I mean seriously, is it THAT hard to do?
2007-07-09 19:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the term "only", I'm being figurative. Geeze.
2007-07-09 19:25:21 · update #1
No, it's not hard to wait. The only people who will try to make you feel bad or wrong for waiting are the people who feel bad that they didn't wait. Misery loves company, ya' know. Do what you know is right in your heart and don't let the turkeys get you down. Instead, fly like an eagle ;)
2007-07-09 19:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sword Lily 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:4-8).
These verses are true when it comes to being in a relationship that requires love. What I want you to do is take notice to the first quality of love..."LOVE IS PATIENT." If he loves you, truly, then he will be able to wait for as long as it takes for intimacy to happen in your relationship. To be honest, I would wait until marriage to go down that road. Sex is something that takes people down the wrong path sometimes. However, if you read the Bible (Especially Song of Songs) you will see the beauty and approval that God gives towards sex when it is within a marriage. Please take into consideration what I have said here. Don't share what is so beautiful with someone who may not turn out to be the man you marry. Any married person will tell you that they wish the person that they are with was their first. I know that I wish I was my wife's first and she was mine, but we messed that up. Please read Song of Songs. Know that this is a mna and his wife in these passages taling back and forth to each other. Let me know what you think about it. There are a few chapters, so make sure you get to them all. There should be a link at the bottom of each page to get to the next chapter.
Just remember that waiting is the best thing to do. This way, you will know you did the right thing....and if he truly loves you, he will be there with you on your honeymoon sharing your first experience together,
Source(s):
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=26&chapter=1&version=31
2007-07-10 02:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. But if you are serious about waiting, wait. Once you have sex, its so good (hopefully) that you'll never be able to go too long without it. I didn't wait till marriage, but when I met my husband I knew he was the one and I wanted our first time to be special, so WE waited till we got married. I'm a curious person. If I had waited I would have always wondered how my hubby was, in comparison. I know he is good, I have something to compare it to. That's the only up side I can think of to NOT waiting.
2007-07-10 02:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cali_wife12306 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you I am glad to hear that not many people wait. It is something that should wait untill marriage I wish I would have wait untill I got married but I can't take that back . I really hope you wait because it will mean alot more to give that up to you husband that it would to just any guy or some guy you think you might love.
God Bless
2007-07-10 02:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually u are not,There are still a few people out there who are waiting until they get married,some of them are just ashamed to let there friends know that they are virgins,so they would lie about it and behave as tho they are not virgins,its actually nice that u want to keep your virginity for marriage,go ahead and keep it as long as u want,don't let people pressure u and even if u don't know any virgins that does not mean that u cant be one,sometimes being different is nice.it makes u unique.
2007-07-10 02:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rendevous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There are plenty of people that are safely and smartly doing the same thing. Do not worry about everyone else. Do what is right for you. I have never heard ANYONE say....I just regret not having sex....I always hear how someone regretted loosing their virginity too young or tot he wrong person. So, YOU WAIT!
2007-07-10 02:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not hard. I have kind of decided to wait for now and I am 21.
I have been offered sex several times and I have turned it down. I kind of want a girl to prove to me that she can show affection without sex. I am an affectionate guy and want a girl to show affection not tied to sex.
2007-07-10 02:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by The Stylish One 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your not the only one. Keep waiting. You are doing the right thing.
Best Wishes
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2007-07-10 02:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you are not the only person that wants to wait. it will come when you're ready.
2007-07-10 02:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no abstanence is good other ppl r ju to desperate :o
2007-07-10 02:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by thoughtiseenaputtycat7 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋