is nice, the fact that you have not kissed and been with anyone makes you special. Many guys that you just don't know may actually think you are cool!
2016-05-18 22:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me! Just be patient!!! I had my first last year! I was 17 and I'm still hurting after our break up. I've only had that one boyfriend. I went out with him twice! You'll get hurt and so will you're friends. Enjoy being single! Plus, it's not like you are going to experience love any time soon. Guys you're age aren't as mature.........
2007-08-26 15:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your problem is that you're shy.You have to loosen up.I sure you are beautiful.Your time will come, believe me.Here are some tips Try being friendly not too friendly and Keep your head on because boys love to play around with girls heads.Dont be too hurry to make love
2007-08-26 15:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Dopeboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just stay the way u r. Some probably likes u but is too shy to tell u so be patient. I know some people who like me but they're just too shy to tell me. mail me i'm Silvia_atil on yahoo. ok i' young cant tell here though. ^-^
2007-08-26 16:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are OK for now. You never got early worried and pain. enjoy being single.Spend time to yourself pomper.
2007-08-26 15:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it stay single and make some guy friends and then take it from there
2007-08-26 16:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋