The thing is I have to see all of them constantly, and if I confront them and they are mad, I won't have any friends left and things will be really awkward. I really don't know what to do.
2007-08-24 15:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Kimberly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So really what did you do to cause them to talk about you. I mean figure out whats wrong with it or not wrong with it and either defend yourself or apologize. But yes the air definately needs to be cleared especially if their behavior is bothering you.
2007-08-30 05:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Funeeegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to them, very confidently and ask them what they are talking about. If they say nothing, tell them that you heard them talking behind your back. If they deny anything, you know they aren't true friends. But you do need to confront this whole thing and find out what is really wrong. Maybe they aren't talking about or they might be. You will never know until you confront the issue. If they get mad, then let them get mad but in time one of them has to come to you and say sorry. but if you don't have friends after confronting them, i say get new friends and they will treat better.
Bottom line is that you will never know how they will act until you confront them and it will make you feel better.
2007-08-31 21:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by micki122m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends don't talk about you behind your back. They respect you and the friendship enough to come to you directly with any problems. I would let them know the friends they have not been by all this behind your back talking they have been doing and seek out some new friends. Friends like them eliminates the need for enemies if you know what I mean.
2007-09-01 21:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by sprkyrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are talking about you behind your back there not true friends. You should confront them. Besides they should not be mad they have no right to be. You should eb the one upset. And if they don't want to talk to you anymore make new friends. You don't need those kind of friends
2007-08-31 22:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear .. how do u came to know that your friends are talking in ur back!! did any one else told you? first check from where u came to know..can u trust that source? If you have really done something wrong ..if ur heart says that then rush n say sorry to your Friends.. if you have not done.. be sure they are never talking in ur back.. trust is friendship and friendship is trust only.. so cheer up!! Just prove how good Friend u r. If ur Friends are really talking.. they will stop and apologize..
2007-09-01 02:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by banaja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should, if i were u i would go right up to them and ask them about it. i mean u should solve the problem! i know it doesn't feel good when ur friends r talking about u behind ur back! so talk to them about it! nicely, not with a hurt expression or something like that. or else they might not tell u cause they might not want to see u too hurt.
2007-09-01 21:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Serena SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but first take the biotch attitude off and then confront like you are unsure if it is true. This way you won't be viewed as the paranoid you appear to be.
2007-08-31 08:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Joey Michaels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should confront them and if they get all bent out of shape over it then they were never ur friends to begin with so ask them about it see what happens u really have nuthin to lose but phony friends and who needs those
2007-09-01 20:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by desertspark122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , let them know you didn't like them talking about you behind your back and if they get to mad they an't really your friend. friends work things out .
2007-09-01 11:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with friends like that, you don't need them, get some new ones all the best
2007-09-01 16:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by colin872966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋