once again help?

Question

there is this girl in my school i really like and is popular and im kinda popular and i wanna ask this girl out but i dont think i reallt have a chance should i ask her out and is i should wat do i say???? well im not that popular like i mean i hang out with some of the popular kids and im not a nerd so idk
and im not that brave wen it comes to this stuff

yeah were friends

Answer 1

dont worry ur normal. i'm not a guy but i think a lot of guys hav the same problem. in my opion(how eva it's spelled) if a guy cant ask out a girl out he isnt ready 2 date (no offense). i think u should just take a chance and ask her out. hey maybe she's waiting u never kno. just be casual about it and ask if she wants 2 go out. if she says no don't worry about it, youll find someone. i hope it goes well. if u hav any more questios just send me an email!

Answer 2

You'll notice that in time "popularity" doesn't matter all that much. What you need to do is ask her to hangout. Don't just jump right in with the "Hey, will you go out with me?" Do something nice and act like you care about her. Get some alone time with her, maybe see if she wants to go to the movies or grab a bite to eat. Then afterwards, when time goes by you'll both will have an understanding of each other. Possibly see what she likes to do, what her hobbies are, what kind of music she likes and so forth then get idea's to what you both should do. Then you'll know if you want to date her. Get to know her before you get into something. What if she's nothing like you thought she'd be?

Answer 3

Sounds like things would be a lot easier for you if you had a little more confidence in yourself. Appreciate the things that make you unique and exploit them.
Try an find comonality between her and you and play on that, you have to have something in common. Maybe you could throw a party or do something in a group to get a liuttle more time with her without the awkwardness of a date. If things go well then proceed from there if not move on.

Answer 4

Popularity shouldn't have anything to do with it.
First off, are you already friends with her?
If not, you should start out by becoming her friend, that way you will have a better chance of her saying yes when/if you ask her out.

Answer 5

uhmmm.. I think you should start out by being her friend first.

You can't just ask a girl out if you don't know her. I think maybe you shoud......... ask her to hang out sometime. Maybe catch a movie or something. KEEP IT CASUAL.

Don't make it seem like you want to be her boyfriend...

because this might scare her off.

e-mail if u nee more......INFO. ^^

Answer 6

Fireball tadig. How about you get to know her better first. Talk to her online or in school. Then once you are close to her. Ask her out.

Answer 7

just be nice to her compliment her ask her friends to ask her if she likes you then getr closer make her laugh if she is always smiling around you or if her friends are all looking at you and smiling and whispering when you walk by then go for it she likes you

Answer 8

be cool say hay how you doing, don,t rush,,play cool see if she likes you if she talks to you then you in and move slow like hay you going to the game yes like to get a pizza after

Answer 9

honestly man who cares if she's popular, just because she is popular does not nessecarily mean she's gonna go for popular guys, just go for it

Answer 10

Forget her and use the time improving your English .