why do people always mix SEX and LOVE????
sex is just sex stop mixing the 2 together!!!!
if your mixing them you'd have to be in love and it's called making love not sex. so explain why people mix them together.
2007-08-24 16:20:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st i'm old enough to vote and live on my own i am an adult. 2nd i don't believe in waiting for marriage to have sex. sex is what people do it's social and fun. 3rd my generation is fine its old bags like you that judge everyone just because they've had sex. i've had sex many many times and i lost it early but who are you to say what i should and shouldn't do your not me. i've made my decisions and i like them. stop mixing sex and love because they are NOT the same thing!
2007-08-24 16:36:07 · update #1
yes sex and attraction are 2 different things. having sex with someone you feel an attraction but that does NOT mean they love you!!!!!! sex is human nature and so is love but mixing them together is just the stir crazy emotions you can't controll. maybe thats why so many people get hurt in life.
2007-08-24 16:40:48 · update #2
yes sex with love is way better but actually find love first... don't mix casual sex with love they're very different.
2007-08-24 16:42:57 · update #3
The vast majority of people, when they have sex, can't help but feel closer to whoever they have sex with. Most of us would find emotionally detached sex to be very, very difficult.
And generally, two people in love are going to feel compelled to have sex. Physical sex is one of the natural consequences of love.
So, to answer your question, most of us mix sex and love because we can't help it. It's in our nature. It's what we are.
2007-08-24 16:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Evilmind 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is supposed to be something you share with a person you love. But in today's society sex is so commonly accepted that people forget really just how personal and intimate it is. Most people can't have sex with a total stranger, and they can't have sex without developing some connection. So those wires get crossed sometimes, because they're close together in the first place.
2007-08-24 16:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd like to answer your question as clearly as possible.
First. Most guys think that if a girl has sex with them, they must be special to that girl.
Second. Okay, we feel special that you picked us but I don't find you attractive so thank you. Let's both move on.
Third. Wow. That was great and you are so hot. I want some more and I think I'm in love with you.
In short, only girls that are not hot can get away with having sex and not having the guys think it's love.
If you are hot, those guys will want more and since they've had you already, they think they can have more. I suggest if you are in the hot category to be careful cause it can easily get ugly.
2007-08-24 17:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by darmonx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because sex brings emotional closeness, even if there is no love, it still feels good and emotions do run. So the two are mixed. Plus, if one says they love u, they're more likely to get laid, because it goes something like this. u love me? yeah, then prove it, lets sleep together. Ok. Then emotions come. One says yay! That was fun, the other says, I love u. Then it's a mess.
2007-08-24 16:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because sex is a manifestation of love. It doesn't have to be, but it usually is, and you generally have sex with people you love or at least are attracted to.
2007-08-24 16:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply put. Yes, sex can and is done well without love.
It feels great too!
Sex WITH love however....is OUTSTANDING!!!
Just who is mixing these two together that you don't approve of?
Love is love, some feel it easily, some hide from it.
Some run away from love quicker than they would from a
snake!
Mix or don't. One is better than the other.
2007-08-24 16:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by welder guy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree, wayyy to many people have sex just to have sex. they dont even care about the other person.
You can have sex w/ out love, but im sure when you have both its 23428349283 times better!
Thats exactly y im saving myself!
2007-08-24 16:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grown-ups know the difference, how old are your friends? You can have great sex with no love and great love with not so great sex. Hopefully you get the best equation: Great love and Great sex.
2007-08-24 16:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by tharnpfeffa 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex without love is like a mixed drink with no alcohol!
2007-08-24 16:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
because most women arent like you. you are more like a man, which is a good thing. for men.
women think if a guy has sex with them,he is in love with them,guys can have sex with women we dont even like.
we can separate the two, women cant.
2007-08-24 16:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋