i always run out of things to talk about with my boyfriend. and there's some days where i don't feel like getting into a deep conversation. but i love him more than anything and don't want to ruin it. i just don't have anything to talk about with him and then there's that stupid awkward silence. when i don't say anything, he always questions whether i love him still or not. i don't like him having to ask that, so what should i do?
2007-08-24 14:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one way to tell if your relationship is solid is by silences. if they are awkward, it's probably not a very strong relationship. if you could just sit in silence and enjoy each other's company, you definitely have something substantial.
2007-09-01 09:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by the answer is within you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awkward silence..been there lol! this can happen no matter who ur talking to, u may b nervous, he may catch u at a bad time. just try to ask questions, they don't have 2 b deep down in your soul kinda things just questions. and he ?s whether u love him, all because of awkward silence?! tell him of course u love him, u just don't know wat 2 say, and an awkward silence, means the conversation goes blank....and in order to have a conversation u need 2 b talking with another person. so how can he freak out at you, if he also has nothing to talk about?! dont worry, just relax and remind him of this.
2007-09-01 20:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by ThE.ShortiE.u.know.and.Luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him that your just not as talkative as other chicks and that you are satisfied just being in the same room as him. I know this sounds horrible but consider having sex with him the minute you are in the room with him...sometimes guys just need to feel that connection with us, hes needing soul time, so give it up right away and tell him that your basking in the afterglow and to shut up if you dont want to talk afterward. I know this feeling, my ex hubby used to talk more than a chatty girlfriend sometimes and I would slam him to the floor and do the dirty with him and bam, no more yapping. He will love you for it. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-01 17:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there should be alot of things you can talk about that is why hes wondering why you dnt' like him> if you loved him and the other there is no way you dont' have much to say there is a life time of talking.
2007-08-31 21:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom and dad didn't talk a lot, they said just being with each other was enough, Tell him you love him and get him started on something he can go on and on about and just listen.
2007-08-24 21:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by edie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking about sex and ur conversation will never end...hahahahahahhahhahahahahaha
2007-09-01 16:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋