Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

Guys, honestly, unless a girls makeup is over-done, her nails are too long or her hair is green, do you really pay attention?

2007-07-09 19:29:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends and i have noticed that guys always date either skinny girls or fat girls but they are rarely attracted to the ones in the middle why is this?

2007-07-09 19:29:10 · 16 answers · asked by ana 3 in Singles & Dating

leaving the girl completely out of it, too. haha!! my friend needs some help as he's about to get a ring and needs to know what would be a perfect price without going in debt nor cheap.....

2007-07-09 19:27:57 · 33 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

If you know your kids hate you should you just give up?

2007-07-09 19:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by detour 4 in Family

..even those who were never my boyfriend. I have always kept in contact (mostly through email, occasional phone calls) with male friends and ex's throughout my life. I have some wonderful male friends that I have totally shut out of my life because of my husbands jealousy issues. Most of these people dont even live in the same state! I finally agreed to do this, however, as I guessed, this did not solve the jealousy issue. I asked him the other day to see what he said, that if I signed up for a class and the instructor was a guy could I go? He said no. We have only been married for a little over a year, been togeter for two. This has been an issue basically the whole time. Now I don't have any social life, he accuses my girlfriends (and they arent even single) of wanting to go out and look for guys. I have not ever spent any time with another male since I have met him. Have not given him a reason to suspect that I would cheat or anything. Do you throw away your friends? Is that healthy

2007-07-09 19:22:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

oh im married to my hubby but i love another man....

I WOULD BE CRUSHED if my wife was even CONSIDERING another man!!! I'D NEVER CONSIDER ANOTHER WOMEN!!?!?

scares me...these questions...

2007-07-09 19:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is an appropriate punishment for a 16 yr. old for sneaking out of the house in the middle of the night and lying. Is grounding for 1 month ( no cell, no puter, no friend activities) too much?

2007-07-09 19:17:47 · 20 answers · asked by undone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends and family and sometimes random people say that I'm pretty and that I'm not fat, I'm normal weight, but I don't get it. My friends are always telling me about somoe guy that asked if I'm single or something. If I'm supposedly pretty and not fat, than why hasn't any guy ever asked me out?

2007-07-09 19:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by Chici 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 19:17:19 · 3 answers · asked by sweetpea 2 in Weddings

I mean seriously, is it THAT hard to do?

2007-07-09 19:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a SD who is 20 and I pretty much raised her. I am paying alot of money for her to go to college, she helped her find a good job and she was living at home rent, utilities and food free. Her boyfriend is very untrustworthy and we told her she had to move out. She decided to trade her family loyalty and respect for her BF who was disrespectful to her family and also hit my 12 year-old daughter (her 1/2 sister) and was verbally abusive to her as well. I was very generous to my SD all her life and worked very hard to help her get where she is today. I became very hurt and suffer from major anxiety attacks because of this situation. People tell me that I did too much for my SD for too long. My husband feels the same way about the situation and feels that my SD needs to live on her own with less help from us. I am just so angry because her 22 year-old BF came along and just destroyed everything. Or should we say that she should be held responsible for her actions as well?

2007-07-09 19:08:59 · 9 answers · asked by TooGenerous 1 in Family

My husband's being a jerk. He keeps taking off and we have a 3 yr old together. We just moved, he lost his 23 year old brother. I know he's stressed, but he has a family to think about. I know he's under a lot of stress, but I don't think it's fair to our daughter that he keeps leaving and coming back. I know he's not cheating on me. He just stays at his aunt's house and drinks. I am fed up and lonely. My daughter is everything to me and I want to do what is best for her, not me. Please help!!!

2007-07-09 19:08:14 · 17 answers · asked by mishka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im CRAAAAAAAAAAZY bout sex. total freak, love the whole jungle scenario....doin it like the animals...love the costumes and bunny outfits the 6 inch heels, EVERYTHING.

ok, but here's the THING...all of this i want to share with my FUTURE ONE DAY WIFE...(not married yet)

but im going to college in a month, and i would like to fool around with a FEW girls...not a bunch b/c i want to do SO much with my wife one day...

sound ok?

2007-07-09 19:06:04 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a man that likes me very much but there's another man that I'm already married to that tells me he loves me very much as well! Also we have children but I'm am very interested in the other gentleman.I don't know what I should be doing or thinking!!!!

2007-07-09 19:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by Carebear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband 6 months ago but came back because he made me a bunch of promises, which he broke with in a month. We started marriage counceling at that time but he quit after about 5 sessions. For the past 2 months I've gone by myself and all he has done is hide in the bedroom from me and the kids. He hasn't expressed any interest in returning. He does not talk to me about anything and the only answers I ever get are "I don't know" and "I don't care". When he F's up, which is on a pretty regular basis and I get upset, he just asks me "How do you think I feel". Should I feel guilty for leaving him? I'm so confused!

2007-07-09 19:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Love Aura 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A close friend of mine is havin an extramarital affair with her boyfriend.She got married recently but to my surprise she is not really attending her husband and find ways to stay away from him.I m really upset about all this as i don't want things to get messed up.If anyone has a solution then plz reply.

2007-07-09 18:58:52 · 10 answers · asked by himanshuset 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am moving out of state and my parents do not want me to go and she is giving me a major guilt trip but today she said that she feels sorry for my kids that there leaving with me and that she raised a good person but my husband has made me not to be that person anymore. I am so hurt by what she said and not quite sure what to do about it. I am not gonna let the guilt trip get to me but the hurtful things she are saying to me is just making me want to move as soon as possible any suggestions on what I should say or do?

2007-07-09 18:55:35 · 31 answers · asked by kschall2 2 in Family

i am so nervous because my dad wants to meet my boyfriend and his parents but the problem is that my dad hates blacks and my boy friends dad is black and his mom is white im scared that my dad wont approve him for the color of his dad....but my boyfriend has light skin color...what should i do?

2007-07-09 18:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by *bonita* 1 in Singles & Dating

why do moms always ******' disconnected the internet lines??

2007-07-09 18:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do women call their girlfriends sweetie?
I have a friend that I haven't had for very long and I wish good things to her and stuff and she called me sweetie for the first time.

We are both girls... what does she mean by it?

2007-07-09 18:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Dont you hate it when its hot and you want to sleep?

My room is like a furnace right now, my fan isnt helping. Ive been trying to fall asleep now for a hour or so and Im getting nowhere fast, its just too hot. Now im wide awake and bored out of my mind, but I cant answer any more questions due to the stupid limits!

I hate it! Sorry for the rant haha, feel free to email me or IM me or whatever if your bored too, boredom loves company.

2007-07-09 18:44:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know i am to young. but my bf wants a baby. we both love each other and want one. i told him i want to be at least out of high school. he said he wants one so bad. he already went shooping for it. idk what to do. i love him yes i already know hes the one. i wnat to grow up. my hearts saying yes my mind is aying no. his mom wnats me to move in. i know my mom would kick me out. he has money and a place so the baby will be good off. but he has been known to be scared of relationships. i asked him what if when we grow up what if when he get out of school he told me what job hes getting what collage where to lieve etc. but i'm scared. i'm ready i'm not sure he is? so please help.

2007-07-09 18:27:17 · 49 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 18:27:05 · 17 answers · asked by Jules 4 in Weddings

chances for them finding a boyfriend or girlfirend are pretty slim because the best chance to get a girlfriend was in middle school or high school and not in college.

2007-07-09 18:25:04 · 16 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

she met on the internet and she really likes him and he likes her but they live in 2 different states and she said she luvs him and he said the same thing is that ok or what? what do i tell her?

2007-07-09 18:23:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok what if you are in love with your ex of 5 years but he is married to someone else but you know that his wife is just using him for money and his car and he tells you in emails all the time he misses you and loves you almost everyday would it be bad if you try to break up their marriage cus you feel he is still in love with you

2007-07-09 18:22:31 · 14 answers · asked by shorty28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here is my dilemma: My one son won't talk to me at all. My second son does not respect me or really like me he just pretends for the sake of giving me a little respect. He always ends up blurting out the truth he puts me down says I don't know anything about him etc. I have always believed that my ex has been responsible for teaching them to disrespect me. My problem is this: I have made my children my focus and it really is too painful for me to continue my life happy without them treating me right. I can honestly say I have been a good mother I know that. It is I believe that they have been taught by their male role model to hate me. Is it possible realistically to go on when my children basically don't care about me? In other words my sons mentally abuse me they are both young adults.

2007-07-09 18:19:50 · 3 answers · asked by detour 4 in Family

how can i apologize to my mother and show/tell her that I really really mean it?

we have just gone through a very very very very very big fight, and she started to even talk about me getting a foster parent! it's THAT bad!

of course, i've said the words, "sorry" but that just doesnt seem to be enough!

I really dont have enough guts or money to go walk to the local counselor and discuss my options, or what i can do.

Plus, I'm way too scared of death to commit suicide. Yes, I'm a coward.

PLEASE HELP EVERYONE! IM IN HELL!

I am 15 years old.

2007-07-09 18:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think it's better to be a reserved and suspicious of people or to be naive and completely trusting and forgiving of everyone? I know they say that ignorance is bliss, but I feel like you have to be a little suspicious of people in order keep yourself from getting hurt. If there wasn't a middle of the road answer, which one would be better?

2007-07-09 18:13:15 · 3 answers · asked by Andrea B 1 in Singles & Dating

Some girls I know have best friends which are guys. Do you think the girls act like guys themselves? How would you act? I'm afraid that when I get a good guy friend I'll fall in love. Suggestions?

2007-07-09 18:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by love, come save me 2 in Friends