my step cousin has been calling me upset and in tears, sometimes i cant understand her words. but one thing she makes clear is that she says she want to die, just die. and that she's more likely to die from her own two hands than a car accident or something. I know she's been through some tough times in the past year, but i would have thought she would be over it by now. But seems as if her world is alway gray, she could be happy for a few, then she falls again*out of the blue*. I want to help her, but dont know were to began. I dont even really know whats wrong, because if you as her she would say.
''i cant explain, i just feel it''
2007-08-26 14:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by DJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think ur cousin really needs help...try to see her and ask her what happened..make her feel dat u can help her..and try to tell she needs to talk to a professional b4 she end up killing her self..try to be with her..and be friends..try to go to other places like cinema..sumthing fun to distract her from her problems....try to understand ur cousin as possible...she realy needs sumone to be with her...i hope i helped..
2007-08-26 14:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer realllllllly..... particularly no rely if it is your somewhat on the spot cousin. If it replaced into like your third cousin, 2 situations bumped off or in spite of, even with the reality that unusual, yet per danger greater desirable ideal? it is often frowned upon even with the reality that.
2016-11-13 11:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by oppie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Sounds like she is either overly dramatic or in a depression.
It would be best to talk to someone in the family that you both
trust and see why she feels the way she does. She may need
to see a therapist.
2007-08-26 14:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. She is being verbal now and that is one scary thing about suicidal people. Say something positive to her. Take her to a movie or to the mall. When she is telling you that she is crying for help.
2007-08-26 14:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by prettyjewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is challenging at times as it is...she needs to see a counsellor or/and a doctor... talk on the phone to one...if not that...she can email one....chat online about her things.
2007-08-26 14:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Veevee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like panic attacks, see a Dr. I would suggest.
2007-08-26 14:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you need to tell your folks and hers. is good that you want to help but it sounds as though she needs a professional. the fact that she just "feels it" is kind of scary.
2007-08-26 14:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey get to her and be with her...who knows what she may do...these are threats that i wouldnt put to the side...my moms friend said the same things and we just ignored him...then we got the call that he shot himself
2007-08-26 14:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is really depressed and won't talk to you then tell a family member what's going on with her and how concerned you are.
2007-08-26 14:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
therapy and lots of it is needed
2007-08-26 14:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by BOOMER SOONER FAN!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋