Why have some women told me they are cool with a casual relationship?

Question

then over time they always want more. Now of course i dont mean all women. But this has happened to me a few times. Seems like after the sex things just change. They start talking about feelings and all, but when i dont return them, im immature, and need to grow up. But the thing is i let them know from the start what the relationship is gonna be like.

Answer 1

Women are fickle.

Answer 2

Well see that is the thing. Women can casually date sure. But yea when the sex starts, there is a chemical released in our brains to want to bond and get closer to the guy. So that is why things change after sex. Guys don't have as much of that chemical in their brain so pretty much guys do not jump for a more serious relationship so fast. So I think if you want a casual sexual thing, you are kind of basically up the creek. Because as much as women try to decieve themselves into believing that we can be like guys, we just can't be on that level. We aren't meant for it. In your case though if you wish to get casual, perhaps you should stick to one night stands, very anonymous and with protection. I mean I know its not a steady casual thing. But it saves you from be entangled in commitment wannabes.

Answer 3

For most women sex equals things becoming more serious, even if at the beginning you guys have decided to keep things casual. Just every now and again restate your feelings about the relationship being casual so that she doesnt misinterpret sex as a real connection

Answer 4

It's alot harder for a woman to seperate emotion and sex. We are very emotional creatures and, usually, we don't treat sex like it is something to be had whenever we want to. We usually have sex because there is already a mild emotional attachment there. When they tell you to grow up and you are immature, it's because they were hoping that you would begin to feel the same emotion that they feel after having sex.

Answer 5

think of sex like money
do you like giving away money for nothing back?

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wow! awesome answer!


best wishes for you in this situation too

these are a few lol things he may chose to fight with you about
Things We Do To Drive Men Crazy!! Entry for March 22, 2007
Things We Do To Drive Men Crazy!!
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1. Do not say what we mean. Ever.

2. Be ambiguous. Always.

3. Cry. Cry often.

4. Bring things up that were said, done, or thought years, months, or decades ago...or with other boyfriends.

5. Make them apologize for everything.

6. Stash feminine products in their cars, backpacks and in their books as cute reminders that you were thinking of them.

7. Look them in the eye and start laughing.

8. Get mad at them for everything.

9. Discuss your period in front of them. Watch them squirm.

10. Demand to be called or e-mailed. Often. Whine when they don't comply.

11. When complimented, make sure to be paranoid. Take nothing at face value.

12. Use daddy as a weapon. Tell them about his gun collection, his quick trigger finger, and his affection for his Little Princess.

13. Be late for everything. Yell if they're late.

14. Talk about your ex-boyfriend 24 - 7. Compare and contrast.

best wishes and prayers to you, David the sweet pea