I just broke up with my fiancé it looks like me and my cousin are in the same boat my cousin on here is lenny check my contacts you will found her. I don't understand guys why they have to lie, cheat and try to impress then turn you against the people you love. Red flags I caught before we got married. Some of the same issues caused us both to wake up which I am glad we did.
1. Postpone wedding supposedly we weren't finance secure2. Berating everybody that he has even been confronted on problems he runs away. 3. Doing illegal drugs l4. Getting credit cards in my name without permission and I never signed for any pf those credit cards what do I tell the credit? 5. Confronted about money and the cards he has left me 5 horrible voice mails and about 3 to 5 nasty text which I am keeping on my phone. So was my choice the right thing to do break up with him and not accept anymore calls or do anything else and just going on living my life? And what can I do from here I am in my early thirties and feel alone except for family. But I am scared of him please advise what my next step should be?
2007-08-26 14:12:23 · 3 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You took the right decision by breaking off with him. He was a cheat, keep you, use you and throw you and i think he doesnt deserve you. All men are not like that so one thing for sure dont lose hope and one day you will find someone who will keep you happy and wont cheat. Dont be scared of him, he wont be able to do anything to you. if he is in touch with you and coming outside your home, call the police right away and they will take care of him. Leave you messages, keep them all and call the police and complain to them and in case something happens to you which i m pretty sure wont happen they know who to get and they will also warn him to stay away from you. Same thing happened to my friend and she called police on him, got him arrested and now he is no where near her. Once it gets thru his head that you dont want to be with him, he wont bother you and he will move on and u also move on. Look for another prince for yourself and enjoy your life.Best of LUck
2007-08-26 14:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by luvis4losers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your scared of him and sure its over you can always go to the court and get an order of protection, and then you can violate him on it everytime he calls or comes by your place. In my state you can get an order of protection for free and there doesnt have to be any abuse, the person applying for it just needs to be scared and feel unsafe. If they dont have OFP in your state then get a restraining order and then violate him on it everytime he violates it and he'll get sick enough of jail eventually and leave you alone!!!
2007-08-26 21:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by juniper555 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were most definitely right to end things with him. His actions are not above suspicion, his reaction to legitimate questions is troublesome, and his treatment of you heinous. Someone who avoids problems, subjects you to ill treatment, bills things to credit under your name, does illegal drugs...You shouldn't even have to ask if you were right to end things.
2007-08-26 21:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by LunaRossa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋