Sometimes my older sister gets on my nerves with little things that she does and it pisses me the hell off sometimes. When i confront her about it she gets a damn attitude about. So how can i let her know without us trying to kick eachother's ***?
2007-07-09 16:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by flower_power 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Any time you have something negative to say to someone, remember the sandwich. You put the negative thing in between two positive things.
"I'm so glad you're my sister and I want us to be good friends as well.....that's why I get upset when you (fill in the blank) and I know you get upset too when I mention it to you.....
BUT it's important to me that we not argue or get out of sorts with each other because I really do love you and want us to be close so, what can I do to help make things better?"
2007-07-09 17:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key, set her down and talk calmley to her and say look i don't want to hurt your feelings because you are my sister and i care about you but certain things you do make me upset like when you.....fill in the blanks, if you nice about it and don't blow up she'll be more willing to listen.
2007-07-09 17:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋