Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

People am I being over sensative? I am the bread winner and very successful. I have worked on cars and also know my way around a garage. I purchased a used car and have some very minor problems with it. I took it into the shop, husband (diff last name) went with to give me a ride. The mechanic gave him the keys in front of me and would not give me any eye contact but instead kept talking to my husband about what was wrong with the car. I felt this was rude and said so. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

2007-08-24 19:30:46 · 24 answers · asked by Happy and in l love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 19:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by new man 1 in Weddings

i have noticed that i am keen towards sex. I like to indulge in sexual activities. I am romantic and would love to have a romantic partner. how can i come to know that my partner is equally interested in sexual activities, like i am...before getting married, if its not a love marriage ?? Because if its not like that, i guess i could face problems in my married life.....

2007-08-24 19:29:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Picks you up from the back
tells you are sexy
complimnt you on your legs, figure
stares at you
hugs you tightly
us aroused when he sees you you can see print in his paints
kisses you on your check and lips
holds your hand
ccalls your daughter his daughter
want to know if I knew what a certain sex toy look like
any other man around me giving me attention makes sure he is around me and I see him.

2007-08-24 19:28:35 · 20 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

If me and him take pics in a photo booth together as friends? I'm NOT trying to make her jealous. I just want to be safe about it. I want to do this as friends and it's purely platonic.
I want to do this for memories and because I rarely get to see him. He's like the little brother I've never had.

Should I:
a) ask him what he think's his gf would think about
b) ask her if she mind first
c) ask him if i should ask her
d) all of the above

2007-08-24 19:28:14 · 11 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Singles & Dating

ok my point is that two years ago i just tried to be friends with this guy and he got the wrong impression and he said he wasnt interested in dating me and i wasnt interested in dating him. Well now i am afraid to approach the guys in my school to be friends with them because im afraid they will get the wrong idea and then avoid me and it will make things awkward. and even if i dont like the guy who rejects me it still hurts to be rejected. how can i make it clear to a guy without directly telling him i only want to be his friend.

2007-08-24 19:27:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 19:27:19 · 3 answers · asked by anu r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And does it really matter to te guy, or can they even tell?

2007-08-24 19:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by Tizmo 2 in Singles & Dating

like how much younger is to young to go on a date with a guy.....like 7 8 or 9 nine years younger!!

2007-08-24 19:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by lilly h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 19:23:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THIS IS LONG SO PLEASE BARE WITH ME..THANKS..ok so first of all my boyfriend is going to buy my boyfriends trailer..but lately me and my brothers g/f been getting into it and now her family is against me.so im afraid there will be problems with us living at that trailer.im afraid there will be vanelism or more that may happen.im so confused right now because my brother is in debt and he wants us to buy the trailer to get out of debt.i really dont want to move into the trailer anymore but i know that my family will give me s h it and be mad at me for us not living there.IM SO CONFUSED.what i really want is to move out of town where we cant be bothered.my boyfriend says "why put up with their sh it.we dont need that.and he dont want to move there" he does want to yet he dont..and i dont..my boyfriend will choose my decision of course..but i would easily say we WONT move there but its the family..i know how mad and upset they will be at me..help can someone give me advice...

thank you.

2007-08-24 19:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by Alyssa D 2 in Family

I don't care about racism, I think everyone's heart beats the same and their stomach flutters in the same manner whenever they see someone they like. Leading to the fact I have a crush on a white boy (I'm 13, I think he is too). I notice him looking at me, he has been since last year. We don't talk but I like him a lot and he always looks at me. I don't know how to translate his actions.. I really like him, for the 3rd time. :-) No, I'm not here to hear your 1940's ignorant outlook on sticking to your kind and blah. I'd like to hear some advice on how to catch the attention of this "white boy"? Thanks!

2007-08-24 19:18:06 · 14 answers · asked by DandyLion370 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you feel less threatened, and maybe more open to talk to them? Or is it no different than any other guy?

2007-08-24 19:16:13 · 16 answers · asked by Desidarius 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm asking this here because I'm hoping to get some adult opinions on this...
My father died two years ago. My mom fairly recently met a guy she thinks she might start dating. After she met him, she had a talk with me and asked if there was anything she could do or needed to do to make her dating easier on me. I asked her to tell me when she was going out with this guy, at least while I was in her house, not because I need to approve of it or anything but just because I want to know whats going on. I told her I didn't need to know what they were doing or even necessarily where they were going, I just wanted to know that they were going somewhere.
Tonight I was going to ride along while she went to do something she had to do. She went to check her email before she left, came up like half an hour later and was like "ok, see ya". I asked her to wait so I could find my glasses before she left, and she told me that she'd forgotten I was going to go with her and she was planning to meet

2007-08-24 19:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by wonderer152 2 in Family

Well, im just curious about it...

Just met a guy, i thought he was around 20-22

But Surprise!
he wasnt.
he's 17...

2007-08-24 19:13:10 · 25 answers · asked by Casey R 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost a year. I am now 7months pregnant. We have been having sex before we got married. My question is how frequent should sex be? Sometimes, we just have it once a month- i mean wer'e still newly weds! He comes home and watches tv and sleeps/ Sometimes I give signs to him but he declines and says he's too tired from work. Recently , he said it's difficult bec. of my growing belly. This is so disappointing since usually men want it and the woman declines! To us, it's the opposite!
What should I do? Sometimes, I hate him for it and I don't talk with him. I don't think he's clueless but I want him to be romantic and fill my needs.

2007-08-24 19:10:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 19:09:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for 2 months now. We quickly became best friends and we do everything together. We sleep in the same bed take each other to work. Everytime I make plans to just stay home and veg in front of my tv I end up with him. We have tons in common. When is it ok to ask what we are? When is it ok to expect an answer? I've asked before, when the green monster of jealousy poped out of me. All I got then was, "We're best friends and lovers." Sounds like a crock of **** to me but with this man I've adandoned my better judgement. I want commitment. Is it ok to expect a straight answer at this point or should I give it more time. I don't knwo why I feel like I need to label what we have.... well I kinda know why. Completely at a loss here. Help! I don't know what to do about this man. Just be friends and emotionally distance myself or stick with it and see what pans out?

2007-08-24 19:07:39 · 12 answers · asked by NOLA_pink 1 in Singles & Dating

you and your man are at a baseball game that is really crowded. then, the game ends [but its a fireworks show afterward so no body leaves]. he takes you out onto the field becasue he said he wanted to talk to the players [hes friends with some of them] so youre walking out to field and you get all the way onto the pitchers mound and for some odd reason all the players are standing around you [like on the dirt part outside the grass] and youre sooo confused. everyone in the crowd is staring. but before you ahve time to think about what is happening he gets down on one knee and proposes. of course he has a microphone on so the whole stadium heard it. then, when you say yes, the entire crowd cheers and you notice the whole thing was on the big screen!!! and as soon as you kiss the fireworks go off =]

then just when you thought it couldnt get any better, you realize that your entire family was in the crowd all along!!!


does that seem romantic??

2007-08-24 19:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by yeahxitsxsarah 2 in Weddings

I have tried to talk to him about it and it's like he ignores me so HELP ME please!! need advice...

2007-08-24 19:04:45 · 13 answers · asked by ruby_bearz page 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, and we have lived together for 1 1/2 .Within the last 2 days, he has became so angry towards me that he becomes overwhelmed with rage and scares me. But then its like it never happens when i try to talk about it the next day. Last night he kicked me and shook my head, and tonight he grabbed my throat and threw me on the bed. I love him so much, i want to help him(if i can). He is about 12 years older than me. I just have no idea what to do. I mean I would leave, but I would want to help him with whatever is going on, but i dont know if i need to even talk around him anymore.

2007-08-24 19:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by daddyzgrl4u05 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 19:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Family

I say 11 and plz men only, Don't believe anything that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die.

2007-08-24 18:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by Xyrus 1 in Singles & Dating

then over time they always want more. Now of course i dont mean all women. But this has happened to me a few times. Seems like after the sex things just change. They start talking about feelings and all, but when i dont return them, im immature, and need to grow up. But the thing is i let them know from the start what the relationship is gonna be like.

2007-08-24 18:58:23 · 5 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Singles & Dating

my story is that i had this girl for a year and we did alot of things but she never appriciate me like she never goes to me u no gf soppose to do... we did things like.... im still a virgin but my hands and eyes are not so... do i still deserve a clean girl? cuz my ex had 20+ ex bfs and shes my first

2007-08-24 18:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where I live has 4 apartments & all that live here are family.... I have one relative that drives me crazy although I know it is not intentional it seems like every time I turn around she is there outside playing with my kids, talking to my hubby if he is outside or just plan around period.
How can I tell her to leave us alone without hurting her feelings... any ideas?
It really bothers me that I feel this way about her (that she is a pest & drives me crazy) cuz if I need someone to get my son on the bus in the morning when I am running late or if I need someone to pick up my 1 yr old from daycare in the afternoon because my husband got stuck at work.... she is there and does these things for me.... if I need to run to the store for a min to just grab some milk & bread and don't feel like dragging the kids with me for a 5 min run to the store I will call and ask her if she can come downstairs and sit with the kids while I run out for a min and she has NEVER said NO.
Am I a meanie?

2007-08-24 18:57:19 · 15 answers · asked by creative0989 1 in Family

He asked a mutual friend if she thought he flirted with me all the time and she said yes.
Later, he came by and winked.

2007-08-24 18:55:30 · 16 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

Today This girl I like and I hung out. We have been friends for about a year now. I really like her and she knows it. We hang out A LOT which is both good and bad. Its good because she is an amazing person, and I have a lot of fun when I'm with her. However I also end up paying for everything. I don't mind it every once in a while but I also know that we are just friends. A part of me wants to believe that me and her still have a chance because lately she has been texting me almost everyday to hang out, and We laugh and talk a lot and we have some things in common, however she also talks about her other guy friends a lot. When we hang out we usually end up just driving around and listening to music and talking. Its fun don't get me wrong but it almost feels like thats all we do. We went out to dinner tonight, and it was really fun we talked a lot about some serious stuff. What are signs when we hang out that would tell me if she likes me or is just using me?

thanks

2007-08-24 18:54:30 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

BY THIS QUESTION I WOULD I TREAT WITH MY WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND IN FUTURE

2007-08-24 18:53:03 · 9 answers · asked by anil c 1 in Friends

My husband says he loves me lot and his moves towards me are good, except for money matters.But he doesnot allow me to touch his mobile.In suspecion of he having girl friends,I secretly browse his mobile.There were sms communications with two girls. It was a heartbreak for me.I think he meets them.One girl communicates as if they are couples.I also read one sms sent by him as "am going to divorse this girl" long ago. On browsing his office bag, found a girl's photo. I wanted to move away & discussed with my family secretly. But in view of the society & my sisters future, all advised me to divert my attentions to my career, studies, etc. Recently, after returning from my parents place on a short stay, I found photos of he and another girl(not the 1 mentioned above)on his mobile.The pic was taken in my room.Didn't show that I have seen the pic but confronted him,if he has girlfriends.He almost promises that he doesn't and says I am his all.am frustrated.no options either what should I do

2007-08-24 18:52:39 · 12 answers · asked by Ramya 1 in Marriage & Divorce