2007-08-26 18:47:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes. You are very correct. After marriage the sons get attracted by their wives and most of the time they never care for their old parents.
Whereas the daughters always show their love to the parents even after their marriage and going to husband's or in-laws place. The care more for the welfare of the aged parents.-
2007-08-26 19:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jayaraman 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Hi, Rani... This may be right in some cases but not in all. It depends upon person to person. I think that after marriage an other new type of responsibility come in existence on the shoulders of son, from the day of marriage he has to make an equilibrium between his wife & parents, so that both should not feel that their rights are lost after marriage. Now it is the son who can manage this in a right way by keeping both sides happy, for this he has to adopt diplomatic theory so that parents never feel that their right on their son have been ceased after marriage & at the same time wife also think that she has got a caring husband. If a son be albe to make equilibrium between the two sides then your question may be wrong. If he cann't do this then you (Raja ki Rani) will be right & people will say that after marriage son has changed etc. On the other side lets talk about daughters, in this case i agree with you that daughters are more loving & caring specially towards their parerts. Actually for this quality females are powered by God. They always proved worthy in all types of relations i.e. more affectionate & faithfull towards others.
2007-08-27 15:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sukhbir (chdpac) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since Son remains always close to his parents while as daughter leaves home after marriage. so the daughter remains daughter because her love and life grows away from parents while as same is true for the son but before the eyes of parents having his wife on his side so he has to face the brent of his and her wife's doings. thus seems there after less son and more noticibly share holder that is why your question arises.
2007-08-27 08:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Er. Malik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont accept it… wherever they go still they are sons to their mama… u told tat daughters remain daughters I accept it… But the daughters when becomes someones wife and wants to rule the family by separating the son and mother…. So wives who separates (who is a daughter to her parents) do not care about the relationship between the parent and the child(son)…
2007-08-26 22:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by sprite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
son remains son wife daughter remains daughter comment
2016-02-02 05:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Janean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very true.after marring the son is attached to his wife and is least bothers for his parents. Where as the daughter is more affectionate to her parents even after her marriage.If she hears from any one that her parents are not well she immediately rushes to their rescue and do whatever best she could do on the contrary if the son gets same message ,he will avoid all and Find out some lame excuses to shell-out the responsibility.
2007-08-27 02:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by guddu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree with you 100% but after a man is married, he finds it difficult to balance between satisfying his parents & his wife.Hence there are always conflicts between husband & wife regarding the same although a man will never admit it.However in case of women, they are able to put their priorities right and know how to balance between their parents, siblings, husband, their children etc simply bcoz the parents of a girl are more open towards believing that their daughter is now married and has a family of her own to look after.On the other hand, a man's parents still believe that after their son is married, he still has to look after his aged parents and so does the daughter-in-law; which is fair enough, I guess, since it is in the Indian culture to look after our aged parents.
In conclusion, I would love to have only girl babies....
2007-08-26 19:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are right my dear i do agree with you,that is our society
and culture. Daughters really spend more time with their parents to look after them. It is true son gets caught in the middle of wife and mum,as they say one can not serve 2 masters so it is very hard for son to please both of them.If wife and mum likes each other it is nice and well otherwise it is hell.
2007-08-27 03:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The moment your son and daughter was born God bless you with them. They are always forever to be your loving family. When they get married your family only extended to a son-in-law and daughter-in-law. You will be forever more bless when you have grandkids. They all are yours in your life until God calls them. God Bless
2007-08-26 19:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like things did not work for you the way you wanted. Love always flows, and the flow is always forward. parents can love the children and children will love their own children and family. The flow of the river of love does not go back wards. Now if you say i loved him so it is his duty to love me back, then i would say this was not love it was business, a give and take policy. As long as you are a parent, children will be children. Sounds like some of your needs are not met, as your self what those needs are from within, it could be economic, social and emotional, most of the time it is the emotional needs that cause problems. The power that you have lost in makeing your son independent, he is managing his life with out you, itself is threatening, as long as his needs were there he was with you. Your happiness lies in seeing your children managing their lives well, if they succeed it is your success, because thats what you want of them. Happiness. It is time to watch, if your son smiles back at you occassionally take that as a bonus, because it is given to you voluntarily and not demanded.
Coming to you daughters, daughters model you, care, love, loyalty etc. Being women they are able to connect to you emotionally. Thats the difference, besides, you are in a mind set that daughters are to care for their husbands, where as the sons have to take care of their parents, The truth is no one needs to take care of anyone. We all come alone and go alone, hence we all need to take care of our own needs, life's transitions are always painful, but believe me we add a lot of growth when we understand this truth.
When children are small, and mothers are so stressed out, it is normal for a mother to think "when will this one grow up soon and start walking" We constantly think independence of our children, when they finally become independent we feel left out, it is normal, and its the fact. Be happy that you have been a good parent, who raised children who are independent, if you miss your children let them know you miss them and want to be with them for some time, respect is want we all earn it does not come in a golden platter, allow them to be who they are.
2007-08-27 01:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋