Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

2007-07-09 17:17:44 · 25 answers · asked by angle eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like i want a cute poem to email my boyfrien.. and tell him how much i love him... make it nice 4 me.. thanx

2007-07-09 17:17:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My In-laws never appreciate what my parents do for the grand kids? I hate this part. My mom goes out of her way to help me out and on couple of occasions I did mention it to my In Laws and they pretended as if they didn't even listen. I am not happy with this at all. What should I do?

2007-07-09 17:12:37 · 15 answers · asked by c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Today I met with my Lover and this is how it went down:

Me:How could you go back to him after you told me you loved me,We talked about having a family.After the way he has treated you you giving him anther chance?

Her:Im sorry,I just want whats right for my daughter.Im putting my feelings aside for now.

Me:What does your daughter have to do with you having a physical relationship again with him?

Her:Im just trying to do my part in this.

Me:Once you told me you loved me I felt like you were mine.I feel like you cheated me.

Her: (Tears fall)

Me:Im not saying no one can love you but You know no one will ever love you like I did.I came along and I took away the pain he caused you and now you leave me hanging.You wouldnt B standing here if you were sure of what you've done.But you made your choice,I hope he's worth it.I know what I did was the wrong way but I regret nothing cause I loved you.

Me:(holding her)Goodbye Luv

Her:(crying)Goodbye

The End

2007-07-09 17:08:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 17:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my man is 40 and divorced with a son, things didnt go so well, i want to ask a general question for those who are divorced, do you think u can fall in love harder a second time?

2007-07-09 17:03:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 17:01:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he responded..8.5,, what does that mean?? he is 40, i am 23 ...

2007-07-09 16:59:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes my older sister gets on my nerves with little things that she does and it pisses me the hell off sometimes. When i confront her about it she gets a damn attitude about. So how can i let her know without us trying to kick eachother's ***?

2007-07-09 16:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by flower_power 2 in Family

I found out my husband kept old love letters, photos (some are nudes) and momentos in a sealed box marked "personal" in the very back of our closet. These items are of good times spent with his gorgeous ex-girlfriend. The girlfriend broke his heart into a million pieces and she royally screwed him over for an entire year while he kept forgiving her over and over again for all of the lies and cheating. He finally broke up with her 2 years ago. I thought he was over her. We've been married for for 1 1/2 years.

He sees nothing wrong with this at all! He says he does not open the box and can't seem to give me a good reason why he keeps this box in our closet. He won't get rid of the box. He does not keep nude photos and love letters of his many other ex-girlfriends, only her.

Am I over reacting? Should I be concerned about this? What would you do?

2007-07-09 16:47:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous Joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 16:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by berryflvr 2 in Weddings

Well, my parents aren't the nicest people. Whenever they are mad, they blame me for something stupid that I did. Like if I don't have my room clean. My dad has punched me in the face and called me a stupid b**** and a little f*** just because my room was messy. And my dad says that kind of stuff to me all the time. Also, both of my parents smoke pot.

2007-07-09 16:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-09 16:41:46 · 15 answers · asked by Sam Da Man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am talking 2 my friends cousin online cause we like eachother and want 2 get 2 know eachother more. But the problem is that idk wat 2 talk about besides interests which we already talked about. By the way hes 13 1/2 and im 15 this month i dont care how old he is b/c he is mature and kind. So please help wat can i discuss with him online? Well now that he just asked me out 2nite. Please help thx

2007-07-09 16:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by BellaCullen~<3~ 3 in Singles & Dating

grandmother talks to my uncle and i talk at the same time
than all the sudent she gets angry and yells and screems at me

2007-07-09 16:40:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just curious :)

2007-07-09 16:38:31 · 13 answers · asked by breezy 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a man going thru the tailend of his divorce. I am not the reason fo rthe divorce-btw. It has been 3 months of casual dating and we agreed together that he was not ready for a committment, but that we really enjoy each others company and would like to hang out when he has the time. He works 7days on & 7 days off. On his 7 days off, he has his son full time for the summer. Also, he just got word 3 weeks ago that his hearing has been postponed, per his lawyer trying to commit suicide. His Ex is just a nightmare and taking as much money from him in the meantime. I have started to progress in my feelings for him and he has gone into a depression. So I don't hear from him in days, but when I do, it is so nice to talk. But I think I want more now & I know he can't.
I have decided to step back from him. I want to see him once he is thru the divorce, but for now, I need more & I don't want to add to his stress. How do I break up a non-committment & let him know I care?

2007-07-09 16:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm married, and recently I became really attracted to another guy and have fallen big time for him. It feels like I've started something with him, but we haven't crossed a line yet.... He's told me that he would wait for me but he needs to know as he doesn't want to be hanging around all this time for nothing.

I told him I was leaving my husband, but that its not something that is going to happen overnight.. there are things to sorted out and arrangements to be looked at - he understands all this - and has now said that he wants to be just friends and needs the time apart so he can get sort him out - and that if when I'm ready he's still around.. then maybe!!!

Can we still be friends... did I get played some how or have I done all the playing... I can't help like feel I've been made a fool about by this other guy... let alone what I've done but haven't done if that makes sense to my husband?? Is he worth still being friends with.. or should I just cut my loses??

2007-07-09 16:37:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 i got beaten up at town today by a group of teenagers older than me there was 3 of them and i was on my own walking home from my friends house, i got kicked in the stomach really hard and now i got a bruise coming on my stomach and i got kicked in the head but i don't wanna tell my parents but my friend thinks i should tell them?

2007-07-09 16:36:12 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i asked a guy that i was once involved with if he had a girlfriend. he say why do you ask that im just with my friends. i said oh okay but do you have a girlfriend? he said oh yeah for like 5 months. i said aww i thats cute. then he called me and said i just called you cause my girl thinks were messing around. i texted him and said tif your girl thinks that then stop calling and texting. he said he would call me i said no. then he goes on to say hes not with her anymore and she is stupid!! but 20 minutes ago that was his girl! hw then texted this:

lying about what. stop messing with her.thats just like how it was wit you tell her im down and go bacj but i dont need to go back cause im really in love but i need to move on.

do you even think he really has a girlfriend

2007-07-09 16:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by UW2010 3 in Singles & Dating

i heard 6 inches when erect make the girls feel uncomfortable mine is 7 inches will tht hurt the girls?

wat do i do?
im in a crisis!!!!!!
wat shoul i do?

2007-07-09 16:29:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats some things i could do in the house! im bored and everyones being buttholes.lol and I dont have anyone to talk to so what can I do to cure my bordem!? gosh thanks!

2007-07-09 16:27:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-09 16:25:44 · 10 answers · asked by luisa l 1 in Singles & Dating

having sex with someone you're not totally in love with from now until eternity... which would you choose? the only options are the actions given here... one or the other. which would you choose?

2007-07-09 16:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by James 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so, my boyfriend broke up with me because me and his friends don't get along and hes says his friends are important. We dont get to see each other everyday and the day we were hanging out his friends just all of the sudden pop out of no where and ruin things and are just rude and disrespectful to me...So, later on that night my boyfriend asks me if i want to go to his friends party and i say i dont want to because his friends obviously dont like me and i dont like them and why put myself in an uncomfortable setting, right? But anyways, we ended up going to his friends house anyways and they werent there so he dropped me off at my house and we were just out there for atleast an hour discussing and he said in order to make our relationship to work i have to change, but i dont feel the need to change because i see nothing wrong that i've done...so, he tells me it just wont work..
and we broke up. I can honestly say i miss/love him and i dont know what to do...

2007-07-09 16:22:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Basically me and my girlfriend would like to get married so that Americorps would allow me to spend time with her during the breaks instead of having to go to relatives/family. Basically they pay off the travel fairs for it so I heard. Otherwise I'd have to travel for an entire day from So.California to Oregon if I go to my parents home for break. Which in gas now is a good 200-400 bucks. Plus by the time break comes around parents may sell my car.

I'm joining Americorps to help people but also to save money for college and starting a life with my girlfriend. We're both 19 and know we want to stay together for life (been going out 4 years).

Anyways troubles are for example, her insurance would be canceled if she did get married, Unfortunantly the Insurance from Americorps doesnt extend to family,(cheap bastards) and the dont allow use to spend breaks with Fiance's.

It's a pain in the butt cause she is forgetful about trying to fix stuff and I want to spend more time w/ her.
Help?

2007-07-09 16:21:35 · 6 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one day hes amazing and acts like im the only thing that matters in the world. He tells me over and over again that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and for us to someday have kids. He cant keep his hands off of me and cant keep his hands off me. Then the next day he cant even really look at me in the eyes and is kind of distant. Could it nbe a guy thing that sometimes they just need space??? am i over analyzing the situation?

2007-07-09 16:19:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I caught my husband out on a lie the other day, then another a couple of days after. He tells me little lies often and then makes me think it is in my head. We are in marriage counseling for the second time and I'm really putting in 110% to get this marriage to last and work. I feel betrayed by him and just don't know if my counseling is a waste of time. We have been together for nearly 5 years. It truly has been a struggle from about week 8 into our relationship but I have stayed and stuck it out because I truly do love him and see he has some really beautiful qualities that I love. Now I'm growing tired of trying and getting let down when I think all is well and we are starting to make progress. It was a couple of days ago with the lie episodes. Its nothing like he is cheating etc, little lies. I just don't appreciate the fact that I'm being 100% he is still telling little lies. I feel like its the principal of it all. Now I just can't stand the look of him. What do you's think??

2007-07-09 16:15:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband stopped at the store to put gas. The cashier guy told my husband that he has been waiting for him , he told my husband he was a gemini wich he is, and also told him his birthday and got it right, then he told my husband that he had a toothache wich he does and we got freaked out. He went on and told my husband that he was going to be getting into some kind of trouble , but couldn't tell him what kind. Now i am freaked out do you think that this could be true i mean we have never been to this store ever in our lives and don't know this man he gave my husband some kind of herbs and told him to make tea with it and drink it and it would help him. Do you think my husband should take it we don't know what it is, but how would this man know all this . HELP

2007-07-09 16:15:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I'll be able to lick her pussycat better if she's gets waxed or something down there. But I don't know how to tell her that cause I don't wanna hurt her feelings or anything. Should I ask her or let her decide that on her own?

BTW, I trim up mine cause I used to have a forest down there and it's better now that I did.

2007-07-09 16:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by slice243 2 in Singles & Dating