Why do SOME men care more about sex other than relationship?

Question

Anyone disagree with this statement? Notice Im not generalising..... Is it because they can't deal with the emotional issue, being tied down or it is just that they want to have more than one woman?

Answer 1

It's because they don't want to get caught up in that woman's drama. You know what I mean. Some women are so full of drama.

Answer 2

Dear, I regretfully concur with you on this issue, some –OK a good some- of men do have this condition, by which I signify it as an illness because it IS. Men approach is different and they communicate in a whole diverse manner, I am NOT justifying but I am only trying to shed a light on why most men would rather carry half a ton then to have a serials emotional conversation!

They do talk, about sports, about vehicles, about their achievements –whatever that may be- they could go on and on bragging about themselves for hours and days, but most feel that their very manhood is in danger if God forbid they spoke from their hearts on occasions which will not end them in bed with women. So it is not that that they can not deal with emotional issues, they simply choose against it, again not all but quite few nevertheless.

Now on the other part, not wanting to be “tied out”. Some men indeed are apprehensive of change, and feel that “committing” to someone will mean that they will loose their “Mojo”. That is stupid beyond reason and shallow beyond belief! Luckily, the majority does not think like that and I sure hope that you do not wash-up your hands on all men because of some“unsecured and misdirected few”. Good luck

Answer 3

the fact that you used "they" as a direct attack onto the male population makes you seem rather angry at someone, now im sure its not me and mabey not the next guy walking down the street, but enough about that onto your question, some men care more about sex then a relationship because they have a different view then some other men, some men just want to have sex all day and night, others want to kill people, others want nothing more then to be left alone and all of this happends for one reason and one reason alone, because all people are different, and yes i did see you say your not generalizing and that was a mistake you really should have generalized because they way your coming off right now makes it sound like all men are the same and we all do the same things so let me say this on behalf of everyone else whos simply too cowerdly to say it, we are not all the same, we do not all do the same things, i am sorry that someone has hurt you but it was not the rest of us so please dont throw us all together into the same mix and in the same right expect us to honor that request as well when it comes towards women.

Answer 4

Sweetie....maybe you didnt know this but men mature much later than you women. Also, we dont have that pesky biological clock to deal with so "nesting" is the last thing on a 20-something mans' mind. I think its all just part of God's Divine Comedy.

But even men get to a point where waking up to the stranger from the bar last night gets old. Or we meet that wonderful girl that just captivates you and has you listening to old slow jams and asking your uncles for advice with her. Its all stages but, in defense of men, some of you women would make life alot easier for yourselves. You cant have the "ho" wrapper and expect to be treated like a queen.....just a word to the wise.

Answer 5

because we just don't care about relationships.. It gets old hearing how you forgot some minor detail and now your girlfriends feelings are hurt and she's upset so you have to get her to calm down and not be mad at you...but then all though she says she is ok, she still is mad. the words "we" and "us" just get old. constant bitching about hanging with our friends, allegations of cheating even when were not. or her saying she wants kids..(no guy wants kids no matter what they say..they have kids for the same reason they get married because they are afraid they won't find someone else) it becomes like a chore. kinda like taking out the garbage.. you do it because you have to not because you want to. plus you generally just get sick of seeing the same person day in and day out (especially if she constantly bitches about everything.. that time of the month comes fast..lol).

After about 2 years Im generally looking for a way out on a serious relationship. though I never cheat... for a man 50% of the population is female so there is plenty to chose from,,why be tied down.. leave that for when your 40+ and your life is limited to dating 40 year old women who have been around the block once or twice anyway. my advice to other men. date the most beautiful women you can find, and many of them.. till your like 40 then find a nice 20 year old you get along with and marry her before your too old..lol . All men want tight young bodies not old flabby women.. thats just life sorry old women. hard bitter truth.

and girls.. if you get knocked up at 16 you might as well give up.. because once your baby's daddy leaves you no guy is going to want you for the next 18 years unless. a) he is desperate b)he thinks your an easy lay or c) he's a pedofile..

thats just the way it is.

Answer 6

I have never had this problem. I am the exact opposite of that. I am young though, and sex is just not a risk that i am willing to take no matter how bad i want to. I have had to say no a few times because what happens if something goes wrong?

Answer 7

It is because they simply don't understand what a loving relationship truly is.....it equates sex with love, which is not the case in real realtionships. Certainly, I am not discounting sex in a relationship - it is important - but without true love, it is a shallow way of expressing (false) devotion.

Answer 8

I'm not being an a** when i say this but some men are like that because they are just desperate for sex or just to say that they did it. Retards.

Answer 9

particularly some boys are like that yet all are unlike that. first u could understand that intercourse is completely diverse with love even in love, intercourse would be there yet in intercourse love isn't obligatory for many human beings. yet whilst intercourse with love is powerful for our dating. i'm unhappy to assert that this form of great form of households are working with actual attachment in basic terms, no longer with emotions or emotions, that form of households in no way be happy for long term. some human beings cares approximately family yet on the comparable time they try for intercourse with different women. All it truly is commercial. In our society the two forms of adult males are there and a few greater adult males are there with the two traits they are going to care on the comparable time needs intercourse with others. There are some adult males who seem for a staggering dating with acquires love and feeling yet very lots uncommon. eventhough a individual who loves u and looks after u and having intercourse with u after some days/months/years later they are going to see for others. that's amazingly organic in human existence

Answer 10

Probably just to have fun or they're afraid of getting into a serious relationship. It could be all kinds of reasons.