Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

im 15 & i see grandma once a week. she takes me out to dinner & to the store. when were at the store, she puts her arm around me & holds my hand. what does that mean? she calls me honey & sweets. she buys me things & wipes the food off my face with her spit. haha does she really like me that much?

2007-08-24 13:38:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Met my ex 15 years ago when she was married to first husband (8 months when divorced to hook up with me-she made the first move). Was 35 she 24. We married moving back and forth from Indiana to Florida several times. Me IN she FL. I should have realized she growing up with mother 4 times divorced would be screwed up. I'm not without blame. On the ouside she apperared so normal. Along the way substance abuse and backruptcy came along. I'm back in Indiana trying to regain what ever I lost. she was dating online weeks into our seperation. Know has custaty of our 3 children 13,11 and 3. Se asked me to leave, I went back to Indiana to save myself to get better to be there for my children. I pray my kids will survive this mess.

2007-08-24 13:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by Steven K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend in the whole wide world is secretly dating my EX! She acts like it's no big deal, like they are just hanging out, but when they are alone together in the movie theatre, what else am I supposed to think?!
I may not like my ex anymore, but it's still not right....
Am I being too selfish?

2007-08-24 13:34:49 · 12 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

she needs to know?

2007-08-24 13:34:30 · 2 answers · asked by spayedurcatz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 13 and really hot. i cant help it! what do you think i should do to get MORE attention?

2007-08-24 13:34:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have this great service in our area (its actually a chain that's catching on...www.supperthyme.com) Here you prepare the foods (mid-gourmet type) and cart them off in freezer-friendly trays. Each tray = 6 servings

My fiance and I are paying for our wedding ourselves, so are watching our pennies...I really think this will be a good idea- BUT am I biting off too much?? It will mean enlisting the oven's of everyone we know on our big day and renting the serving dishes.

I have a tendency to get all excited about something before I have every detail...we will be able to have 12 different dishes (getting 3 trays of each dish)- all for 645.00. This will allow our guests to have 2-3 trips to the buffet if they want (we have 125 guests)

obviously we are still looking at appetizers, drinks, etc...but how does this sound to you?? do you think this is do-able?

thanks!

2007-08-24 13:26:39 · 15 answers · asked by jmd72inva 6 in Weddings

also like colour and thinks.

2007-08-24 13:23:13 · 29 answers · asked by bLue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this boy in my class and i absolutely think he is georgous and want to go out with him......he looks at me sometimes but not a lot......does he like me?

2007-08-24 13:21:49 · 2 answers · asked by brunettebeauty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How long does a fancy wedding last like one that they read vows and light the candle and stuff and how long does the average reception last I have a wedding tommorow and I know mine all together lasted like 11/2 but it wasnt all fancy

2007-08-24 13:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by dawniebear22 5 in Weddings

I can't pay for all 3 of them...and frankly, am mad that he did this. Should I still pay for him? I hope he does not expect me to pay for all of them.

2007-08-24 13:20:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't pay for all 3 of them...and frankly, am mad that he did this. Should I still pay for him? I hope he does not expect me to pay for all of them.

2007-08-24 13:19:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we all have boys age 4. the problem is that all 3 boys never play together. i am all for them playing together. i have tried taking turns inviting the boys over. i have called their moms to get together so our sons can play, but they don't want too and keep making up excuses and they keep to themselves. its odd cuz my son never sees them and i wonder what goes thru my son's mind. i do find this kinda frustrating and it does **** me off. all 3 boys start school first time this year and one of moms lied to me about which morning or afternoon she was putting her son in. what do you all think?

2007-08-24 13:18:52 · 4 answers · asked by havingfun 4 in Family

My ex-boyfriend and I still have some unresolved issues, but we're still friends in a way. In fact, I ironically ran into him today and it was kind of awkward, well, for me anyways.

Anyway, his good friend (whom I barely know) asked me to have a movie night (my favorite kind of date) with him tonight at his place. I said maybe because I really like this guy. He seems genuinely nice (and cute) and I've met him before....the only thing is... he & my ex are NOW roommates as of last week.....Should I go for fun or avoid the awkwardness? My ex said that he doesn't mind if I come over....

2007-08-24 13:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by damsel 2 in Singles & Dating

She gave me a "What's up with that" look afterwards but also a smile. Was that a GO signal or was it nothing? I am confused.

2007-08-24 13:18:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question, and I want to see what Ideas people have! My ex-husband/father of my sons just bought a house 2 miles from me and my husband. We have joint physical/legal custody of our sons.

He just bought this house, and the house is great; it's a big 2 family, very pretty inside, nice garden. But the neighborhood is truly frightening. I drove by to check it out last night! There is literally a gang in the street right out front. Cars going by with that booming sounds! I think I even saw a drug deal happening while I drove by! Ug!

He's a good father, my kids love him! He loves them, and really values his time with them. He's pleasant and helpful to me and respectful to my husband. In short; he's the perfect ex-husband. There's no way, I would not want them to see him!

But the idea of my children spending time in this neighborhood just fills me with anxiety! I made him promise they would never get on the school bus there!

I dont know what to do.. Help!

2007-08-24 13:17:59 · 6 answers · asked by Mildly Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My Gurlfriend is Goina Propose To me!!!!! I know because i accenditaly read her diary. lately i have been able to avoid her attempts to try to get me at a resturant or any other fancy place but i dont no how long i can keep this up.
Dont get Me Wrong i Like my Girlfirend but
1. I dont think a lady should propose to a man it just seems very wrong
2. im kinda scared to get married because aloot of ppl get divorces and i dont wanna end or ruin my friendship/relationship that i have with her i dont no what i'd do if that where to happen

So How are ways that i can politlely refuse the proposal without hurting her feelings???
Any advice is Greatly Appriceated
Please Help

2007-08-24 13:09:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so, yesterday, i was hanging out with him in freetime in scince class right? so anyways were talking and we started to poke eachother, or kinda touch eachother in a way, but nothing big. then today in scince again, we did the same as yesterday, then the bell rings and we walk with eachother to the lunch line with a couple or friends. and he askes me if i walk home, but i had to say no, because i live far away. then his reaction was an "ohh."
later 10 mins before the bell. im hanging out with another groupie, leaning on the wall [ laying down ] then he comes and says he is bored and does the same. if there is any space between us, its like an index finger apart. but later, i asked everyone is anyone wanted a hug, and he said yes and so did someother, when he was still laying don next to me, i leaned my head on his sholder too...so doe this mean anything?

2007-08-24 13:04:18 · 10 answers · asked by Dezzi;Babbyy; 2 in Singles & Dating

I did it, I packed my crap and moved in with some frineds. For details on that, go to my past questions in my profile about my wife drinking in bars with other guys. She did text me that night from the bar and said she would be home at 1130. She didn't invite me and didn't call. When I called her and told her come home she said no. When i told her I am you husband and dont like you drinking in bars with other guys she said she wasn't doing anything. So I said I am going to leave you. With that, I hung up the phone and packed my crap and left. I didn't hear from her til the next day and she was begging me to come TALK about it. We have been talking about it 2 months and nothing has changed. I ignored all atemps to talk to her. She showed up at my work crying and telling me lets work it out she don't want to loose me. I told her if she wants me back she is NEVER to go out drinking in bars with guys I dont know again. If she didn't aggree to my terms, I want a DIVORCE!
What u think

2007-08-24 12:55:28 · 28 answers · asked by funkyballs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 12:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by 15 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone I'm the kid who felt stupid for trying to keep in touch with my cousins and they didn't show no appreciation. So what if they come to my home state for vacation or to visit my family? Should I less generous to them? I know how they are and act. I got my sources from my dad because he went over to them and he always speaks to their parents on the phone since they are his siblings. I also got some info from the cousin who came over, he told me about the other cousins he visited. Most of them are arrogant snobs. Some are liars and fake like those I speak to on aim, pretending to listen to my messages by saying "lol" and nothing else. Some see people as recycle trash, they use you, throw you away and then when they need you they reuse you. My dad knows them since he has visited all of them before and has seen how they behaved. I feel as tho I don't wanna treat them well when they get here but that probably wouldn't be the right thing to do...

2007-08-24 12:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

Plz help me i need advice i really like him but he doesnt know me like that nor does he know i like him he knows my face though .... hes white im black even though i look mixed who would he pick her whos white or me help.......

2007-08-24 12:51:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is married. She thinks her husband had an inappropriate relationship with another woman. She feels fairly certain that he will deny it if she asks him directly. So should she contact the woman and ask her?

2007-08-24 12:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by PAK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

These four are from one family ages 10 ,9,8 and 2. My sister his aunt is livid to say the least. I Dont know how to feel about this . She said she will not go to the wedding .
,because all the other cousins are invited there ages range from 14 to 23 .I see both sides but dont want to side with any one

2007-08-24 12:46:54 · 17 answers · asked by heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 1 in Weddings

Don't get me wrong, i realise that many teenage mums ARE all those things. But not all. Infact i know of many older mums who are all those things and worse. Who's to say that a teenage mum can't be a better parent than someone, say, well educated, with money and a nice home? I myself had my son at 17. Myself and my partner (and we're still together) went from living in a council flat earning under £100 per week to having a morgage, a car each, me a degree and him a good job and i can honestly say our son is wonderful. Many parents who have children at a later age are just as bad as the teenage mums

2007-08-24 12:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom won't let me have a AIM adress because she thinks i would get addicted to it and i would always be on it but i wouldn't stay on that long becasue after a while u have nothing to talk about and almost all of my friends have one a knowbody really will answer emails anymore because they can AIM what should i do??????

2007-08-24 12:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Abby F 1 in Family

Do you think that 18 year old girl is too young to get engaged and also a boy is 24 years old. Is this a big difference of age. Please let me know what do you of it.

2007-08-24 12:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Singles & Dating

if there is anything interesting please contact me!! Who long are you?

2007-08-24 12:34:29 · 8 answers · asked by lilharlemshake 1 in Singles & Dating

So homecoming, coming up, and I'm pretty certain no one will ask me. Last year I went with a bunch of friends, but still didn't have a very good time. Do you have any suggestions for this year that will help me accept that I'm not going with a guy and have a really good time?

2007-08-24 12:33:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

--- when/where was it
--- how old were you
-- and how old are you know


a free 10 points guys, come on now....

2007-08-24 12:33:48 · 1 answers · asked by chelsღ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 13 my sister started doing drugs about 6 years ago
i found out about 2 years ago and tlked to my parents about it 1 year ago, since then we moved to a small town in missouri and put her in a cstar program, an outpatient support group however she moved back with her granparents but she was skipping schooll so my mother picked her up during school and took her to another all girls inpatient rehab type thing called teen challenge however when we visited last she threatened to run away so my mother took her home after 4 months of the 15 included in the program i thoought she would be better with me when she came back however since then she has only been abusive to me, she has stopped doing drugs i think but she is very irritable and untolerable and all she does is borrow things from me and take alot of things and not give anything not, 5 minutes but i have been diagnosed with odd and add bipolar disorder and my parents just dont take me seriously and side with her, what can i do?

2007-08-24 12:32:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family