ok i posted a question on how to catch a guy to see if he'll fall for a set up..i tried this when we were bearly 3 weeks.. i made a fake myspace profile of a cute girl..started talking to him he went a long with it..he said he liked to meet her..so i forgave him cause he said he knew it was a set up..
so then bearly 2 weeks ago i texted him from another phone # pretending to be some girl i told him not to EVER! talk to, i told him if i could go to his house and he said yea, so then i went off on him and i told him it was me so then again he said he kinda knew it was another set up..so now i want to catch him for the last time. i warned him and i told him if he did something like that again set up or no set up i was gonna dump him! so now ppl are telling me if he keeps hanging up on me really early and acts weird then he's probably cheating on me. right now he's "sleeping" should i call him private to see how he answers??
2007-08-24
20:59:50
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lol yes i have a lot of time OK! lol j/k he swears on he's mothers life he loves me and would never do that..is it just the boys will be boys thins? cause if it is *** THAT!!
2007-08-24
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Fool me once -- shame on you
Fool me twice -- shame on me
Fool me three times -- shame on us
Look---- the first time he "cheated" on you, you should have dumped his sorry butt. What possible emotional payoff(s) are you getting from playing Ms. Relationship Policewoman? Is the sex *really* that good, that the other 3 Billion men on the planet couldn't compare?
Stop trying to catch this guy "cheating" on you. He's just not that into you, and if you keep accusing him of it, then he has no reason NOT to sleep with other women. Spend the time fixing yourself (including the trust issues you have), and *then* find a quality guy who won't cheat on you.
Or, keep doing what you've been doing, and learn to enjoy the drama.
2007-08-24 21:13:40
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answered by Marc M 7
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Wow...I was YOU so many times (even though I am a guy)
...what you need to do, but because I was there and know the feelings fo hurt/anger/pain/disbelief/helplessness....I doubt you will take it...
My advise is dont do anything. Decide right now to end it and be stronger for it... It will never be "the last time" until you have the strength to end it...if you dont have th at strength, then it wont be the last time, will it??????????
Wish you had a friend like me in your life to keep you from going crazyk, cause that is what your going to do until you leave him and get stronger for doing it.
Good luck, private email me personally if you want more advice via email! (clidk on my name "just me")
2007-08-24 21:06:41
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answered by Anonymous
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answered by Anonymous
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You can do that, but my thought is if you can't trust a person then why be with that person, why go through life ducking and dodging to find out if someone is cheating?
2007-08-24 21:10:49
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answered by rckrjr 2
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OMG just let it go. You sound like a psycho who has nothing better to do than waste her time on this. Why don't you spend your time trying to find a guy who will love you and be faithful to you.
2007-08-24 21:04:17
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answered by Anonymous
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how manipulative of you...why all these games? If you have a problem talk it out like grown people.
2007-08-24 21:07:34
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answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7
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Get back on the meds chica!
2007-08-24 21:05:49
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answered by Anonymous
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if I was him I'd dump your *** the first time. grow up and stop playing stupid games
2007-08-24 21:09:52
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answered by SilentJay 2
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YES YES YES YES hun go for it!! see what happens
2007-08-24 21:05:15
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answered by Anonymous
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you know, if you have this much doubt in your boyfriend(i assume), you need to break up with him. i mean, if you can't trust him, what kind of relationship could you possibly establish?
2007-08-24 21:04:15
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answered by Jenny 2
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