Hey everyone I'm the kid who felt stupid for trying to keep in touch with my cousins and they didn't show no appreciation. So what if they come to my home state for vacation or to visit my family? Should I less generous to them? I know how they are and act. I got my sources from my dad because he went over to them and he always speaks to their parents on the phone since they are his siblings. I also got some info from the cousin who came over, he told me about the other cousins he visited. Most of them are arrogant snobs. Some are liars and fake like those I speak to on aim, pretending to listen to my messages by saying "lol" and nothing else. Some see people as recycle trash, they use you, throw you away and then when they need you they reuse you. My dad knows them since he has visited all of them before and has seen how they behaved. I feel as tho I don't wanna treat them well when they get here but that probably wouldn't be the right thing to do...
2007-08-24 12:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What would any of you do when you confront them? Knowing how they behave and how they never appreciate your will to unite the family.
2007-08-24 12:52:35 · update #1
dont think of revenge or anything fenrir. the best thing you could do is to focus on your life. when you grow up and your independent and you have a job and money and you don't need them anymore is the best revenge taken ever. seeing you successful while they think of you like that. you will be the one neglecting them and you will be happy with what you have succeeded, if you continue worrying about what they do or what they feel you will end up miserable, you will destroy your life. stop thinking about them and live your life.
2007-08-24 13:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't judge a person on what someone else has said, so they were brought up different from you, that doesn't mean that they are snobs or that they treat you any less than family. Get to know them as family and you will understand for yourself instead of following the next persons foolishness. I felt the same way until I got to know my cousins and we are now planning a big family get together. Don't miss out on the love of your family.
2007-08-24 20:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ay yai yai. still having problems with confrontation i see. well now that u know u're going to meet with them, do something together that will require the LEAST amount of speaking necessary. if these people are mean snobs like u say they are, then they probably have some mean stuff to say to you right offa the bat. i'd say just try and find something that everybody likes and start there. but don't make it too cheesy and encourage too much or else those people are seriously gonna hurt u. my family doesn't talk that much to each other too. however, we all kind of "bond" over something that we all like. my family bonds over video games, haha. even the older people. find something that your family likes to do and try it. i dunno if that helped, but i hope u solve this prob.
~yours truly, kgrl
2007-08-24 20:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie K. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo buddy if I were you I'd give em a punch in the face. Trash people deserve trash in their face, got that? You seem like a cool kid but you can't let people push you around and let them get away with it mmk?
2007-08-24 20:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have your own mind and stuff. first of all you don't knw for sure they are like that. you have never really met them. its funny you would take someones word. you need to meet them and see for yourself. i mean if they are nice you may like them and not see what they are being told you have heard. they could be very nice to you. i mean if you believe all that tells you stuff sometime syou never get to meet someone you could have maybe liked. so i would try and if you see this as bad and they are what was told then just never have them araound again. ok?
2007-08-24 20:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋