Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

Last nite...really i am shocking about him. He told me that he did spy on my mobile phone..and he know everything messages that i had sent.... very shock... he said he afraid he will lose me and he wanna know wheter I honest or not.but his action shown he didn't believe in me. How come. HOW TO SETTLE THIS PROBLEM?

2007-08-24 15:45:37 · 1 answers · asked by Apple Ling 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so, my mom and dad are divorced, and now i live with my mom and stepdad in Wisconsin. my real dad moved to Florida, and i wold love to go live with him for a while. I'm 13, and i would LOVE to know what age i legally have a choice of who i live with... thanks much for your help :)



AND::: I was also wondering.. how would i break it to my mom that I want to live with my dad. Ive lived with my mom my entire life and she would be heartbroken if i left. but im getting so bored up here and want a change. so any tips on how i would tell my mom???

2007-08-24 15:45:25 · 4 answers · asked by Pilot28 4 in Family

My boyfriend just bought a house a month a go...but i want to be close to my friends how do i convince him to move..

2007-08-24 15:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by KK 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think I was blessed with good looks or not...I tried starting conversation with a girl and she said I was ugly and walked away. Here's a couple pictures.
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2007-08-24 15:44:18 · 4 answers · asked by uhkafee 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are very serious. he has already asked my parents permission to marry me. But he is leaving to the air force in January. I dont know what would be best for us... Should i marry him??

2007-08-24 15:44:15 · 13 answers · asked by brittbritt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 years old , joined a college in uk last year !! I have confusing background ( partly russian,partly persian and partly tatar) !! From what people say apparently I am really good looking and have a good sense of fashion ( Not being arrogant , its just what i've heard from different people which i guess over time I believed in it) !! I am a bit geeky ( my subjects were maths , physics and furthermaths) !!

I found a friend after being 5 months at that college !! he was english and was the school's straight A student ( but he was cool and quite good looking) !! once I was talking to him on msn and was talking about the hottest girl at school and whether he thinks she is gonna go out with me or not !!! he said " forget about her m8, she is out of your league " !! what he said made me lose a lot of confidence !! I mean during that 5 months I knew that a russian girl and a serbian girl and 2 english girls had a crush on me !!! I mean i dont get it.. why wud he say that 2 me ?? :-(

2007-08-24 15:42:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes she stares back. How and when should I make the first move?

2007-08-24 15:41:25 · 29 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys I really need some help with my dilemma, I feel like I have been stuck here and I am finally ready to move on...but need a bit of encouragement!
I am a 21 year old girl and recently finished my degree at university. My best friend - who is a guy - is a year older and we met on my first day of uni by chance, and have been friends ever since.
I was not attracted to him when we first met, but a few weeks into knowing him, and over the last 4 years I have fallen for him, despite him having a long term relationship (which ended), and me dating other guys.
This year we were both out of uni and working, however got heaps closer to the point where I was totally in love with him. We have never made out or anything, on the surface its purely friendship.
The problem is he is SO not my type, as in physically, we look totally wrong togther, and also his religious persuasion doesn't allow us to get married (unless I convert). So either way it wouldnt work out in the end...

2007-08-24 15:40:26 · 15 answers · asked by freegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Like doing something. Or saying something. Or anything really. What do you wish i girl would do for you?

2007-08-24 15:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by Rawrimadinosaur 2 in Singles & Dating

In my family, I'm the last one to know anything. I just knew my great-grandmother was sick, and found out from talking to my cousin that she's dying of lung cancer. No one was going to tell me till she was on her death bed. I didn't know my brother dropped out of school or had a drug problem until after my cousins who live hundreds of miles away. I also didn't know my brother, whom I'm very close to, joined the marines until I overheard my mom talking to my grandmother on the phone TWO WEEKS LATER!!! I also found out my mom was engaged through my grandma, who assumed I already knew about a month later, and my mom still has never officially "told" me. It just makes me mad that I have to hear things from other people even when it concerns me, which it has on occasion. How can I tell my parents I feel left out without making it seem I blame them for not telling me anything, though I do, I just don't want to make them feel guilty. I know they are probably just trying to protect me.

2007-08-24 15:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by The Broken Doll 4 in Family

I need the perfect song to honor my wonderful Dad. He died just 4 years ago. I was 12.

2007-08-24 15:36:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Family

My gf and I have been going out for over 2 years. For the last few months, we have kinda been on and off. For the last couple of weeks, we have been fighting almost everyday. Every time we make up and stop fighting, it's as if nothing has ever happened. So I guess you can say our relationship is extreme. It's either we're really happy or really sad/ angry at each other.

Everytime we fight, it feels as though I want to break up. And we fight about stupid things (I.E. I forget something, I do something she doesnt like...) At all other times, I love her so much, I wouldnt even think of breaking up.

I know this might be a little confusing to some (I'm not big on explaining situations), but what should I do?

2007-08-24 15:35:50 · 22 answers · asked by morefriedr1ce 1 in Singles & Dating

What can i do to keep my a*ss...?lol i dnt wanna lose it, but i want to lose weight, although i usually lose most of my weight in my stomache..but what do u suggest?

2007-08-24 15:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thing is I have to see all of them constantly, and if I confront them and they are mad, I won't have any friends left and things will be really awkward. I really don't know what to do.

2007-08-24 15:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Kimberly 1 in Friends

i love this guy .he is very friendly with my dad also. but i dont know wheather does he loves me o not. is there anything he call my father. but yesterday night i have recieved one sms from him. he never di this before . his sms is like this " Tonite b4 u sleep, just lift up all ur needs.All Jesus ask is 5 min to share, for Hereally really cares. Tomorrow will b a beautiful day, that wat i hear He say!"

and the second day he sand me this" so how's your day after the prayers? now what u need todo next is pray a prayer. Jesus forgive me my sins as i those who sin against me. Remove bitterness, anger and hatred from me and fill me with ur joy, love and peace unside my heart. i love u Jesus.AMEN.
Tomorrow will be a more beautiful day!

Does he think about me. y he send this to me?Does he loves me?

2007-08-24 15:30:40 · 1 answers · asked by Sakun 1 in Singles & Dating

K i won't say everything cause that would take forever!
The biggest suprise was that my best friend dyed her blonde hair red! And one of my guy friends dyed his cute blonde hair back to brown (ugh!). But anyway, my science class is so fun! Our teacher wanted us to practice our speech-telling skills, so each person had to go up to the front of the room and YELL everything that we hated for ONE WHOLE MINUTE! But that's not all, he had a huge rolled up piece of paper that we had to hit on the side of his desk as hard as we could to get the point across! It was so funny watching everyone!
Did anything interesting happen at your school?

2007-08-24 15:29:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this friend tht has developed a crush on 1 or our friends. With school started, he has had the opportunity to ask her to get a meal. It was after a night class, and with her baby @ the baby-sitters, she declined.However, all through the class, she was all flirty with him. In my opinion, she has a mixed opinion of the situation. What do u think?

2007-08-24 15:29:33 · 6 answers · asked by Kooky_Cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

so i think that this girl i work with is really cute...shes 15, i'm 17. and today at work we were talking almost the entire time about whatever. we go to differnt schools and i want 2 get her # before summers over and we don't work together again. the only thing i though about doing was using facebook. i want 2 ask her if she wanted 2 play tennis or something...any ideas, since i don't have her # should i send her a private message on facebook...and if things go my way how should i ask her 2 my schools homecoming and i don't want 2 ask her out online i just don't have annother way of getting in contact facebook would just be a way of asking her to hang out

2007-08-24 15:27:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you just had a fight with your b/f and he says "I just need time to think about this.." does it mean it's over?

2007-08-24 15:26:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were told to say something unique about ourselves in my group of 7 (freshman focus) so i said, "i hope to be a writer someday and i practice absitinence." at first i was happy for being so bold but now i'm so ashamed and humilated by it. he said,"really? cool." but didn't write it in his notes. he just wrote, aspiring writer. all throughout class, i caught him staring/glancing.

Group leaders were told to sit with their groups and he sat right beside me. there were 6 empty chairs to my right and he sat in the one RIGHT beside me. leg leaning on mine and all.
he seemed fidgety and jumpy, his right leg moved up and down alot like someone does when they are anxious. he fumbled with his hands too. he hit me in the elbow, gently, accidently and moved his arm. i noticed him look me right in the face as he looked around the back of the auditorium but i looked straight. he did that at least 5 more times. he kept stretching, sitting back then leaning up again.

2007-08-24 15:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 in Singles & Dating

and do you have to have enough beer for everyne to get drunk ....we are on a very tight budget.

2007-08-24 15:22:08 · 12 answers · asked by Cgurl32 3 in Weddings

I need something rather sl utty and provacative, the nastier the better

2007-08-24 15:21:49 · 5 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Singles & Dating

which breed has the ahhhh! factor?

2007-08-24 15:21:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 15:20:47 · 47 answers · asked by swamierobbie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had this huge crush for my classmate since i was 12, and i finally found the courage to say it and write it in a letter when i was 18 of how much he meant to me, of how he kept me inspired and how i wrote poems for me, well he did not reply and i know he does not love me, but its fine with me, i tried to move on, im already 20 years old and i still feel so confused , i see him in my dream every 3 days and i am always trying to reach out for his hand, i am still trying to talk to him,this is affecting me so much, although i have others to distract me i hate the fact that i still dream about him, when he no longer even talks to me.

2007-08-24 15:18:59 · 1 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I know fairly well who's in band with me and I've found out that he wants to ask one of my best friends to homecoming (not directly from him though) I really want to talk to her about it or prepare her for it but I don't want to ruin his chance. The thing is I pretty much know she doesn't like him back even though she would go with him to homecoming just to be polite. Any suggestions on how I can help the both of them without hurting either of them? I really want to tell her the secret!!

2007-08-24 15:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i want to know how I get a boyfriend. I'm going into highschool this year, and I'm not desperate or anything, I know I'll live without one, but it would be nice to have somebody to talk to and kiss and just generally chill with, ya know? I've already been sold the be yourself scheme, so thats no problem... Only respond if you have real advice, be yourself, shake your money maker, and you dont need one yet dont count as real peices of advice. I'm 5 foot 10 and I weigh 175 pounds and I have short reddish hair and i spike it in the back and i have green eyes, and i dress pretty odd, im nice and kinda smart, sometimes i walk backwards, and i talk with funny voices, i play the drums and read lots and lots of books. i have a couple guyfriends and one or two female friends, im kindof shy if i dont know you, and yeah, thats about it... i like all kinds of music so that doesnt really matter. but i dont want some sleazy jock kindof guy, just a nice person to hang with... please help

2007-08-24 15:17:25 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

What percentage of married military men cheat on their wives? With always being gone, etc. I have been married to one for 11 years and recently caught him in an affair and after the affair came to light, everyone who knew told me they wouldnt doubt it if he did this our whole marriage cuz of all the time he's spent away from home. I just wonder if the percentage is high. They kind of stereotyped him with the old saying: A marine has a girl at every port...or however that sayng goes. any insight on this? Oh and do you think its possible for a man to spend 18 months in Iraq and NOT ONCE indulge himself? He says he never did, I say yah right. NO MAN CAN GO 18 months without it. And there are women over there, and there is 'down time', i know there is, i know way too many people who have been there and many of them men and boy oh boy do they have tales to tell. So what do ya think?

2007-08-24 15:17:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is in Bangalore and my future mother in law lives in KGF. I am an American and I am not very familiar on any great ways to make the relationship between mother in law and myself easy? I will be meeting her in October and am slightly nervous. My fiance worships her and I don't want any misunderstandings to build between her and I. Anyone have any ideas on how to connect to her since we are from different cultures? Thanks!

2007-08-24 15:16:29 · 12 answers · asked by laluna7580 1 in Family

I am thinking of doing it.

2007-08-24 15:15:27 · 23 answers · asked by nighttimegodess 3 in Marriage & Divorce