Am I being paranoid?

Question

I've been experimenting with my sexuality for about a year now, and about 6 months ago I befriended a girl who lives in another state. The two of us grew really close, and 15 weeks ago, we began an internet relaitonship. We keep in contact via MSN, SMS and email. We love one another deeply, and for her, I am her first love. Recently, though, she has not been returning my 'I love you's' and I am a little worried. On her Myspace page, some quizzes say I'm not the first person she's been in love with (despite her telling I am), that she's hooked up with someone whilst we were dating, that she's fallen out of love with someone in recent months and so on. I'm trying to think I'm being plain old paranoid, and my friends say I am, but my gut instinct says I have reason to be suspicious, even though I truly trust her. It's more a matter of her behaviour being completely out of character for her! What on earth do i do without hurting her and making sure we don't break up?! I really do love her!

I am not sure what my age has to do with it, but i'm 19 and she's 18. It's not so much the lack of 'I love you's' as the whole 'hooked up with someone else' issue - I asked her, and she says she never lies on those quizzes. It might seem stupid, but I'm terrified we're slowly but surely falling apart, and to top that off, I think she might be a little depressed and I'm afraid all of this will push her over the edge.

Answer 1

Women are very social creatures, they want everyone to like them. So don't get unhappy if she is not saying I love you every time you turn around. By the way, are you under 18?
My husband used to say better be a para-noid than a single noid.!

Answer 2

i presumed i became paranoid while my ex-spouse and her daughter consistently looked as though it could have strangely alternating textual content cloth messages. All 3 people interior the comparable room and one telephone could beep. Then,the others could beep. etc etc. i could no longer help yet think of it incredibly is extraordinary. I checked her telephone on a textual content cloth message hunt. They have been texting one yet another, with suggestions of what to tell me so as that they could sneak out and play with the boys who had dope.Paranoid no,divorced specific.