2007-07-09 17:29:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once heard a story straight from the heart
About a girl and how her world began to fall apart
It all started when she met the boy that made her life complete
Just thinking of him made her heart skip a beat
They were the couple everyone wanted to be
There were no imperfections as either one could see
As the weeks passed they fell more in love and were less aware
Of how often life turns out to be unfair
Until one day she finally gave in
She realized there was no way she could win
She said I'm sorry but i have to let you go
As he reached for her hand she pulled away whispering no
When she turned around a tear slid down her cheek
He just stood there speechless, forgetting how to speak
The next few days were the hardest at home
She truly felt she was all alone
Her mom pushed in her face how she had won
Her dad said "i knew he was just another one"
Her sister said "come on you'll be ok"
At work it was like her friends weren't even there
None of them seemed to really care
Her life had no more color, just black and white
Even getting out of bed turned into a fight
Despite their tries things just weren't like before
Then he decided "i don't wanna try anymore"
At that she tried to cut him out
But the more she ignored him the more her feelings began to shout
When she saw him that day she could no longer just walk by
And before she knew it her mouth opened up and out came "hi"
He looked up and said "so now we're talking?"
She just smiled and join his walking
Everyday they talked a little more
And everyday she began to like him a little more then before
As the months passed by she became more and more aware
About how life's unfair
Because eventually everything becomes your past
But your memories will always last
And with that i hope you see
That all love is meant to be
But hold on and don't give in
Stand tall, hold up your chin
And believe me when i say
The right time will come one day
He'll open your eyes to things you couldn't ever see
I know this because..this is a story all about me
Love Andy.....be positive
2007-07-09 17:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by andy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He deceived me. He has his own business and during the daytime--never in the evening or on weekends-- spend his time in strip clubs. He met and fell for a stripper in one of the clubs. .She was an illegal alien from Poland. He bought her a car, rented a house for her and bought all new furnishings for her--all top of the line. He also bought her a 3.5 carat diamond engagement ring, paid for cosmetic surgery as well as dental implants.
All this in a period of one year and each day coming home for dinner at 5:00 P.M., being the caring, sensitive and wonderful guy I assumed I had married 30 years ago.
His betrayal is beyond any words that I can express here.
The real clincher is now his business is just staying viable on a shoestring and he has gotten into debt in the amount of a half million dollars. And, because there is no money, I am stuck.
2007-07-09 17:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by chansenfam@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were together for over a year and we always talked about marriage... he even told other people about us being married someday. He ended up neglecting me... ignoring me.. for a week or two.. and he completely ignored my feelings when I told him. I also ended up finding pictures of him all over another girl.... So I had to end it. I couldn't call him to break-up... he wouldn't even pick up. So I had to EMAIL him.... and he NEVER said ONE WORD to me since.
He was my first love. We were friends for a long time before we started going out, so if felt right. I never felt so much pain in my entire life. The person who said he would NEVER be like any of the other guys who treated me like crap, ended up being the one who treated me the WORSE.
But it's been 2 months, and I'm doing great. Because I am a stronger, better, and free-er person now. And I know I deserve the best. God will give me the right person in His time.
2007-07-09 17:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Together for a long time and she made me the happiest man on earth.
Later one she made some excuse and dumped me.
I really really loved her, I went to self mutilation and crying all night long.
Later on, she said she still loved me to death so me like a HUGE RETARD ACCEPTED. I was the happiest guy on earth again and I thought we were going to last long this time.
But 2 days later another excuse and she dumped me a second time!!!!!!!!! >.<
Then a week or so passed by and she said she still loved me like crazy and that SHE NEVER EVER WANTED TO LEAVE ME EVER AGAIN. I believed her and i was still desperately heart broken so I accepted her back.
NEXT DAY SHE MADE ANOTHER EXCUSE AND DUMPED ME THE THIRD LAST TIME!!! At that point I just hated women period and didn't want to speak with her ever again!!!!
A week passed by and i called her and said I was soooo sorry for being mean and that I wanted to atleast remain friends. So we still are friends, but a part of me wants to kill her for how she treated me....
I was the best bf she ever had!! I called, I painted for her! I wrote poetry I sang I played guitar. I did favors massaged her treated her like a queen spent all my money on her. I even proposed to marriage cause I loved her soo much!!!!
All she did was treat me like trash!!!
F that, I haven't trusted another girl since :)
Oh wells, I don't hold grudges cause I'm super nice so I pretty much forgive her by now, although even after all I went threw my heart still wants her back :(
....*sigh* I don't think i'll ever be the same, life just has no meaning left in it for me......
(women like this lower the amount of nice guys in the world, this sets back my trust on any human)
2007-07-09 17:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by lw4h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Justin, you're fortunate like a lotto winner and that i clarify. you have heard the expression: blessing in conceal. This incredibly suits you. i anticipate which you're in her age team yet you're of diverse yokes. Emotionally, I comprehend your discomfort regardless of the indisputable fact that it truly is in basic terms non everlasting while in comparison with the long-suffering injury she could have inflicted you IF she could substitute into your spouse. the girl talked to you it seems that and clearly, made you recognize which you're actually not her type. Your history shows your point of training and you're actually not the bar brawler type which may make her a greater suitable couple in her view of existence. transforming into a married couple, it won't take you long to realize which you carry a heavy bags. She could have an remarkable elegance yet she is in basic terms a rose with too many thorns. I see no way she would be able to furnish a ingredient of what you anticipate in existence, you already strengthen aside 2 diverse persons and have faith me some women human beings make sense basically while they communicate intercourse. The supply and soak up your courting does not equate and you pays dearly for it. I evaluate which you're sturdy adequate to talk your self to stable sense, refuting the propose of any bartender. you may sense injury now, bruised on your guy-ego using fact she left yet, have faith me, it truly is enthusiastic approximately your reward. the area she needs to create and the time spent removed from you is in basic terms for the convenience of experiencing diverse beds. you're incredibly too elegant for her. Pull your self together and meet somebody else worth having you. do no longer think of of her as in basic terms a woman on your existence yet, a woman who had opened your eyes to a sparkling top so a ways unknown to you. women human beings will in no way give up to amaze a robust guy.
2016-10-19 03:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by hocking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worst thing.....in the midst of this....i would say....him not responding in any way, shape or form....while hanging onto some hope...this is a slow death of the heart really. never felt so poorly. never. the amazing thing is that hearing his voice, seeing his face...would rejuvenate my heart and soul.
i dont understand being in the midest of this kind of love for someone that you really want in your life no matter what...it's a doozy!
2007-07-09 17:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated someone for 5 years. I thought we were about to get engaged. I had to leave one summer for a few weeks to care for my brother. (he was in a horrible accident and lost one of his eyes.) While I was gone, my ex cheated with his roommate's ex-girlfriend. I came back, and he told me it was over...I only found out several months later who he was now with.
He ended up marrying the slut. I've got to say, that really made me not trust men for many years after...
2007-07-09 17:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Bcldiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY WIFE HAD ANOTHER MANS CHILD.....THAT STINGS LIKE A ***** !!!
2007-07-10 07:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore me for sby else!!:(
2007-07-10 00:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋