Him and I are just close friends. I see him as if he's the little brother I've never had. We going to have a day out and see a movie. Should I invite his gf along? I don't really want to because I want it to just be me his time to catch up since we haven't seen each other in a while. I don't want to feel like the third wheel if she were to come.
2007-08-24 20:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-24 20:43:20 · update #1
Invite his gf along so she won't get jealous of our friendship because she'll see that we're as close friends as siblings.
2007-08-24 20:44:16 · update #2
I don't know his gf so we're not firends.
2007-08-24 20:51:28 · update #3
If you all are simply friends, I would not invite her along; however, you should let her know that you are not interested in him romantically.
2007-08-24 20:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lose either way. if you don't invite his gf, then the gf will get jealous and she'll get suspicious of you 2 hanging out together... and if you DO invite his gf, then you will be the third wheel and it's pretty weird. so you're better off just.. hanging out with him in a group or something...
2007-08-25 03:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by paulinatran10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go out with him to the movies but dont make any moves on him and you will be ok but you consider him as a brother so its all good =]. If he feels his gf should come then maybe go and catch up with him somewhere else.
2007-08-25 03:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by happywithlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
......darling its ok to be with him coz u havent sceen each other 4 long time but come to think of it that he has already gf en surely her gf will think negative as you 2 were together.......if its ok for the guy's gf not to come along then so be it but if you feel that she is not ok wen its just he 2 of u then let her come along so yyou and ur friend wil prove to the girl that ur not doing anthyng that can ruined ther relayionship..........and get 2 know with the girl 2 so u wil have new fwens.
2007-08-25 04:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by JONES T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go just you and him.
but so his gf doesn't get jealous make plans to go some where as a group ,and invite another person so if they get into their thing you can have someone to talk to.
2007-08-25 03:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite the girlfriend and get to know her. Enlarge your circle of friend.
2007-08-25 04:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you see him as your brother and want brother and sister time then dont invite his gf she will make it hard for you to talk to him
2007-08-25 03:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by madmax999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him alone and then go out to dinner with him and his gf on another time. win win
2007-08-25 03:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Pablo P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and enjoy the day with him. if his girlfriend is uncomfortable with it, he should consider this and act accordingly, it is not your decision to make, but you are showing sensitivity to this situation by asking this question, did he ask you? if he did you may find he wants advice on his relationship or a shoulder to cry on!!!
2007-08-25 03:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by botticellilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her with you guys later, let her know she can trust you later, and if you get feelings for him and jump his bones, she will never suspect anything. good luck!
2007-08-25 03:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋