Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

he says he will stay in love of me for ever and he asks for marriage but he has got no job and i am not interested in him:(

2007-07-08 06:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by Mary Jr. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 06:22:30 · 20 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Weddings

My sister is really selfish and I'm the kind of person who likes to give and give. We're only eighteen months apart and we're both really close friends. But she takes advantage of me.

It's like she's got no guilt-factor and she's always trying to one-up me. I try to stay mad and stop helping her out, but I just can't. Even after I told her that I would risk my life for hers even though I knew she wouldn't, she still can't get it through her fat head that she should be more grateful and stop trying to hurt me.

Grrrr... how do I deal with this?

2007-07-08 06:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by CandyxAcid 3 in Family

A guy I know said he thinks I'm beautiful and sexy but he's not attracted to me. When I asked him what he meant by attraction, he said interpersonal chemistry. What is interpersonal chemistry? A lot of people these days use the word "chemistry". Is chemistry an effortless connection, a natural rapport between people when their personalities mesh well together/when there is an intense attraction to someone's personality? Is it being extremely drawn/attracted to someone's personality?

2007-07-08 06:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

He is even wafting it over my way! What can I do tomake him stop?

2007-07-08 06:19:27 · 12 answers · asked by areu4real 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-08 06:19:16 · 24 answers · asked by magnum_X 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this includes anyone, family, friends, etc............

2007-07-08 06:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by scsspace 3 in Family

2007-07-08 06:18:02 · 14 answers · asked by Hey Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom died during child birth and my da kille himself I have no other relatives but i am only 18 years old. Is it possible for me to adopt my newborn baby sister. I really love her and i don't want them to take her from me. DCFS said they would have to take her but i was wondering is there some way i can keep them from taking her from. if push come to shove i'm taking her and running. Thanks for your help.

2007-07-08 06:16:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was divorced back in July last year, and met and fell head over hills in love with a woman since then. She is also in the middle of a divorce. We are so much alike and have a wonderful relationship. Do you think it is too early to be talking about marriage already? We both love eachother dearly and want to be together. I am the reason she is getting divorced now. I told her that if she wanted to be with me, get divorced and we will pursue that. what do you think?

2007-07-08 06:16:04 · 11 answers · asked by bob h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 06:15:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 06:12:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i spent a week at camp with some friends and met a guy who really liked me. but i didn't like him back. then the day before we left for home i realized i did like him. but i wasn't able to talk to him at all before he left. i thought i would get over it but i can't stop thinking about him. i know his email so i was thinking about maybe telling him but i don't know. what should i do? and if i tell him what should i say?

2007-07-08 06:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-08 06:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by carlyy. :] 3 in Friends

okay i meet a man on the internet and he said he love me and he want to be with me,and he problems that he will be honest and be truth worthed until he find me not. should i truth him?

2007-07-08 06:06:09 · 1 answers · asked by DELORIS C 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has just asked me to marry him and i've said yes..but i'm having doubts.

He doesn't seem like the person to keep promises or commitments-I don't know why he asked me to marry him because he seemed to ignore me the past few days, seem uninterested in me and his sex drive level has gone way down.

And then out of the blue he just popped the question.

He seems more interested in a girl at work then me- he is always talking to her, always talking about her, always telling me she is pretty, always talking about how smart she is, and he even invited her over for dinner and they acted like I wasn't there. I up and left the table and neither of them noticed.

He even said that her boyfriend just broke up with her and she was available.
Now all he does is invite her over and make her dinner and "comfort her". One night I found a long blonde hair strand (my hair is brown) and smelled perfume (wasn't mine) and one high heel under our bed. That wasn't my high heel.

2007-07-08 06:06:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a few friends from work are planning to go to the zoo. but the one girl(22yr) just quit with no notice, she was suppose to work 3 days last week and since she didn't I had to work through my whole shift without a break, because if I took a break it would have left the manager to handle the front service and the drive thru for 35 minutes and I couldn't do that to the manager. Before the girl left I told her the others would meet at work and drive up together, but I was thinking we shouldn't include her with us because of leaving us shorthanded at work and she quit. she gave me her number if things change, so i was thinking of either: 1) calling and telling her we decided we didn't have the money to go-but go anyways or 2) don't call, don't meet at work like I told her, let her figure it out on her own and just meet somewhere else and go to the zoo without her.
which should be ok?

2007-07-08 05:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by cats3inhouse 5 in Friends

Here is the thing my Fiancee use to be a big drugie when he was younger and he went to rehabe done all that. Well its been going on two years since we have been togeather but his bee off the meth for 21/2 or 3 years thats what he tells me and his family. For the past two months his family and my family even people at work are asking him whats up with his arms. He keeps telling everyone its from flea bites and keeps getting upset with everyone for asking if he back on the drugs. When his mom and brother had called him he got really pissed off and hung up the phone. His sister was staying with us for awhile and told me she knows that he isnt but she could be wrong. The reason im really thinking he is back on the drugs b/c when I went over to my moms house my step dad asked me why is his arms so broke out and yours and the kids arent. So my question is can you still get them break outs later on if your not on them and how can I tell if he is . I dont know how b/c i keep all the money.

2007-07-08 05:58:12 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started working in a retail dept store couple of months ago. This co-worker who is not happy with my work being a b****. You probably know how sales work, everything is based on commision. So, the way I work is to help costumer to make sure what they need and get what they want, that way I make more sales. Apparently she thinks different. She is more lazy than me and would wait behind the register with hope she would make more sales but she forgot that those are my costumers and I would not share because I've worked to help those costumers. Couple of days ago, she left me with tons of clothes in dressing room and in a rack. I just got back from my lunch and she left me with that and plus she wasnt willing to help me at all. I know she did it on purpose but I've talked to my managers anyway, they would talk to her. I hope they would take a serious action to her. How should I act to my co-worker who has done that to me and doesnt like me bcause I am more successful than her?

2007-07-08 05:55:33 · 5 answers · asked by sweetcherry 2 in Friends

while hes in the middle of custody proceedings and battle, is it good to give him a little space and wait until everything is over?

2007-07-08 05:53:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

met him on the web im with h im now we love eachother like we were ment to be together i fit into his world so easily he has two wonderful kids we all get along wonderfully we are thinking of getting married i need to go to out of town to do some things first but i dont want to leave him here and he has to go to work what am i going to do he cant e ven be out of the room thats too far away i love him more than i have ever loved anyone even the one i married i have to finish the divorce first before i can do anything else can i do it long distance

2007-07-08 05:52:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are there any proud virgins out there?? i dont want to feel alone in this.. it's very hard but i'm saving it til marrige, and i know nothing is going to push me to do it before i get married, it's really hard though..

i just want to know are there any PROUD virgins out there? or did any of you save it until you got married??
was/is it tough for you?

2007-07-08 05:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ ƒσяєνєя яє∂ ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Many of you have told me my husband is abusive..he has yelled at me, thrown things at me,cursed at me, thrown things across the room, told me to shut up,etc.....many people say that abusers feed off of power. I want to take this away or back from my husband. He can be degrading with me and sacrastic with me as well. I want to make changes while i'm here in the home...How can i keep him from feeling power over me? I have thought of ignoring him, working out, getting a second job, finishing my degree. What can I do? What fuels abusers and how can I take it away from him? I really appreaciate so much all your help and advise.

2007-07-08 05:50:59 · 28 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 05:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy genuinely says a girl is pretty, she looks at him like he's stupid or thinks (rather vocally) that he's lying. Girls don't have to be a damn supermodel to be really pretty...

2007-07-08 05:47:37 · 23 answers · asked by sicarn 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm sure everyone has heard that at least once in your life.... but please tell me what that means.

Same story i've been friends w/ this girl for the past 2 years and about a week ago i finally asked her out. She said she couldn't see us together like that.

Being very good friends for the past 2 years i would think we know each other well enough to go out. We both care about each other (Well i care for her, hopefully she does about me) . And to make everything more complicated... Not only my friends but hers as well said we would make the best couple.





I'm just at the end here and need some advice

thanks in advance

2007-07-08 05:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jim D 2 in Singles & Dating

I just spent my entire vacation with him sleeping in my bedroom all day, and I am ready to throw him out the upstairs window. I think the reason he sleeps at my house is so he dont have to pay for his own airconditoning. He works nites and kept taking time off so he could be with me, but it was too much time together. I just needed a breather so I picked a fight and cried and he left. Finally! I think it was too much togetherness.
He controls every thing from the time we left to go see the fireworks to the food we ate and where we went to eat.
He burps, farts, and it makes me want to vomit. He will even do it in my face while we are in bed.
I sat on the couch and watched while he read a book and my I also say had total control of the remote so I had to watch him read a book and see the TV show he picked so he could glance up at the TV while he read his damn book.
He finally went home. Thank goodness. Is it normal for me to be sick of him? Do we just need a break

2007-07-08 05:44:39 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

...I'm single happy person, with my daily activities and my friends and family.

I would be happier if other people wouldn't remind me all the time and say " you are still single? what are you waiting for..? "

Well maybe I'm waiting someone special..I' m waiting someone that is appropriate for me ( not for the others)...what is wrong with that?

Am I the only one feeling this way or not? What is your experience about this?

2007-07-08 05:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in a relationshipof 25yrs,got 2 kids,all of them I love dearly!!!recently, have chatted to someone on here,dont know him from adam!! dont know what he looks like!! but he makes my knees go weak!! I love hearing from him,ive never been able to talk to anyone like I do him!! in fact never disclosed anything to anybody like i do him!!! Iknow im infactuated by him!!! chatted before to others but hes different!!! i look forward to any chat we have, in fact cant wait(and i have to cause have to wait until kids have done!!!!)What advice can anyone give me!!!! and I know he will know questions ive asked!!!!cant name him!!!!!!

2007-07-08 05:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by kaza 1 in Singles & Dating

i had this dream where me and my crush made-out constantly and he said nothing about he's girl friend(of course) he just kept telling me how much he loved me is that a sign!!????

2007-07-08 05:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by hawii_girl25 2 in Singles & Dating