2007-08-24 20:03:59 · 32 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell his wife.
Wouldn't you want to know?
2007-08-24 20:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you never become his wife. Shoe will be on the other foot. Dont feel bad for the wife, tell her so she can have a proper life with a different type of guy.
2007-08-24 20:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u are uncomfortable with him calling u.....if his wife knows then don't feel bad if she's willing to be dumb and go through that then that's her problem........i have a friend that is married but he stills talks to girls including me he says that the girl is not his wife and that she's just an ex girlfriend.....she knows about me and all these girls and she doesn't do anything about it....i don't feel bad for her because she still wants to be with someone like that..the weird thing is that they don't even live together but i just try to concentrate on my own relationship with my fiancee instead of their drama.......just tell him to stop calling if u don't feel comfortable
2007-08-24 22:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys if not all, will take their chance in every women they meet especially if they find them attractive and easy going. Please don't get me wrong, but you probably give a wrong impression to all the guys that you meet and tend to fall in love w/ you.
So, if you probably behave properly and not flirt (even if it is an innocent flirt if ever there is such a thing) w/ these guys that you meet, they will definitely have second thoughts of pursuing you especially if they are married.
You see, men ar basically weak in nature. They might look strong on the outside, but emotionally they are like children, always looking for attention. Most of the men (even if they are not the kind of person that would have a fling or an extra marital affair) who gets extra attention from someone else, are the ones who are most vulnerable to fall for someone even if they don't want to. They will see these attention given to them as a comparison to the one that they have at the moment and if they are not happy, then they tend to fall for the person that is giving them the attention that they need.
So, you might have to stop being kind and sweet to all the guys that you meet unless he is the one that you want to be for the rest of your life.
As for feeling bad for their wives, it might help to think that if you are in their position, would you want to have your husband falling for someone else?
2007-08-24 20:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by cris 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to quit calling. He made a commitment to his wife. Don't get in the middle. If their marriage ends, after the divorce if your interested then you can with a clear conscience explore the relationship. But remember, if he cheats on one person, he's likely to cheat again when he gets bored with you.
2007-08-24 20:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call him when the wife is around. Let him explain that. He will not want her finding about you. Turn the tables he will drop you like a hot potato.
2007-08-24 22:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by Playful Kitten 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he calls, say: "I think it's only fair to let you know that I am recording this phone call, and will be sending a copy of the recording to your wife. Now - what's on your mind?"
Oh, and this "in love with you" thing? It's something he says to women he thinks are sucker enough to believe his lies and let him in their bed. Don't fall for it.
2007-08-24 20:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone...he should not have gotten married if he is seeking relations with other women. His wife might want to know about this too...so she can get out and find someone who only wants her.
2007-08-24 21:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by XxSaRaHxX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang up ! Come on be for real... You sure your not leading this fool on ? Okay lets say your not leading him on... And you really want him to stop ! Then tell him your a lesbian and your not interested in men. Or tell him you have a boyfriend and he is gonna kick your *** if you don't stop bothering me ! Or last but not least tell his wife.... bust his *** !! I wouldn't feel to bad... its obvious he is on the edge ready to take a dive anyway..... do him the honor's !!!
2007-08-24 20:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie, all i can say is that he is taken by someone else...his wife, i had the same problem a while back, and yes we were in a sexual relationship for 8 months, but i realized that he will never be there for you, he will only be tehre when he wants you...please dont hury your self, i will suggest for you to end all ties with this guy, trust me, its for the better
2007-08-24 20:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by eyesewblu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you for as long as you're giving him sex. If you truly feel bad for the wife then whatever you got going with HER husband, you'll end. Remember: leopards don't change their spots. He cheats on her, he'll cheat on you.
2007-08-24 20:37:23 · answer #11 · answered by Snarky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋