2007-08-24 15:20:47 · 47 answers · asked by swamierobbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no.
it's entertainment with a hard on.
not cheating.
2007-08-24 15:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Getting a lap dance at a strip club is getting a lap dance at a strip club.
2007-08-24 17:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think its cheating if your wife/girlfriend sits on a couch and has a man with only a g-string on rub up and down against her and makes her excited and forget about you even for a moment. Would you like that? But if you have an agreement that this behavior is ok for both then its not cheating. But since your questioning it then it must be wrong for you to do this.
2007-08-24 16:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband looks at it. Tell who you are with your interest and you may get shocked that they may want to get involved too. I think it is only cheating if your partner isn't aware or given the opportunity to watch. If one is hiding it there must be another reason. Otherwise it should all be innocent anyway and one shouldn't feel like they have to keep such a secret. If I were on the end of someone doing that and I knew about it I would be ok with it as long as they were honest.
good luck and god bless
2007-08-24 15:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by cyh of 3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did your significant other know you were going to the strip club? Do you think she would strongly object?
I say no, as long you the stripper didn't give you a hand job, or her phone #, or anything like that.
If it was me, I'd rather not know about it. My b/f has went to the titty bar, and I didn't care. But I didn't ask for the specifics afterward. Plus, I wouldn't mind getting a lap dance myself, and I know I wouldn't run off with the stripper afterwards.
2007-08-24 15:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, first there is no relationship (hate to pop your buble guys) second its not technically sex. But it comes down to how you define cheating. If you go by the stricktest terms then you are doing something you wouldnt want them to do... its cheating. If by cheating you mean a relationship on the side then no.
Pluss you have to pay... lol
2007-08-27 17:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hmmmmmm interesting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband was the one getting it, yes it is cheating! Look at it like this, if your gf or wife was giving another guy a lap dance, would you think she was cheating?
2007-08-24 15:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends, on how ur significant other views it.. if she view it as something innocent then no need to worry, if shes the type to think that its degrading to her, and that u are lusting after another when u've vowed to only love and lust over her then yes its cheating.... some women dont mind as long as u dont touch.. others its just as bad as having sex with the woman, so it all depends on how ur significant other feels about it, on whether its cheating or not..
My personal oppinion, yes its cheating, im not a bible thumper but i do believe just like the bible says that when ur married ur not to lust after another other then your spouse that it is wrong and a sin, and in the marriage vows i took , it said to "forsake all others" , it didnt say "forsake all others but the stripper down around the corner" I think it shows a lack of respect, commitment, judgement and character.. if u need another woman to turn u on and get u excited, then u have no business getting married and making promises that u had no intention of keeping u swore , to love her and only her, to forsake all others, to love , honor, and respect her, and well its not respecting her , or honoring her letting some hooch wiggle her butt and chest all over u while u get turned on and drool.. and its not proving ur love or your commitment to her to allow another woman to tempt u with sex, and thats what it is, a stripper is tempting u with the idea of sex, lust, etc.. u took a vow, u promised to uphold those vows every day of ur life, not only when its convient to u..
2007-08-24 15:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely!!! If your spouse does not approve of it, and especially Yes if you would not want YOUR spouse to receive a lap dance. Stop stressing, and go ask your partner for a lap dance instead. Have fun!
2007-08-24 15:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
A lap dance IS cheating.
2007-08-24 15:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Decadance 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Depends on what you define "cheating" as. I would say no, it doesn't, as a lapdance in and of itself is pretty harmless. HOWEVER, if you express to your spouse that you don't want them getting lapdances and they continues to get them behind your back, then yes it's cheating.
OR, you could both go to the club and get a lapdance together!! Here come the thumbs down :)
2007-08-24 17:09:38 · answer #11 · answered by maryjane 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋