I can't pay for all 3 of them...and frankly, am mad that he did this. Should I still pay for him? I hope he does not expect me to pay for all of them.
2007-08-24 13:19:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't even go. if you invited him out and he wants to be with his friends let him... go out with your friends instead. belee dat.
2007-08-24 13:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well Grasshopper, did you tell him that it was a private bday dinner you had plan for him? Listen, you didn't make it clear to him about the dinner plan you had in mind, so it was in his rights (bday) to invite two of his friends to join the two of you. Yes, only pay for yours and his dinner and no more. Since he invite his friends then he should pay for their dinner or they pay for their own and not you. Only be angry with one self, Grasshopper. Enjoy the evening and let this be a lesson learn, ok. Have yourself a nice time with your bday bf!!!
2007-08-24 13:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not pay. You must pay for your invited Boyfriend but everyone else goes dutch. Meaning they pay for themselves. Tell the waiter, to give you the check for your boyfriend and yourself. Separate checks for the rest. Probably, your Boyfriend is gonna surprise you and pay for all of it. So be care-full how you handle this. Be happy and enjoy your dinner. If your Boyfriend invited others, I bet he is gonna pay the entire bill . Hope so , anyway.
2007-08-24 13:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He invited, he pays. Since you invited him, you can pay for you and him, but his friends should go dutch or he should pay.
I'm afraid this guy is trying to tell you something. He doesn't care to be alone and romantic with you. He'd rather it were a boys' night out. I'd be so mad, I might cancel my going at the last minute.
TX Mom
2007-08-24 13:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, pay for your bf only. And talk to him that its a dinner for 2 only, not a party with his buddies. Make sure hes not just using u to get an excuse to party with his friends, besides if they are there you will probably will be payed less attention.
2007-08-24 13:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Eonlord 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say pay for him. It would be pretty messed up if his friends actually expected you to pay for them too. However, you should let your bf know in advance, so no surprises. Have fun! Maybe you should invite some of your friends too!
2007-08-24 13:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pay for him and yourself, let the friends know they need to pay. If they are courteous, they will offer to help you pay for him since it's his birthday. If possible, explain to your bf that you wanted this night to be special and be alone with him, maybe he can get his friends to stay home and celebrate with him some other time
2007-08-24 13:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by marm212 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you all sit down, tell your boyfriend that you'll buy his dinner since it's his birthday. Everyone at the table should get the message. Then, when you're ordering, ask the server to put your order & your boyfriends together on a seperate tab since you're paying seperatly from the others at the table. Everyone will DEFINITLEY catch on at that point.
2007-08-24 13:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by 1M9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are taking your boyfriend out to dinner. You did not invite his friends. You should pay for yourself and your boyfriend. It is up to the friends to pay for themselves or your boyfriend may choose to pay for them since he issued the invitation.
2007-08-24 13:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you wanted to take him out alone and that you are hurt that he invited his friends but that's a little issue and you are over it. also let him know that you are only paying for his dinner and yours. the others have to pay for their own and there is no ifs ands or buts about it. if he doesn't like it then he's disrespecting you and your birthday present to him.
2007-08-24 13:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you told him that the invitation was for him only?
If you insist on letting his friends crash the dinner, then only pay for your boyfriend. Then break up with him the next day.
2007-08-24 13:25:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋