Throughout my teens I was never really that into sex but now it's all i think about, even have a few toys, just not anyone to do it with. I mean yea I'm a lil scared but I really think I'm ready and looking for some pointers. I don't consider myself ugly, could loose some weight though. For a long time I hid behind the fact I was a bigger girl but now I just want to go out and experience life. O yeah I have never even really kissed a guy, so it's a lil embarrassing and I'm kinda unsur of myself.
2007-08-24 16:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a clean slate, my dear - the good news is that no one has to "un do" anything you might have picked up along the way - I'm sure you can find many dudes who will be glad to teach you all about what you've been missing - you gotta put yourself out there and take a chance - some man will love the fact that you are an innocent and you will get the sex you sound like you're wanting - good luck
2007-09-01 15:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your status shouldn't be a problem unless you act stuck up or something. As long as you are humble and kind then there is someone out there for you. THere's nothing wrong with being a 25 year old virgin, and honestly that's your business. You don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to, although I personally would find that something to brag about. You are a very driven person, and I'm sure you will find love. As soon as you stop dwelling and focusing on the fact that you're not dating, and just do you, then the person you're meant to be with will find you. Good luck Girl. :-) Oh, please don't put too much stock in what Ladyren had to say about finding an educated Black man, because she obviously gets all of her information on Blacks from the television! There are educated Black men who will treat you like a Queen and love you unconditionally, if that's what you want. If you choose to date outside of your race, then that is your prerogative, but don't write off African American men because society has portrayed them as criminals. Sorry about the tangent, but I felt that I had to defend and celebrate the African American's who are doing well for themselves, instead of highlighting those who are not, and using them as representatives for our entire race.
2016-05-17 08:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be so worried. I'm a 20 year old male and haven't ever kissed a girl, and I'm by no means ugly or overweight. I've had plenty of opportunities but those were all with girls who you might call questionably easy. My friends make fun of me for it, but I actually want to wait for someone who I really have a connection with. My friends all sleep around, and no joke they've all got some disease or another already and they re only 20-22 years old. And they've never had a real girlfriend. So don't be embarrassed, when we go to bars girls always come up to me, but I know what they want. If I met a girl who I could talk to and found out she was a virgin, it wouldn't''t make a difference, it would actually ease up any tension that i was feeling, and probably make it even easier to get to know her knowing that sex isn't the only thing on her mind. Call me crazy but there's just way to much pressure on kids to have sex at ridiculously young ages these days, its disgusting the way movies make being a virgin a bad thing, like its a sin.
2007-08-24 17:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna stay single and die alone... lol. Dont worry, you're still young, its not like you're 55 or something, haha. Just wait for the right guy to show up ^_^ dont just do it with anyone because you're desperate, it has to be something special that you wont regret later on. Everything happens for a reson, dont hurry up and hook up with the first dude you meet in the street lol, I'm sure somewhere there's a guy who will love you and respect you for who you are. Good luck! :]
2007-08-24 17:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by x.x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, any guy worth sharing that special moment with shouldn't b scared off by u being a virgin, if he is, he's not worth it. personally, my faith tells me to wait until marriage, so i will. I'm sure ur feelings are normal, and just remember take it one step at a time, meet a guy, b friends, date , fall in love, then u won't feel so unsure. true love can take a while 2 find, just b patient and u'll find that special someone!
2007-09-01 13:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More power to you!!!!! I wish I had waited! Go out there and have fun but only because you're ready not because our society "demands" it. Also make sure you pick the right guy and let him know you're virgin so he'll be extra gentle.
Have fun and be safe!
2007-09-01 13:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out meet guys and date but dont' do nothing stupid. you can wait till you are married there is no shame in that and the right guy will be glad you waited and so will you and he maybe the same way also goo dluck
2007-09-01 16:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does never scars us. infact it feels good to me. where are you please marry with me immedatiely. its very good tyo hear you are virgin./ reamin virgin till you are married.
2007-08-24 17:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋