ahhh so i've had my bf for a year (and known him for 2 years) and sometimes i just wish WHY COULDNT I MEET HIM WHEN I WAS 16 OR SOMETHING! its sooo hard and i dont wanna break up bc i really really like.. love him. and i just.. need help.
2007-07-09 18:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by Eat. Sleep. Run. ☼ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're 13. pay attention in school. stay away from boys and do what your parents tell you
2007-07-09 18:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am your same age, and I have been dating a guy a while too, and I know that it is really hard because you can't imagine being with anyone else, but you know that you are so young that it can't last. Just think that this relationship can last a LONG time now, and it will teach you so much about guys, and you will always have the memories. I love my guy too, but one day, both of you may want to move on, and you will be fine with it. Also remember that one day you two could maybe get back together, that always helps me! Hope I helped!!
2007-07-10 01:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by giving. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya Umm Whats The Question I Mean Your Perfectly In Love With Each Other!!? Be More Specific Like He Likes Someone Else Or Something...Cuz I Really Coudnt Help You If I Dont Know What You Need Help In.
2007-07-10 01:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In our culture you are really too young to start dating one guy seriously alone. You should be going to group gatherings, dances, parties, not one on one dating at this age. You will end up getting your heart broken too soon. Make lots of friends, spend time with groups of people. It is nice to like many people and learn things from lots of relationships before you get into steady dating one person. That should come in a few more years at the least.
2007-07-10 01:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Booger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you're headed for trouble. You need to slow things way down. Go with your brains, not your heart. Pay attention to your studies and make some more friends. Don't spend a lot of alone time with him, make sure there are other people around. Don't focus all your thoughts on him, set some goals. Read "Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" for some help.
2007-07-10 01:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 wouldn't help much. Same problems different day. It will require both of you to Mature and make an effort at staying together over time, if thats the plan.
If you are contemplating S%x I have but one rule for you.........
Go to Wal-mart and "Study" the contraception available to anyone with 10.00 dollars and the Hutzpa to buy them ,, ferrealgirl ,,,no one will ask anything about it. Control as much of the nobaby plan as you can. One drip slip and you win a free WATERMELON for life. and its HARD to hide in "Brittany clothes"
BUT don't think it will hold you together in fact it will most likely drive you apart faster than babe ruth candy bar loose in the pool.
2007-07-10 01:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by henry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So say you have other stuff to focus on and then when youre in high school, re-ask him out. By then you'll be filled out and sexy lol Im sure he wont be able to resist you... that happens alot. For example a girl will like a guy at your age but he just sees her as nothing too special, but then when both grow up and start getting all sexually mature and filled out and what not, the guy will NOTICE this and like the girl but shes already moved on
2007-07-10 01:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Future Marine Sniper 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Listen dear...Your way to young to have a boyfriend. Friends yes. Enjoy this time of your life with friends and family. You mean to tell me your parents agree with this? I sure would like to talk to them. You will have other boyfriends during your maturing years. Right now enjoy being a kid
2007-07-10 01:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good for you i'm 15 and had 2 g/f's i dumped 1 on v-day and dumped the other 1 after a few weeks sadly her dad was the scoutmaster at boyscouts so i got kicked out ...
2007-07-10 01:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by jboy91148 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, what's your question. You shouldn't be "seriously dating" until you're 17 or 18 anyways, that's what you get.
2007-07-10 01:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Rara 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋