One of my friends friends (guy) has been casually flirting and kissing this girl at parties. He just asked her out on an official date and wanted an idea of a cute place to take her that would make for a good evening, but not coming on too strong or too weak. Any suggestions?
2007-08-26 12:39:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First the don’t-s:
Nothing to expensive. Don’t invest a lot of money into the first date. All guys try to spend to impress.
Nothing romantic. It’s too early to be romantic.
No place loud or where you can’t talk. Like a concert, movie, sporting event.
Now the do-s:
Pick three places and spend no longer than 45 mins in any of them. Pick venues that escalate in activity.
Here is a short list of my favorites.
1. Go to a book store and pickup a copy of 100 places you must visit before you die. Have her randomly open it to a page.
Now think of craziest way to get there. Would hitch-hick, stole away on a train, charter a small plain, etc…?
What would you do there?
Etc…
Cost Free
2. Buy a disposable camera go to the park and take random fun pictures of one another. Ask someone else to take pictures of the two of you together. Use the photos as an excuse to together later.
Cost $5.00 - $10.00
3. Buy a disposable camera go to a custom shop. Try on different customs and take pictures of one and another. Same as before.
4. One game of laser tag. Make sure you are on the same team. This way you are a team watching out for each other.
Cost $6.00-$8.00 each person
Bottom line you have to do something different than the other guys. Something fun! Something that she’ll remember.
2007-08-26 13:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the usual. That'll make him seem sweet, traditional, and likeable. Here are some GOOD and some BAD places to go for a first date...
GOOD PLACES
- ice cream: ice cream followed by a walk in the park. This will give them an opportunity to sit, talk, and even kiss. Perhaps by a river bank would be nice, with a bench. My boy took me there and we cuddled while we ate our ice cream. It was sweet.
- on a walk: get some minnie doughnuts, and go for a walk
- to dinner: somewhere not to fancy (you don't want to show off), but not to dumpy (like mcdonalds). Maybe a middle of the road, fairly priced, restaurant which serves your basic food (chicken fingers, steak, chicken). That will give them the chance to talk. Then that should be followed by a walk. Walks always help two people get to know each other.
BAD PLACES
- the movies: doesn't give your friend an chance to bond with this girl, which is the main goal in every new relationship. They need to develop trust and knowing of the person, so they can accuratly judge if they truly like them.
- the bar: too noisy, not a good time. Makes the guy come off cheap, undesireable, and builds no trust in a girls eye. Will actually make the girl, not trust the guy
- minnie-golfing: I've tried it, it wasn't a good idea. You just can't talk and you get to competitive.
Well, the basic idea is go somewhere were you can talk. A place that's quiet, relatively empty, and personable. These things help build trust, and you get to know the person.
Hope this helps!
2007-08-26 19:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anywhere is the best place as long as the guy is really love u with true heart...
If the guy only wanna play play and enjoy with girl, then everywhere is the good place...
No need to ask, just follow the guy, if he really love u, he will never force u to do anythings u don't wish to do...
Good Luck...
Cheers...
2007-08-27 05:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A romantic place of course like in a boat or ship to move around whiles you tell her more love words or about you. or they can go and eat at a restaurant where they will be surround by candles.
2007-08-26 19:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by darlingK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ice cream shop and a walk in the park.
2007-08-26 19:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what about the classic lunch date? you can get to know each other and its nothing serious.
2007-08-26 19:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Chi-Town Chick! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
movie, park, casual place for lunch. . .
2007-08-26 19:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by majestic tripe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know how about mini put put and a good restraint not cheep but not to expensive
2007-08-26 19:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by marinabeth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Movies, mall, park, your house/his house (if you are comfortable), etc.
2007-08-26 19:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Carly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
bowling, a movie, to the park. ; )
2007-08-26 19:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by famishedartist 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋