i am so nervous because my dad wants to meet my boyfriend and his parents but the problem is that my dad hates blacks and my boy friends dad is black and his mom is white im scared that my dad wont approve him for the color of his dad....but my boyfriend has light skin color...what should i do?
2007-07-09 18:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by *bonita* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your dad/mom doesnt know your boyfriend is half black, then you need to tell them.
I have no idea how old you are, but if you are of age. Tell them they need to deal with it.
~faith
2007-07-09 18:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Have him meet your boyfriend first so he can start a relationship with him. After they meet and get along, you can tell your dad that his dad is black. If your dad can't handle that, then I guess he can choose not to meet him. I would wait for the whole parents thing though until your dad got comfortable with your boyfriend. The parents thing early might freak him out and make him automatically dislike your boyfriend.
Good Luck!
2007-07-10 01:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your Dad worry about it...if ever he were to accept this might be the circumstance he can deal with...I'd go through with it as if there isn't an issue...let him define what it is.
2007-07-10 01:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hell with your dads racism crap. if your happy, then he needs to suck it up and be a goddamn US citizen. theres no room in this country for that kinda critizism against color or minorities. if you love him, then he needs to as well, even his parents no matter what differences there are.
2007-07-10 01:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋