Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

There's this guy in school I met three weeks ago. We sit next to eachother in science. We didn't really talk. But, the the first week of school we had a Church dance and while I was at it, he asked me to dance. Several times actaully. I said yes, because your not supposed to say "no". Plus, it was the nice thing to do. I found we're both in the same religion and such.

And now, he really really likes me. He walks me to class, encourages me, and has invited me to do things with him... Now don't get me wrong, he's really nice, and I like him as a friend, but I just don't feel that way about him. There's no butterflies in my stomach or anything.

I'm not sure what to do, we aren't going out, but I can tell he definately likes me, he's flirting and talking to me and such. I want to know the easiest way to hint at him that I'm not interested, without totally breaking his heart.

2007-08-24 17:20:14 · 11 answers · asked by Carly 3 in Singles & Dating

I am involved in ASB of my school. One of my ASB members is this beautiful girl named Jessi (fake name). She's very outgoing, kind, and beautiful. But she and I come from very different worlds. She's a cheerleader and has set of friends in more preppy and atheleticc areas... and I have friends who are more into Academic, Musical, and Art area.

I know some of you may say to find another person... but everytime I see her at a meeting I can't help the feeling I get of wanting to get to know her better. I want to ask her out... but I don't want to make the ASB meetings awkward by doing so. Because I only know her through ASB meetings... I don't know if she even has a bf... who she likes... or if she even thinks of me as a friend. What should I do? If not ask her out how can i even get to know her better?

2007-08-24 17:17:45 · 5 answers · asked by alexpark529 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so bad about my life, like I'm such a loser because I haven't got things together yet. I'm 23 and I have been living with my husband for 4 years now. We moved away from home because we are from such a small town there are no jobs and no school. Since then we have moved so many times and it seems like nothing ever works out for us, anywhere we go. The first place we moved, my husband got laid off and couldn't find another job in town, so we had to move again. BTW he makes the money, I still haven't completed college, so if he doesn't have a good job, we can't make it. So we had to move again and I couldn't get into the college there (Im trying for the radiography program, but it was so competitive there was a 5 year waiting list!) so we moved somewhere that had a good college for me, and I got a good job here, but now my husband hurt his back at work and lost his job because he can't work it anymore after getting hurt, but he has a job offer in another city now that sounds...

2007-08-24 17:14:58 · 9 answers · asked by Shilo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am confused... my relationship is pretty good as of now.... today was great... but sometimes... it gets bad... pretty bad where we say we want to end this... I really am scared of it getting bad again and then it might be too late. Should I leave sooner or later? and is it fare for the kids... ?? am I being selfish... oh yeah... there is a lot of verbal mental abuse going on...

2007-08-24 17:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 17:12:45 · 21 answers · asked by Tumbles 1 in Family

Ok so ive noticed that if a girl turns down a guy by saying "Sorry no i just like you more as a brother"

It hurts them more than us girls just saying "no i dont want to go out with you" whats so wrong about a girl liking you more as a brother or why do you hate them saying that if you like them if you dont understand just tell me and ill put more deatils

2007-08-24 17:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by Daniela17 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-24 17:08:31 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom thinks that I can't go to my best friends house just because her mom won't let her come over to my house. The reason she can't come over is that her mom thinks my dad is a creep, which he isn't, so now I can't see my best friend. Does that seem unfair or is that unfair? My mom thinks that just cause my friends mom can't find time to chat, that i can't socialize with her daughter. Some one explain why mothers are such a pain in the ***.

2007-08-24 17:06:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm having a garage sale next weekend. How much change/bills and in what denominations should I get? FYI - all items are in 25 cent intervals.

2007-08-24 17:06:10 · 2 answers · asked by mender_bender2001 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am almost 19 and I have been shy around girls ever since I can remember. I was never able to tell any of my crushes how I felt or ask them out or anything. I am going to college this fall and never had a girlfriend or even a first kiss, I am way to shy to even approach girls. . I just dont feel that women are attracted to me. I dont know why. I am really athletic and built, I am good looking I think never been told otherwise, kind honest and respectful, pretty smart, can have fun doing just about anything, but I just feel like I am unattractive for some reason. I dont know how to stop the shyness either, even the few girls I knew was still shy around them. So I was wondering if I dont need my Testicles can I sell them, I want to become antisexual and have no attraction towards woman cuz they dont towards me. Or if you know any other way to become antisexual please tell me?????????????

2007-08-24 17:04:28 · 19 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is the farthest thing from help too. I hate sleeping in the bed with the two of them. They toss and turn and kick and it's not a pleasant night. I would rather sleep on the couch. But that's getting old now too. And on top of not getting any rest no matter where I sleep, intimacy is completely out of the question. I don't want to make my wife choose between me and her daughter, but it's getting to the point that I don't know any other option. Can someone who has had this problem please help?

2007-08-24 17:03:52 · 14 answers · asked by Des-n-Jes 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to spice up a nice night for me and my husband. what as a man would you like your wife or girlfriend to do? what works for you?

If your a lady and decided to answer... what works best? what does he seem to like

serious answers please!

Thank you

2007-08-24 17:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an uncircumsised penis and on many occasions have heard girls and guys talk about how gross it is. I do not want a bad reputation which im sure i will get if people find out. Why do people find something god gave them to be disgusting? it just makes no sense to me and i see no reason for it. I guess i will have to live the rest of my life in embarassment because of a decision my parents made when i was born. Any advice?

2007-08-24 17:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by Metjetfan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay,a couple days ago, I asked about my sister's ex. Most of the answers came back as "NEVER DATE UR SIS'S EX." Well, I dont know why it just hit me, but I remembered something. SHE IS CURRENTLY GOING OUT WITH MY EX. So do I go out with hers to get back at her? Or be fair? I really like Josh. And I think he likes me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!

2007-08-24 16:56:26 · 40 answers · asked by It's me 1 in Singles & Dating

The last thing I thought I would miss at boarding school are my parents. I mean I never feel homesick! But honestly right now I WANT MY MOMMY!!!!! I'm about to start crying even though I love the school! I wasn't expecting to feel this way! I can go home on the weekends but not this or the next weekend and I just want to be home right now! Seriously! Really Badly! And my roomate doesn't really speak english and we haven't said a word to each other in the past hour and I really can't start crying even though I'm biting my lip to stop from crying but I don't want to have to explain to her why I'm crying so someone please say something to comfort me!!!! Just something to make me feel better!? I'm so sad.

2007-08-24 16:56:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Throughout my teens I was never really that into sex but now it's all i think about, even have a few toys, just not anyone to do it with. I mean yea I'm a lil scared but I really think I'm ready and looking for some pointers. I don't consider myself ugly, could loose some weight though. For a long time I hid behind the fact I was a bigger girl but now I just want to go out and experience life. O yeah I have never even really kissed a guy, so it's a lil embarrassing and I'm kinda unsur of myself.

2007-08-24 16:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been wanting a baby for a while now. We already have kids. My husband didn't want another. He surprised me one day and said he did. I asked if he was sure (I don't want a kid w/ someone who doesn't). He was sure. Now, he says that was just to be nice. I think this is the meanest thing he could have done. I actually thought I might have another kid and I was really happy. What possible reason could he have for doing something so mean?

2007-08-24 16:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by nynasethi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 16:48:35 · 16 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Family

People are waiting until they're older and older to get married nowadays. Is it just women that want to do this, or is it both genders?

2007-08-24 16:41:40 · 11 answers · asked by Michael F 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tries to keep me from excelling. He always says 'im not good enough,' and he purposely will not help me do something because he wants to see me fail. He tells lies saying that my friends phone him and tell him bad things about me, trying to brake up our friendships. He is an adult (27) and Im 22. The problem is that I dont have much family or friends to stay with and we live together. I want to leave but dont know where to go. Im looking for a job, but until then Im pretty much broke. He's not very goodlooking and kinda overweight. I dont know if thats a factor, but I know I can find better. The problem is I have no resources yet to get out and find better. He is not physically abusive, but definetly emotionally. What should I do??

2007-08-24 16:40:13 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont get what did i do wrong??? i just dont understand! my ex and i had about 2 months going out am 15 and he is 17! i found out he played on me with another girl and we broke up! but i dont get it! was it my fault he cheated on me? all my friends and his friends saw i was a good girlfriend! my familly loved him and so did i! was it my fault? i feel terrible and guilty! i loved him sooo much!

2007-08-24 16:38:47 · 45 answers · asked by Sexy Cecy 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM A BLACK FEMALE WHO IS MORE ATTRACTED TO WHITE MEN. BUT IM TOO NERVOUS TO APPROACH THEM BECAUSE THEY MIGHT NOT LIKE ME BACK. AND THIS GUY WHO I HAVE A CRUSH ON IS WHITE. I WAS JUST WONDERING... WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT DATING BLACK WOMEN?

2007-08-24 16:36:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 16:36:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I don't have sex very often anymore, Probably 1-2 times a month. He pleasures himself quite often, watching porn online (anywhere from once every couple days, to twice a day sometimes)
I asked him about it not very long ago & his response was that he is usually hornier at only certain times a day (always seems to be when I'm not home or asleep)
I mention us having sex to him like every other day, & he's not so much in thew mood most times.

Do you think it's because he's not very attracted to me anymore?

2007-08-24 16:29:44 · 23 answers · asked by Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, as you all probably know, i have alot of problems with my parents after this whole divorce thing. My mom told me that they were getting a divorce in June. I saw that i had a new message on my phone so i picked it up and listened to it. It was from some guy i didn't know. It was like 'I love you...I miss you...I wish i could be laying next to you right now'. I asked my mom if she knew who that guy was (i used his actual name). She did. Turns out she's been going out with him since 2004. He was the guy who built our house in 2004. My mom told me that her and my dad had gotten a divorce before that...but they lived with eachother until 2007. My mom still even wears my dad's engagement ring. I'm just so confused. I feel so sad. She used to be like a role model to me. My mom tells me that i need to stop being so dramatic. I'm not trying to be. It really does hurt...more than the divorce did. How can i get her to realize how i feel? Please, only constructive advice. Thank you.

2007-08-24 16:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out when I came back from going to the bathroom and she was taking money from the Monopoly bank. I flipped out and said that I can't play or be with someone who cheats and made her leave. The next day she apologized for cheating. I don't know if I trust her

2007-08-24 16:27:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We r supose to b in a 5 month old relation.It was hapen lik ds i call her an she kept on rejectn dn she sms me im in a movie in evenin she cal me back she was lik my friend were there al from my school aftr askin u dnt knw them an startn takin names i neva heard.Her boysfull(i hope u knw wat i meant) orkut acount trouble me 2.Nw a days she often ask me wat wil u do if i go on wth other guy.Sory for shortform hope u al friend put on fair decision i dnt wana screw my relation.If posible tel me way 2 caught her red handed atleast sumway 2 confirm wats goin in my mind.Thanku al.Dnt ans crapythngs i plea

2007-08-24 16:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by aniket p 2 in Singles & Dating

OKAY.... So i want to make my boyfriend feel "loved" again and make him feel "happy" and "special"! but i dnt kno how?!?!?! SOO PLEASE guys give me some advice to what i should do.. like plan a date or suprise him somehow?? and what way?? HELP! HELP! PLEASE! ((LoL))

2007-08-24 16:21:06 · 12 answers · asked by ..LostnConfused.. 1 in Singles & Dating

why do people always mix SEX and LOVE????
sex is just sex stop mixing the 2 together!!!!
if your mixing them you'd have to be in love and it's called making love not sex. so explain why people mix them together.

2007-08-24 16:20:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Few years back I met this guy ...i developed a crush on him...but never expressed my feeling. Few days back I saw that guy's profile on a site and i contacted him. I loved that guy's sense of humour and company.Great person to be friends with. I am married and have a girl...he is married and a son as well. We started exchanging messages and have becme really good friends. I did tell my husband about him but not in depth. I have a beautiful marriage but this friendship shows me world from a different perspective. I enjoy it a lot. He has also several times expressed his likeness for me.But i try not to talk about emotions etc.
Am i doing anything wrong by having him as a friend? If i know my limits..can i continue my friendship? according to him..he knws where our relationship would lead to. I told him clearly that my family comes first and i can never do anything to hurt him. I have developed a strange interest in him and i can't think of a day ...when i would not chat with him. Help

2007-08-24 16:18:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships