Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

when you feel that something's different or wrong within you and you can feel that....it seems like you want to love someone but you're just afraid if what will happen....or to make it more complicated than it used to, ,

2007-07-08 09:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to make myself feel better about my mother passing away? It happend a week from today and I need some advice...websites that might have some good advice....anything......

2007-07-08 09:12:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says oh i love you but i really don't beleave that sometimes i mean we meet on the internet he moved from california down with me here in colorado and now i think he just acts like he wants to be with me because he don't have any way back and no family please how can i tell if he really likes me or not

2007-07-08 09:12:27 · 15 answers · asked by latisha_davis69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy on here who believes that women are naturally promiscuous. All of them are harlots.

Funnily enough I think Guys are just that and worse, not women.

What do you think?

2007-07-08 09:10:55 · 18 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone disagree with this statement? Notice Im not generalising..... Is it because they can't deal with the emotional issue, being tied down or it is just that they want to have more than one woman?

2007-07-08 09:08:32 · 16 answers · asked by Alsee 3 in Singles & Dating

do u prefer tall girls or short girls?
also do u prefer skinny or curvy girls?
is their a certain combination u like the most?
xoxo

2007-07-08 09:07:33 · 42 answers · asked by ((LDN ♥)) 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 09:00:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the past I've been diagnosed with OCD, depression, and anxiety. Lately its been getting worse. Having my type of OCD is terrible. I cry all the time and i don't know why, i imagine horrible events and obsess about them all day, and i have no control over it. Every day i wake up with the thought that my husband might not come home from work; that he might die or something. These uncontrollable thoughts scare me to death and i've had them for years. I told my husband i think i needed help andhe's not being very sympathetic. I don't know what to do. He said "Everybody is a little OCD You just want to believe you're OCD." and then "What do you want me to say? I'm sorry?" I just wish he'd be a little more understanding. he is being mean and i dont' konw what to do I need his support more than ever and he's not giving it to me What do i tell him?

PS I took this quiz Are you in a domestic violence situation" and I got 15 out of 18 questions so apparently i am verballyabused do u agree?

2007-07-08 08:57:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's fair?

2007-07-08 08:57:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know he isn't cheating because we are with each other almost all the time. if we do have sex it is b/c i begged him to. if i don't beg then we might have it once a week. I thought guys liked to have sex all the time? Please help.

2007-07-08 08:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by Mirror 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and need to tell my mum that I am going out with somebody. It is my first serious relationship. I have been going out with him for a month and i can't bring myself to tell her. Please help! I'm sick of lying. How do I tell her????? I'm going out with him tomorrow is this a good time to tell her?

2007-07-08 08:54:51 · 12 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you pls share your stories with me of a boyfriend/fiance/husband who was immature and selfish and refused to change and then you broke up and he a few days later or so after thinking asked you back and actually changed his behaviours??? Does my man just need space to realize I'm the best thing in his life and we love eachother more than anything (in our case, his pot smoking). Pls share or give me some advice. Thanks.

2007-07-08 08:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we want to go do something but niether of us have any money

2007-07-08 08:51:09 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I like said this to me in our conversation online:

Well, in all honesty, I'm not really looking for a friend right now, and if you're looking for a boyfriend right away then I'm probably not him. I'd love to be your friend and then see where things go, but again, that's not what I'm looking for right away. Are you okay with that?

I don't understand because we went out on a date and it went well and he said that he wanted to get together again. Help!

2007-07-08 08:48:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

getting your boyfriend or girlfriend to quit smoking.
My boyfriend and I are still in highschool, and he has a terrible smoking habit. He was an idiot when he was young, and now, he cant seem to stop. I really would like him to quit, but he says I don't know how it is. I find this really selfish, because i was experimenting with drugs while a freshman in highschool, and he made me promise every day since to not touch drugs. I havent since, because i care about him, and his opinion means more to me than he knows. If it weren't for him saving me, i might not be here. I feel like hes my responsibility, and if i dont help him now, he wont be here for much longer? any advice?

2007-07-08 08:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you snooped and found a chat session between your B/F and an ex that was very vivid about how much he misses sex with her and very "heated" conversation, saying how she "Rocked his world" and he might be able to see her this Saturday ( Ihave to work) and her telling him she still loves him? Meanwhile, he refuses to have sex with me, cuddle, kiss, hug, nothing, its like we are roommates. I have done everything to save this relationship, he hasn't done crap. I saved and printed off the chat session. Please give me some good sound advice on how to handle this. Thanks so much, I am so upset.

2007-07-08 08:41:28 · 18 answers · asked by msbrat 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I have liked this guy for four months now. I know he likes me back for many reasons. He has tried to talk to me like 5 times but every time it seems that something gets in the way of him speaking to me. All this time I have been waiting for him to speak first but now i am just plain mad that he takes so long. (He is REALLY, REALLY shy around me.... his face goes totally red... lol!) I want to talk to him first. Any sugjestions for how to start a conversation???

Thanks!

2007-07-08 08:38:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what would you do in that time.

2007-07-08 08:37:12 · 6 answers · asked by Dave 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband abandoned me about 5 weeks ago we also have 4 children and I am pregnant with our 5th child. He comes to my house and apologizes and says that he was being a coward and he is so sorry. I do not trust him anymore because this is the 5th time that he has abandoned me and I am not going to fall for his fake apology. I think that he is just being nice because he knows that we have a court date coming up on July 24th and he is trying to get me to change my mind. I am going to court no matter what because I need to have that security for me and my children.
It is so hard to forgive someone who keeps doing the same thing consistently. I am not going to fall for his crap and that is final. Do you think that I am overracting? If yes, why? I do not think that I am overracting because when someone keeps doing the same thing over and over they are being disrespectful.
I do want him to be here for his children because it is going to be hard for me to do it alone.

2007-07-08 08:33:20 · 14 answers · asked by Vicky 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well I asked this last night but i didnt get many answers at all. So I kindof wanted to ask it again. Anyways Im 15 almost 16 female. And almost every night I have a sex dream of random guys that I barely know or like my friends boyfriend. witch is really weird. I have a bf myself and weve been best friends since grade 1. We started dating when we were 12.
And I never have these dreams of him just random guys. and I love my boyfriend and id never cheat on him. Lol Its really weird and i have no idea whats going on. Ive been having these dreams for like almost every ningh for the past 4 months.
soon as I wake up in like really hornnny. witch is really weird.
Whats going on?!? What do i do? Is it normal?

2007-07-08 08:32:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you show your love for that someone special?

2007-07-08 08:31:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What body part do you find most attractive on a girl?

2007-07-08 08:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by Kat Dawg 2 in Singles & Dating

i and my ex live live far each other. she got the full custody and i just get the visitations. Every time i try to go see my son, she comes up with an excuse about not to come. And every time i go to court to complain , they turn me down. i m really tired. She wants me to give up my rights. She says she doesnt want anything from me. but i have to pay my child support. if i give up my rights do i still have to pay?

2007-07-08 08:21:13 · 2 answers · asked by Bruno 1 in Family

It seems that I'm always entertaining her friends, they're not my friends, I dont get to see my friends often...I work so much; and there's nothing in the house that indicates that I live here, I wear my hair the way my partner likes it, only to find myself to defend myself if I want to change my hair; and it seems that I'm suffocating more and more into my partner. I want to be in but I dont want to forget who I am?

2007-07-08 08:20:58 · 13 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can using almond m&m's give the same effect?

2007-07-08 08:13:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a professional man. I would like to know what people think, because I don't think there is a right answer.

Assumptions:
1. This is not first marriage, so all that sacredness about marriage for life is moot in a way.
2. I make 10 times the woman, say 400K vs 40K.
3. I am willing to pay for all her expenses (everything except for her childen's luxuries, say private music and athletic lessons) while she's with me, for her to keep all her income, spend her income as she wants, say for her children's lessons.
4. But if she and I are divorced, I don't want her to take half of my savings while we are married. I propose 0-10%.

What do you all think?

The reality is although we all don't want divorces, but it will happen. Why get married? To enjoy each other as much and as long as possible. But I am not asking for any moral lessons or the sanctity of marriage, just am I unreasonable with my prenuptial financial plan?

2007-07-08 08:07:17 · 30 answers · asked by davidlee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26, about 5'10, brown hair, green eyes, 145lbs. I'm very shy but when you get to know me I am very warm and honest. I am in my situation at my own will, I am trying to wait until marriage before I have sex. I am starting to worry that it is too late to find a girl like myself. I'm looking for advice, do I keep looking or is it time to throw in the towel on that dream? Be honest please.

2007-07-08 07:45:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is 11 years older then I am (he is 40 I am 29)..We have had a pretty good marriage however, lately he has completely closed up. He is ALWAYS in a bad mood and acts like he is disgusted to be around myself and our 3 year old boy. I keep the house clean, cook, take care of our son, work, and run to stay in shape. What gives? I have asked him and he continues to make excuses (too tired, long day at work, etc.) If he is unhappy why doesn't he just leave? I don't need him to stick around and make me feel like I am doing something wrong. I can't sleep or eat and I feel like I am walking on eggshells with him. I am so over it! Please help!

2007-07-08 07:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 07:38:12 · 20 answers · asked by snozzberries 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love it when my boyfriend licks my nipples, well I don't know whether to do this back to him, I'm not being funny, just I don't know, does it feel the same for guys. So erm..do guys like girls to lick his nipples?

2007-07-08 07:36:57 · 32 answers · asked by mandie602 1 in Singles & Dating