Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

ok i posted a question on how to catch a guy to see if he'll fall for a set up..i tried this when we were bearly 3 weeks.. i made a fake myspace profile of a cute girl..started talking to him he went a long with it..he said he liked to meet her..so i forgave him cause he said he knew it was a set up..

so then bearly 2 weeks ago i texted him from another phone # pretending to be some girl i told him not to EVER! talk to, i told him if i could go to his house and he said yea, so then i went off on him and i told him it was me so then again he said he kinda knew it was another set up..so now i want to catch him for the last time. i warned him and i told him if he did something like that again set up or no set up i was gonna dump him! so now ppl are telling me if he keeps hanging up on me really early and acts weird then he's probably cheating on me. right now he's "sleeping" should i call him private to see how he answers??

2007-08-24 20:59:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out to this nice classy restaurant and bar for my friend's 21st birthday. I was with her, two other girlfriends, and two guys. At one point I got up to go to the bathroom and bumped into this guy. Tall, dark brown hair, blue eyes, dressed nice, very good looking. He made a joke to me about how hard it was to move through the crowd to get to the bathroom. Later on I summoned up the courage to talk to him. He's 27 (i'm 21) and he's in med school to become a doctor in the ER. he was really nice. He invited me to come back to his apartment with his friends and play beer pong, since the bar was closing. I asked if my friends could come and he said definitely. But then my friends decided they wanted to call it a night. I was going to go with him...but then I felt uncomfortable going by myself. So I just told him I was going to hang out with my friends and I gave him my number. Was I right to be hesitant about this? Or was I being too ovely cautious?

2007-08-24 20:58:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 20:55:28 · 6 answers · asked by Bananaman X 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 20:46:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, is the deal. I go on holiday for 10days,
meanwhile my sister has a party at the house,
fights brake out walls are dented, blood, dirt and beer on the carpets. My room (which i told her to let NO ONE in other than her) is now trashed.

At the moment I'm chasing/hunting down the people responsible, not that they will pay in money, but the sure as *** will in blood, well a good beating that is to say.


Also i have banned any of her friends that i don't know From coming into my house.



so Am i Overdoing it, or would you agree it was a stupid disrespectful event that has occurred

2007-08-24 20:46:49 · 21 answers · asked by wonderboy 2 in Friends

Him and I are just close friends. I see him as if he's the little brother I've never had. We going to have a day out and see a movie. Should I invite his gf along? I don't really want to because I want it to just be me his time to catch up since we haven't seen each other in a while. I don't want to feel like the third wheel if she were to come.

2007-08-24 20:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Singles & Dating

hey being a guy was okay but i love being a woman.
I love my new breasts lol had to say. My vagina is okay. All my genetils are okay. But any good advice for me. including sex and dating. especially since im on the other side now

2007-08-24 20:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thinking of wearing something like this
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3C-183152&page=3&cgname=OSSLPSXYZZZ&rfnbr=3438

but i'm not quite so busty. it's for his birthday

2007-08-24 20:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

My marriage had fell apart before I met this other person. I just always assumed that we would be together for ever. Now I know that this person can't keep me happy and i can't make them happy if I'm not in love with them anymore. We broke up once and I spent some time with the other. I had so much fun. It was totally stress free and I had the best time of my life. This person treats me like I am the only one on earth and I love it. No one has ever treated me this way before. I know that I think of this person constantly and long to be with this person. The problem is I did go back to the one I am married to because I wanted to be sure that my feelings about this marriage are valid and not due to the other person that I met. I have known this person for a while by the way, this is not a one night thing. Now I know that I want out of my marriage but I don't want to hurt anyone. I want to be happy - am I being selfish? My other says he/she will wait as long as it takes.

2007-08-24 20:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by mystery person in love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Married, now seperated. Wife wanted to leave to "Find happiness through independence". She's the one who was going out every weekend with her girlfriends and leaving me to take care of HER kids. Trust was never an issue. She honors me as her husband in the sense that she wouldn't do anything I wouldn't appreciate. It's because she doesn't want to give up her nightlife. Nevermind what this is doing to me. I'm worried about the little structure those kids had before me, how they noticably improved, and how they will adjust during this rollercoaster ride their mother won't get off of. We moved today, she called me and told me our youngest fell down the stairs at their new place and cut her chin open. I'm PISSED!

2007-08-24 20:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by Type0pisces 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd really appreciate hearing from men around 29 or 30. THANKS in advance for your time!

2007-08-24 20:29:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 20:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by sufficientlyhousebroken 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known them for almost a year, but I also have a pretty uncommon name, I'm fifteen and I've posted which country I live in, so I'm scared that scary stalker-men/paedophiles could find me. What should I do? Please help.

2007-08-24 20:15:11 · 3 answers · asked by beautifulcontradictionx 1 in Friends

today my sister posted a really embarrasing pictue of me on the web and I want to get her back. Any ideas? I dont want to get her extremely bad, just enough to get even. Aso, something when she is slepping would be helpful :)

2007-08-24 20:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by Ali :) 2 in Family

do most of these gurl have a little freaky side in them

2007-08-24 20:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by JTAE 1 in Singles & Dating

so this is the scenario..she met someone online and seems to enjoy talking on line w/ each other all day...she even confessed to me that they are exchanging steamy emails and talk "dirty" while chatting..

so gals and guys, what do you think??? thanks :)

2007-08-24 20:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 20:03:59 · 32 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They say that every race has a multi-racial fetish or favorites. It is famously known that Black men often date White women. White men often date Latin or Asian women. Does anyone stop to ask what a Black woman wants when she isn’t craving chocolate sex? It sounds like a fair question, so please let us know.

2007-08-24 20:01:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this a bad or good idea? Do these things always in bad? How do you eventualy end one? and does it usually trun into more than just sex?

2007-08-24 19:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew my ex husband was creeping and I was tired of games.. Well I got emotionally attatched to a friend that I fell in love with completely and planned on reelisting to same unit and doing the military life with and after the papers came through he decided he was in love with someone else and that I was not worth the wait I guess and gave her the ring he bought for me and recycled it. Ouch huh? Nothing physical was going on but emotioanally for two years I have taken care of this man. We sent gifts back and forth, emailed each other everyday, im each other, wrote letters and stayed in touch. His unit went back first and I guess he fell in love with the first girl that could meet his physical needs so that is that, but I can't seem to get over it. Why does it hurt so bad?

2007-08-24 19:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by kittykat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 19:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an 11yr old son in sixth grade who since kindergarden has had problems.every year i get calls from teachers its very frustating and i don't know what else to do.i've tried everything from talking to rewards to punishment...i don't know what else to do.the problem is and has been year after year that they feel he needs to be tested for ADD...which i am greatly opposed to(I don't believe in ADD)but i'm at my wits end...what should i do?

2007-08-24 19:50:59 · 24 answers · asked by candy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works a lot and when he comes home he's too tired to go out and never wants to go out on weekends. I want to go out with my single girlfriends to clubs and things but I was wondering if it was okay. A lot of the clubs they go to include a lot of dirty dancing and hooking up with strangers so i'm not so sure if I should go. Anyone have an opinion?

2007-08-24 19:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well i'm 19 and live in wichita kansas and i jus found out that my dad got a better job there. He said they probley be moving there soon. He said that i could stay in the states if i wanted it too and move in with my grandparents that live in chicago. But i'm not sure if i really want to, because i have my own family here who have been thur everything with me more then my real family has. I'm also have more things here for me also i got school and work. I lived on my own for about over a year now because my parents kicked me out and made it quite okay by myself. But thinkin about my parents leavin the states scares me should i rather move wit my grandparent that i only met like 5 times in my life or stay with people that have been thur everything with me for over 3 years? I'm so confused. I'm also be a godmother soon n that is really importan to me and the mother because she says that baby will make us more of a family . I dont know, i'm really scared.

2007-08-24 19:48:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have been married for 18 yrs we have two childern 15,17.about 3 months ago i went out and got drunk on whisky and verbely abused her ever since then she say she does not love me anymore this happened once before few yrs back.i am so sorry i hurt her i love her more than anything in the world .now she says she need her space now.she also she believes in marrage for life and wants to live like roomates and only have sex once a month,when we have sex it is not the same as before.i want this marrage to work i will never drink whisky again i am very depressed with out her love.if she lets me back into her life i will be the best husband she could ask for i truly mean this.pls help me what should i do?

2007-08-24 19:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 19:46:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, a while back I had a boyfriend and one night I said something and screwed up. I can't go into too much detail, but he said that he'll never speak to me again. Soo obviously he hates me and we're not together anymore.

And yesterday (almost 2 months later), he asked me how I'm doing. I'm confused..I just don't know why he's asking how I'M doing for being a jackass to me and hating me.. I don't want to talk to him, but I feel like I should answer him for some reason.

This might seem dumb to ask, and the obvious answer is probably to ignore him, but should I answer him? I feel that if I ignore him, it's not the right thing to do..the thing is, I kinda want to show him how much he hurt me. I've been wanting to this whole time. To tell him what he's done.

So the question is, should I answer him or not? And if I should, I would like some advice on what to say, please.

I'm sorry for sounding so pathetic, but no one else has been able to help me.

Thanks.

2007-08-24 19:44:40 · 11 answers · asked by Dalila Kitsune 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I just met she first said I was cute then I got her mad cause I was saying that she was a slu t...etc then she called me ugly why?

2007-08-24 19:44:28 · 2 answers · asked by jack 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my prents devorced so i see my dad every other weekend. but i didi not see him the last weekend i was with him and i doun't want to go this weekend. but should i go?

2007-08-24 19:40:50 · 8 answers · asked by taely and kellie 1 in Family

2007-08-24 19:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends