Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

I pay no rent at my mom's house, but I'm already 23 years old and would like to have my own things even if that means spending a lot of money that I don't have. I'm willing to get all the jobs I need, so do you think I should move out or stick around freeloading

2007-07-09 18:10:54 · 8 answers · asked by Leo 3 in Family

I really like this guy at my school his best friend said that the guy I like likes me but I asked him and he never really answered me. What should I believe?

2007-07-09 18:09:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know what kind of insurance you need to have on oneself. so i can get ideas and jot them down, and begin to look them all up to find the cheapest ones.

2007-07-09 18:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by anna panda! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ahhh so i've had my bf for a year (and known him for 2 years) and sometimes i just wish WHY COULDNT I MEET HIM WHEN I WAS 16 OR SOMETHING! its sooo hard and i dont wanna break up bc i really really like.. love him. and i just.. need help.

2007-07-09 18:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by Eat. Sleep. Run. ☼ 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are both 17 and we just got engaged in may. we've been together for a little over 3 years, and we want to get married next june. we'll both be 18 by then. and we've got a bunch of things picked out, but we haven't really told anyone yet. i'm not sure how my parents and his parents will react. i told my mom a couple months ago that we wanted to get married right when we turned 18, but she just kind of brushed it off.

how do we tell our parents??

have any of you ever been in the same position?

or are any of you parents that have gone through this??

please help!

and i don't want people telling me that we shouldn't get married. that doesn't solve anything for me. i just want to know how you think we should tell our parents.

thanx!

2007-07-09 18:06:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so this guy i like and me r playing the question game

but with relationship questions

what are some deep questions i could ask him and plz me mature with this

2007-07-09 18:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by screw this life 1 in Singles & Dating

We dated 4years. and he broke up w/ me about a month ago the reason was so he could 'focus on himself' well, i called him last week because a private caller had called my phone saying all this crap and i didn't know who it was so i wanted to make sure it was no one he knew...and then he just texted me today apologizing for if he sounded like an *** on the phone last week but it was because he said he felt 'awkward' since we hadn't talked in so long and asked me if that's how i felt too. well, i guess just now he realized ive been talking to some other guys now and then texts me... i dont know. but...do you think its cuz hes thinking of me or something?i know it really shouldnt matter.

2007-07-09 18:06:23 · 5 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my b/f have been looking at rings for the past few weeks and we picked a few different ones, well i told him if you gets the smaller ring get the band i want and if you get the bigger one dont. when he propose and got the smallest ring with the baddest cut, color and clarity and no band. What hurts the most is that i know he has the money. When i seen the ring he got me i felt like crying. I still cant get over it. Should i feel this way? and how do i tell him that i hate the ring?

2007-07-09 18:04:26 · 51 answers · asked by BrittRose 1 in Weddings

2007-07-09 18:02:48 · 41 answers · asked by shiva 1 in Singles & Dating

Think it might be time for the two of you to go your separate ways? Been wondering if your relationship is going to blossom or bomb? I've been there and done that. Me and my ex decided to go on our separate ways due to some conflicts on our schedules since we're both living on a different continent and the fact that we are both busy on our jobs. How about you guys?

2007-07-09 18:00:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 18:00:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like this guy & I think he is shy or just doesn't know how to come on to me....so Iam thinkin maybe I should make the first move...what do you think? Should I or shouldn't I?

2007-07-09 17:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by simplesimon 5 in Singles & Dating

This chick I went to elementary school with IMs me all the time, & sometimes I don't wanna be bothered. & she always buzzes me & demands an answer for my personal business & tries to control my life over the internet & even scammed me out of $150, so I'm not speaking to her anymore. So now, she sends me offline messages, like, "I saw you on MySpace earlier. You were online." & she DEMANDS that I put her on my Preferred List on my blogs, & she always talks about that she wants to have sex with me & my friends. & she so-claimed to use that $150 to get married, when she didn't get married & used that $$ to get a tattoo & just all of a sudden starts mysteriously getting all this free jewelry & clothes. & then she calls my friends hoes & sluts & she doesn't even know them, just because she's mad b/c they don't wanna entertain her sexual requests. Or she would say, "Yeah, I saw u was online today. I thought you was @ school, so u lied." Can't I be online @ school without her bothering me?

2007-07-09 17:53:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How to draw a line in being open to our spouse and to what degree should we allow our spouse to have? Like if he has secrets of his friend, is it wrong to share with spouse?Is it wrong to allow spouse to know them? If spouse refuse to share, does it mean that spouse does not trust us or hidden agenda?

2007-07-09 17:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not just any name an original one i was leaning toward the name innocent my last name is morgan can you help?

2007-07-09 17:48:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you love about marriage?

What do you hate or dislike?

What would you change if you could?

Serious question, thank you in advance for your honest answers.

2007-07-09 17:46:26 · 8 answers · asked by >Golden Ticket< 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are Asian women comfortable with the size difference of white men? I can see that there might be problems. Serious answers please!

2007-07-09 17:45:23 · 9 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok yeseterday I posted that I had 2 best friends & the 1 I knew the longest was my MOH . The other one got jealous and we had a problem with that. I decided to make them all bridesmaid and told my MOH I'll let her wear a flower in her hair that way she knows she's MOH w/o the jealous friend knowing. Anyway here is the problem . I made 3 of them bridesmaids , my sister & MOH both loved the dresses I picked out for them and now the jealous friend says she dont like the dress , she wants it to be more sexier !! I am not having a playboy type of wedding , I am real fed up at this point , this is MY wedding not hers !! So How do I handle this ? Do I tell her she HAS to wear it or she's not in the wedding anymore or should I consider a new dress , not too revealing but a little more to her liking ?? She only wants another dress to show off her boob job !!

2007-07-09 17:45:02 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Weddings

So I finally worked up the courage to ask the guy I like out to the movies, and he said yes and asked for my # and called me the next day. We went to the movies and it was pretty fun...we talked a lot and we were the only 2 there in the theater for a while. He said something like "We have the theater to alll to ourselves and we can do whatever we want" and like winked at me. He took my cell phone and put his number into it, and after the movie he walked with me to my car and sort of hugged me. He hasn't called or IMed or anything since then though, and it's been almost a week. He's kind of quiet and introverted though, so maybe he's just shy. But I'm not sure... what do you guys think? Is he interested in me at all? (and does it really mean anything when the guy accepts the girl's invitation to go out somewhere?)

2007-07-09 17:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by Katy H 3 in Singles & Dating

I just got back from China and was treated like a celebrity. Honestly, I thought that women there would treat me less good because I am different looking than Chinese men. Can anyone shed light on this?

2007-07-09 17:41:54 · 8 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the scoop my wife of 3 yr's has a dairy and she writes about everything. So about a month ago she was in a bad mood. I asked her what was going on, she said everything was fine. But I could tell there was something going on. So I read a couple pages in the dairy and found out 2 things. 1 she has a text buddy who she says when the text the thing he says lights up her world no matter what mode shes in he brings a smile to her face. 2 she says she has a fatal attraction happen to her. Where she recieves calls in the middle of the night with someone proclaim his love for her and the whole nine. So I comfronted her on my findings know its been almost 2 months and we have not had any kind of intimate contact (kissing hugging etc.). Now who should be madder her or me?

2007-07-09 17:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by Raqi Killer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

"I'm not saying NOTHING!" Like for example, I might tell something that happened about an unfortunate event about something that happened to me, & the friend might say "No comment". or "I'm gonna leave that subject alone". & by personal experience, when they say that, that means that they figured I deserved what bad happened to me, but just don't wanna say it. Like I just told a so-called friend about me not making good grades in courses that were easy A's & she said, "I'm not sayin' nothin'." Like deep in her heart she wanted to just LAUGH IN MY FACE.

Is that a true friend? A friend who when you tell her your problems, she says NO COMMENT b/c she figures you deserved what bad happened to you?

2007-07-09 17:38:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my friend emailed me and said "hey wats up?"
i ressponded " nothing much just getting reddy for my sisters wedding in agust". she responded " oh i see how it is ur sis is getting married and u wont invite me to her wedding i see how it is i'll just find a better friend!" i responded "ofcoars ur invited and we havnt even sent out the invitations yet so wat makes u think ur not invited"
its been about a month and she wont respond to me!

dose she have a right to be mad at me i meen this is my sisters wedding not mine i cant controll who she invites i meen she barrly knows my sis and we have alot of family so theres gonna be alot of people coming!

who is at fault me or her?

2007-07-09 17:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by Hadia 2 in Friends

We have planned an anniversary trip to San Antonio and are going to go out for a nice dinner and carriage ride. I can't think of what to get for him, though. Any input is appreciated!!

2007-07-09 17:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by heartsonfire 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have been together about a year and a half. Well, whenever he knows that i owe someone (via credit cards, loans, etc.) he will go and pay it off. I know that he is just concerned and only wants to help but i really don't want him to pay for holes that i dig myself into. I feel like the only way i am going to learn to take responsibility for my stupid habits is to have to really hit rock bottom and come up from there. I was really stupid and charged up credit cards. Well he wanted me to let him in on the financial side of my life. I hate doing that but i love him. So i told him some of the bills that i had. Well little did i know- He called them ALL within a week and paid them off. So when asked about more.. I didn't exactly tell him the truth. Well let's just call it what it is- I LIED. I knew if i told him the total cost of everything i owed- He would pay it. So when he found out that i lied about how much i owed. HE BLEW UP. He's furious that i lied. HELP :(

2007-07-09 17:31:02 · 4 answers · asked by Brit 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 17:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 17:29:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. My dad got remmaried like two years ago. and i gained a step sister 9 years younger then me. I live with my mom most of the time. but anyways i found out my step-mom is trying to change susanne (my step sis) last name to mine. and i don't want her to have my last name. it is the only thing left the me and my dad only have. what do i say? this?:

"i don't want susanne 2 have price for her last name. i would be okay with scarberry-price but not price. sure her dad might not be in her life but ur my dad. and i am NOT okay with her being a price. i accepted bro becuz he was there before me and he actually is a blood relative. but susanne has her own dad there are not. i want to be your only little girl, bcuz i am ur only little girl. she can call my dad, dad, but that is it. dad, i hope u actually hear my story unlike when u were first getting married, u ignored me. when susanne took MY room, u ignored me. but i could deal with thoughs, BUT NOT THIS ONE! at least hear me"

2007-07-09 17:28:36 · 27 answers · asked by FL๑Яida GЯL ♥♥♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 17:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i visited a lot already, i knew some new websites. i have some times to choose and im looking around . is there any body out there that know really great website with variety of gowns?

2007-07-09 17:20:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings