Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

2007-07-08 03:12:33 · 14 answers · asked by moony s 2 in Friends

I;ve learned through a friend my ex girlfriend is having one night stands. She always accused me of cheating and she was pure, but through my friend, she tells me she was lying and was cheating on you. My ex don't have to many friends. what causes a woman to do this. Is this a mental problem. I hate to see her get sick and hurt. I know you'll say let her go. it's not your problem

2007-07-08 03:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by napolee_nj 2 in Singles & Dating

or did someone make u very sad or angry.. yet u can't find anyone to talk to...

to me.. i always believe in everybody should have at least a friend to talk to..when they are feeling down..
it a kind of release to me if i can talk to someone.. tell someone how i feel.. it doesn't matter this person can help me or not...as long as there is someone who willing to listen..it actually help me and make me feel better..

i hope each and everyone of u got a chance to talk about it..
and be happy again...so get it out of your chest.. tell us..
i don't mind long story

2007-07-08 03:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by nightowls 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not usually a spoiled brat although I probably sound like one right now. He can afford a nice ring for sure. The ring is supposed to represent our future, it is 1/10 of a karat. This ring is so small it is embaressing, it is a "chip", a spare cut diamond you use for accents. We have been together for so long I thought he would put more care into making this decision. Is this how our life will be together? Taking the cheap way out for everything? On top of that he didn't really ask me, we were on a rollercoaster and he said look what I have for you.

2007-07-08 03:10:18 · 61 answers · asked by Yisrael Chai 3 in Weddings

I've known my best friend Brock for almost 11 years now. I'm 17 & he's 21. our parents were high school & college buddies. me and Brock have so much fun 2gether & we really love each other. i just don't know if we should "go out" 'cause of our age difference.

2007-07-08 03:07:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even if you didn't like what you may hear?

2007-07-08 03:06:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys, I like this guy and it's been a year now.
He is a cancer, moon in scopio.

I really like him, he did told me that he is not looking for relationship almost a year ago, because he wanted to focus in his study and he just got graduate from college, we been saying hello to each other and firting and have few conversation now and then.

I know he like me and I feel like i want to ask him if he like me, because I cought him staring alot through out the whole year I known him.
He seem shy, he try to do stupid things just to get my attention some time.
he alway say my name, every second he sees me around, we work together. we bump to each other alot and he will say my name in a nice and sweet way every time.
I mean school is over now and he did try to talk to me, i believe because he looked like he have something to say but he alway end up say hey to me and walk away.

Well what you think& are cancer man usually act like this?
Should i tell him how I feel about him again

2007-07-08 03:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is a female 34yrs. old, married, two children in the state of nevada.her and her husband have been fighting for some time now. lots of verbal and emotional abuse both ways. two weeks ago he talked her into going to visit her girlfriend out of town saying it would give them both a break. so she did. when she returned he had takin her name off the lease of their condo, changed the locks, sent the kids to there grandma s (her mom) and now she only has the bags she left with. her mom is saying that if she doesnt have a place to live she is seeking custody of the kids. he is claiming that she left (walked out) on them all. I feel bad for her. she is scared of this *** and doesnt want to cause him any greef in fear he will do even worse things to her. HELP she needs to do something.What? her life has been takin , whats the right way to go about it?

2007-07-08 03:03:49 · 10 answers · asked by stylestealth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a thin, petite woman. For most of my life I was skinny. It's part nature, part nuture. I grew up very poor, and we didn't eat a lot. Furthermore, my family is thin. I used to get picked on as a child for my weight. Now, I'm a professional dealing with the same crap. I started a new job two months ago, and one of my co-workers was complaining today about people on the day shift. I told her she was making me want to avoid that shift. She and another co-worker of mine said the women on that shift would hate me anyway because I'm skinny. One of the women they were talking about is a superior of mine -- and a rotten person anyway. How should I deal with this? I was a waitress for 10 years and met some of the nicest people who don't behave like this. Go figure -- the nasty people are the professionals.

2007-07-08 03:03:05 · 10 answers · asked by min 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is always at me to kiss him when we are out!! he knows I like him but the reason I wont kiss him is because he has a girlfriend!
We are both in our early 20s and are really great mates!

I just don't understand why he does this!!

Any Ideas??

We would be out with our group of friends!!! Not just de 2 of us!! He always manages to get me on my own. ie:he wud follow me to the toilet or something!!

Oh we've talked abt this loads of time!! and he knows why i won't kiss him! I've made that perfectally clear!

2007-07-08 03:01:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have lived with a wonderful man who has a weak personality for 20 years, We have a child in High School. He is a great father but there are many things about him that bothers me. For one thing we have not had sex in 5 years. We are in our late 40s. He refuses to see a doctor for his problem. I feel so left out sometimes. We sleep in separate beds. He is very generous and very kind. Do you think that I should have an affair and try to keep this marriage together or should I get a divorce? Pls do not tell me that I am ungrateful..I made him who he is today financially.

2007-07-08 03:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 02:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by zheriamor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Granted, some people are so bad off they need the round the clock care provided in a nursing home.
But I put my life and my dreams on hold for 15 years to take care of my elderly father. I even sold my house and moved in with him because I knew how much his home meant to him.
And I didn't even date women because I felt that if things got serious, I couldn't devote myself to two people.
I don't think I deserve a medal or anything, I just felt it was the right thing to do, and I wonder why other people don't feel the same compassion for their parents.

2007-07-08 02:58:01 · 17 answers · asked by opjames 4 in Family

My pastor's wife tends to dot on me. I think she's in love with me. What should I do: tell Pastor? run?

2007-07-08 02:56:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 02:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by American Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 12 year now and we have 2 kids....
i havent had sex with my hubby in like a month. I just dont feel like i am in the *mood*. he does everything for us financially, but emotinally its a different story.
When he comes home from work, he either goes to bed or on the computer. i have told him many times that he needs to spend more time with the kids...anyways. I know he loves us, but i just dont want to sleep with him. He is very sweet if he wants sex, but that'll go away after we do it. To me its like another chore i have to do. I could honestly live without sex...dont need it.
Am i the only one with this problem? What can i do?

2007-07-08 02:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by curious24 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am to be matron of honour at my friends wedding. Its her 2nd marriage and she has fallen in love with a beautiful white wedding gown, I personally think it would look better in another colour but she insists white is the thing for her. What do you think?

2007-07-08 02:48:35 · 32 answers · asked by ? 7 in Weddings

2007-07-08 02:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nascar #48 2 in Family

My ex treated me quite badly, he made me feel like I was nothing, bullied me, put me down, told me what to think, feel and say, didn't like me spending time with other people when he was around, made fun of me, invalidated my feelings etc.

He made me feel I was crazy, and I went to counselling. At one session I broke down and the counsellor sent me to the docs. When I called the b/f he said it was a nightmare being with me, that it was all in my own head and I only had myself to blame. I dumped him, but then begged him back for a week to no avail.

A week later I sent him an e-mail telling him what I thought of him, and he got furious. I've since apologised but he's told me not to contact him for a cpl of weeks so he can get over me. That was nearly 4 weeks ago, and he's still not got in contact.

We have lots of mutual friends, they're all at his today at a party, and I feel so dejected and alone. How is this fair? He was the one who treated me badly and I'm the outcast.

2007-07-08 02:47:22 · 18 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 02:46:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do people have sex and it is forbidden in all Religion except when people are married
in holly koran it is forbidden and the profit mohamed صلي الله عليه وسلمsaid it is forbidden so why people do it and why children do it????????????????

2007-07-08 02:45:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I dont have much money or many relatives to help us plan and fund our wedding... so we are looking for someone (private or corporate) near reading, pa to sponsor our wedding.

2007-07-08 02:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by weezer_642001 1 in Weddings

My husband has 3 children from a previous marriage. Their mother is now in her 3rd marriage. She married a very wealthy man which is a major contrast from what she came from (rags to riches). Her present husband is a very overbarring, controlling business man that wants his house in tip top shape. She never lays a hand to help because she claims she has a back injury which I don't buy since she plays volleyball and goes swimming in their huge pool.

The problem that has come up is that the oldest child was taking on all the responsibility of making sure the house(huge $350, 000 house) is neat and orderly before the adults came home. If 1 of his younger sisters didn't cooperate than he got in trouble for it. He would have privledges removed, couldn't go out be with friends and so on. He would always get on his sisters to make sure their homework was done, cook dinners and so on. He is only 17 and has had these responsibilities for quite a few years now.

2007-07-08 02:38:15 · 22 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for three years, when we first started going out I was completely in love with him. I pressured him to move in with me after only six months of dating, and now things are fizzling out, he owes me an insane amount of money and refuses to pay for anything, because he blames my forcing him to move in with me for all his financial problems(when I met him he was 27 years old and still living with his parents) He's been calling me really cruel names for awhile and this morning he shoved me really hard. Should I just forget the money and end this? Is it all my fault for pressuring him to move in with me?

2007-07-08 02:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by Britna 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 02:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Linda D 1 in Singles & Dating

We are very happily married and are very open and honest with each other, but want to enjoy other people, with each other and alone. Three-somes and the like.

2007-07-08 02:33:09 · 24 answers · asked by pantylover8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 38 year old woman. A very young, good looking 23 year old wants to date me. He seems mature and looks older but I am concerned about the years between us. Is 15 years too many?

2007-07-08 02:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Nunya 4 in Singles & Dating

Two boys use to there own room...Now they share a room ..two families moved in as one situation...next to building a mansion for the eight of us..(6 kids total..yes brady bunch)..any way to keep the fighting to a controlable level...

2007-07-08 02:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by overhereyoupretty 3 in Family

i dont think im in love with my boyfriend anymore but i cant find the courage to leave. we live together and he pay's all the bills. i have it made but im not in love with him anymore, nothing is there. i feel so bad for pretending. but when i find the courage to tell him i just cant seem to get out. every morning when i wake up i look at him and i have no feelings and i ask myself why are you still here. i dont know what to do. how am i going to tell my family im moving out? he's a great guy but im just not into it anymore.

2007-07-08 02:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so about a month ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce (to find out why, just look in my divorce question) and of course, in his usual manner, he stormed out on us. My 5 year old son,James, is pining for him. I want to tell my husband that the kids still want him around. I believe, as long as he don't hurt us, he has the right to see them. Also, I was expecting to get divorced when our newborn child is a little older and I have recovered.I mean, can you imagine how hard it is to cope with a divorce AND look after 4 kids at the same time? Where do you suggest I look for him? Parks? Bars? I need your ideas!

2007-07-08 02:14:42 · 14 answers · asked by mommomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce