A guy who was originally my friend, has been hanging around a lot here and is a good friend to us. We are pretty close, but his opinion of women is VERY low. He had a bad mother, sister and wife, and so he views women as garbage scum and has nothing good to say about them. Tonight he calls and wants to take my husband to dinner, which is fine...guys need guy time, but my husband is severely physically disabled and has emotional disability as well (shot in head at close range 24 years ago), and so I asked where they were going and the friend would not tell me, so I gave him a ring on the cell phone and explained that we don't keep secrets from each other in our marriage and that I'd appreciate the name of the restaraunt in the future so that if an emergency occurs here or if I need to reach my husband, I can do so, and he got angry with me for asking. He does not understand that I have my reasons.
I know they are not going to strip clubs and this is not a jealousy issue.
2007-08-24
15:03:21
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