Okay, so, my boyfriend broke up with me because me and his friends don't get along and hes says his friends are important. We dont get to see each other everyday and the day we were hanging out his friends just all of the sudden pop out of no where and ruin things and are just rude and disrespectful to me...So, later on that night my boyfriend asks me if i want to go to his friends party and i say i dont want to because his friends obviously dont like me and i dont like them and why put myself in an uncomfortable setting, right? But anyways, we ended up going to his friends house anyways and they werent there so he dropped me off at my house and we were just out there for atleast an hour discussing and he said in order to make our relationship to work i have to change, but i dont feel the need to change because i see nothing wrong that i've done...so, he tells me it just wont work..
and we broke up. I can honestly say i miss/love him and i dont know what to do...
2007-07-09 16:22:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have no idea how young you are, but you sound young to me...way too young, in fact, to be wasting your time on just one boy. Trust me..there will ALWAYS be guys you can date. Go out and live your life and have fun.
2007-07-09 16:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by getusedtoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him a little time. If he feels the way that you do, then he will soon see that the reason for the break up is minor. You are his g/f, they are his friends. It is possible for a man to have both and not necessarily deal with either at the same given time! Friends are important, but you were the one who made it into his heart. So I think that deserves a place of importance to him, if he was serious about you. When and if he does want to talk, then make him understand that you are not telling him he should not have his friends. Just tell him that your there for him and him only. Let him know that he does not have to chose between you and them. You and them take up different roles in his life and you dont want to lose him over something like that. If and when you decide to go around him and his friends, dont judge and maintain a low profile. If they're g/f's are around hang with them and let the guys be guys. But if its a guy only thing than let him do it on his own. You dont have to be at his side every second.
2007-07-09 16:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad about it at all! its not ur fault! if he likes u more then his friends then really, he just isnt worth it!! dont waste ur time on a boy like him. there is a man out there, the right one, whos waiting 4 u. obviously this guy isnt the one. dont hate him, but dont go out w/ him or hang out w/ him. find a good friend(s) 2 talk 2 and try 2 just 4get about him.
2007-07-09 16:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, lets be real, first of all he had no respect for you! If he is letting his friends dis you like that. look in the mirror and tell yourself you can do better then that,. you dont need a man to dis you, you dont need friends making fun of you! you no you are better then that...dont let him see you cry because thats letting him no he got you undercontrol. (in other words he got you right where he wants you.)
2007-07-09 16:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by redaya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he told you that you had to change for him, he obviously isnt worth it. hes a jerk and you dont deserve him. try getting your mind off of things and go out on a girls night out with your closest girl friends and have an amazing time!!
2007-07-09 16:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look at your self in the mirror and see if you love that person if so than don't worry and late go. if this is meant to be it will ring off the hook. and if not he was not the one and sure your heart my feel hurt but shad your tears and move on to bigger and better it is meant for you dear! believe me
2007-07-09 16:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by VERNA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends have an influence sometimes it can become a problem...its not about his friends...but you do need to be more socialable...if he choose his friends over you..then you really need to let him go...just think how it would be in the future alot worse.
2007-07-09 16:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit your knees and thank God it's over. How can you love him (and why would you even want to) when he allows his friends to be disrespectful to you? Start over with a higher quality guy who chooses his friends carefully.
2007-07-09 16:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get back together with him, ur gonna have to say ur sorry and gonna have to deal with his friends. and maybe when ur bf isn't around, u can apologize to his friends.
good luck!!
2007-07-09 16:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Love is 4evr!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize you may love him sweetie...But if he can just break up with you cause his friends don't get along with you is BS.You don't need him.Go on with your life.
2007-07-09 16:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by BOBBY H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋