is it good or bad or dumb or smart? whats your opinion?
2007-08-24 15:14:13 · 26 answers · asked by granggo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Although not popular these day, I think that this is really smart. He will be able to focus on his education and what he wants out of life. He will avoid the chance of catching something or getting someone pregnant. Also, he will bring something special to his marriage. It won't just be sex, he will have a more spiritual and emotional tie to his wife.
It's like sharing a secret with a special friend. That secret keeps you together.
Also, if you are a Christian, it is what is commanded. Many people seem to think it is because God wants us to miss out on something, but the physical act of sex is not only for our pleasure but to bring a husband and wife together as one.
2007-08-24 15:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that one would have a lot of respect for ones values and morals and that is never a bad thing. Whomever this one ends up with will be blessed to have them. I think there should be more people like that in the world. It would be a much safer place if we all kept it that way. One wouldn't have to worry about contrating and diseases that way. The partner may even have more respect for one themselves in this case and the relationship I would believe would be a lot healthier.
good luck and God Bless
2007-08-24 15:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by cyh of 3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd like that!
SMART!
What a great gift for your future wife!
Don't listen to what people say about having it before marrige.
You're doing the right thing.
I so want my future husband to be like that!
Christian, Pure, and Virgin!
2007-08-24 15:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's great. Good for you! No it is absolutely not "dumb". It is quite smart. Stick to your principles no matter what others say.
2007-08-24 22:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one thinks there is anything wrong with a girl doing this so why should there be a problem with a guy doing it.
2007-08-24 16:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your body, your life and your soul. What you choose to do with your parts is really no one's business. But please read up on the subject so that when you get married, you will know what to do. Nothing worse than a man that has to be taught what to do when the time is right.
2007-08-24 15:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by TheWiseOne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any guy that expects a Virgin darn well better be one too.
2007-08-24 16:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally good, and smart, and if you're a virgin too, then you're each others first.
2007-08-24 16:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good and smart. His future wife will be a very lucky gal.
2007-08-24 16:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey it worked just fine for me...a majority of men who are christian or just have good morals are doing that anyway...
why get messed up in unwanted kids or STDs/VDs over sex anyway?
it IS overrated to that extent...I wouldn't risk that..but...don't get me wrong...once you're married..it is off to the races!!
2007-08-24 16:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋