THIS IS LONG SO PLEASE BARE WITH ME..THANKS..ok so first of all my boyfriend is going to buy my boyfriends trailer..but lately me and my brothers g/f been getting into it and now her family is against me.so im afraid there will be problems with us living at that trailer.im afraid there will be vanelism or more that may happen.im so confused right now because my brother is in debt and he wants us to buy the trailer to get out of debt.i really dont want to move into the trailer anymore but i know that my family will give me s h it and be mad at me for us not living there.IM SO CONFUSED.what i really want is to move out of town where we cant be bothered.my boyfriend says "why put up with their sh it.we dont need that.and he dont want to move there" he does want to yet he dont..and i dont..my boyfriend will choose my decision of course..but i would easily say we WONT move there but its the family..i know how mad and upset they will be at me..help can someone give me advice...
thank you.
2007-08-24 19:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by Alyssa D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry i meant my boyfriends going to buy my BROTHERS trailer
2007-08-24 19:21:59 · update #1
As an old, experienced guy, I would suggest not buying the trailer, or anything else, from a relative. It almost always leads to problems. If you feel you must buy the trailer, have you considered moving it to a different location? Please be sure to have everything in writing, so there is no misunderstanding on anyone's part. Good Luck.
2007-08-24 19:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cecil n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to distance yourself from the whole situation.
If your BF buys that trailer, fine. That's his business.
Don't sell yourself by living with a guy... get a commitment... get the benefit of marriage or don't bother. It isn't old-fashioned, it really is good business sense.
What's keeping you from interviewing for jobs in other towns? I'm serious... pull your resume together, make some calls, and schedule a day of applications/interviews. You can get out of there and you will feel good about that accomplishment.
2007-08-25 03:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mix money and family. It never works..
2007-08-25 02:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋