Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

What's the best way to get a guy to like you? What do guys value in a woman (except for the obvious...).

2007-07-08 05:39:41 · 15 answers · asked by SK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 05:39:40 · 10 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

Only answers ,not any question plezz cause it's a question and you have to give answers,ok?

2007-07-08 05:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i heard from someone that the sexual desire of a woman could be twice the desire of a man. but how come it's more abvious that men are the one trying to hunt women instead?

2007-07-08 05:37:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what i'm trying to say is that when asked it's never their fault!

2007-07-08 05:35:41 · 23 answers · asked by dgonzalezdbz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Help! I am having an affair with someone 12 years younger than me. I am unhappily married, he lives with his girlfriend. Before we had sex we both agreed that the relationship would be just sex and that we would continue to be friends. Now I am wondering if I am having feelings for him. I work with him so I see him every day. A coworker has been flirting with him which causes me to be jealous. We talk on IM when we can, but I catch myself checking all the time to see if he is on. I am always checking my phone to see if he has called or sent text. Do you think I am starting to have feelings for this guy or is it just the excitement?

Now, next question. Am I being used for sex. He always worries about me, if i'm ok & happy. But everything we do is on his schedule even though I am the one married. He has to be the one to contact me and when we do have sex he usually leaves within an hour after, but we spend that hour cuddling and talking. Help I am so confused!

2007-07-08 05:34:17 · 24 answers · asked by confused1 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met this guy on the internet through a good friend. He seems like a really nice bloke who is after EXACTLY the same as me. Someone to go out with, and do things with but also have the sexual relationship. I have never had sex before but it's not really a big deal to me , all this ''first time'' nonsense. He wants to meet up with me and go to the cinema and then for a drink, do you think I should just go ahead with it? cos I do want to, but I am also very wary of guys who I meet on the internet, I mean I've seen photos and stuff, but I know you can never be sure. We've arranged to meet in a public place etc, but what do you think I should do? And what do you think about the sex thing? I mean I'd only do it if I really liked him tho.
oh yeh, I'm 18 and he's 20. do you think he's being genuine? he's admitted he doesnt really like the fact I'm a virgin but he's sayin it's not put him off and he's still interested.

2007-07-08 05:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by RLJ 5 in Singles & Dating

well I have a situation...last night when I went to pick up my daugther from her job..a guy came over to my car and asked to use my cellphone...I was like WTH? seems he wanted to call his girlfriend to see when she was leaving...told me where she worked and I told him they should be out soon because my daughter works there...He looked at me and said Are you Siearra's mother?' I said yes why?...he said you look just like her...she's my girlfriend thats who I am trying to call...well I got the biggest shock of my life cause I knew nothing about this guy...(My daughter never said anything about a boyfriend) I mean she is 20 and is an adult but still....this guy was just running his mouth....(he is white) I have no problems with that....but it kinda freaked me out....anyway my daughter calls me on her cell saying....why is he talking to you?....I told her what he told me and she said the guys been stalking her.....she is Not interested in him? what can I do?

2007-07-08 05:33:25 · 12 answers · asked by T B 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been in a relationship on & off for 2 years. We got back together four months ago and he was a changed man for the better, However the past few weeks we have been rowing over silly things. We love each other and planned a life together. We had yet another silly argument over him cancelling our date to go out with his mates and he left me. He wont return my calls or text's and is putting all the blame on me. He has gone from wanting to Marry me to not wanting to speak to me ever again in 24 Hours. I am very upset and hurt and want him back. I know deep down he is no good for me but I love him and just want him back. How do I win him back?

2007-07-08 05:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

( ages 12 thru 17 ?? )

2007-07-08 05:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by jennamariepeck 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 05:25:58 · 12 answers · asked by celestialguy1978 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 05:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by Manan 2 in Friends

me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. we lived together and were together for like 7 months. we startd fighting at the end of the relationship so we broke up. we really were not happy with ourselves. we went to the park on friday and we acted like we were together, hugging, kissing, all the goodness. but now he wont talk to me. he seems to make excuses up for what he is doing and its like shady. how do i get him back or how do i get over him. its so hard!!

2007-07-08 05:20:13 · 5 answers · asked by Kelsey L 2 in Singles & Dating

in my class there are like 5 guys who never stop teasing me, wenever i walk past they always have to say something mean to me and if i say something they always comment on it. i have alot of friends but theres just those 5 guys in my class who tease me, why do they do this?

2007-07-08 05:16:13 · 20 answers · asked by love_yoo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. In this time he has yelled at me, thrown things at me, hit things across the room, cursed at me, driven receklessly, he has told me to shut up, and has said "F*** You.". He even said that based on sex alone he doesn't know if he would ask me to marry him again (my sex drive is much lower than his). He has acted out in such abusive ways to me and behaves this way in arguements or disagreements, and i asked him why does he stay with me? He said becuase he loves me. I don't think he loves me. How can a man treat a woman like this and feel he loves her? If he does not love me i just wish he would leave. Can someone please tell me why doesn't he leave? How can he tell me loves me treating me like this? Is this relationship just about power and control? I need some advise here....

2007-07-08 05:13:28 · 29 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my fiance a little over 3 years ago. shortly after we got together he told me that he was working on getting a divorce. i thought to myself, ok, no big deal, this will only take a few months to get that taken care of. as of june 2007 we have been together for 3 years, we also have a 20 month old little girl together. i am starting to wonder...why hasnt he taken care of his divorce yet...he claims it money, but there have been several time that money wouldnt have been an issue. i have often heard, why pay for the cow when you're getting the milk for free. i do love him, but im starting to wonder, why hasnt he taken care of the problem yet? i need advise on what to do, should i leave, should i stay? should i say something? i dont know.

2007-07-08 05:13:08 · 14 answers · asked by anewstart18 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to tell my boyfriend of 5 months that i love him (we're 18) but im kinda scared if he doesn't say it back. Im a bit old fashioned and not v emotional/romantic/feely etc and so not sure if i should wait for him to say it first?? He's said it to me a couple of times through text (were both shy) but not to my face and he acts like he does (puts me before friends, treats me like a princess, travels a few hours a week to see me, i could go on!) but i think im gonna burst if i don't. Do you think it would be a good idea to text him it (as he's on hol for a few weeks), and tell him when he gets back so i can see what he says OR just wait for him to say it first... I'm worried i might ruin our amazing relationship!!

2007-07-08 05:12:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am thinking...yessss.....

2007-07-08 05:10:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this a girl thing or can this affect boys too?
Is there a way to change this as i find it disapointing and frustrating, what are your experiences?

2007-07-08 05:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

He went away on business for a while, and I was left at home with his wife. I had known this guy for 3 year and hed never met is wife until I mived in. She was very sweet girl but suffered from depression. He and I used to hang out at the bar until all hours of the night, go gambling (we lived in Vegas) and all kinds of stuff. She spent all of her time at home with the dog. She did not have a job. While he was away, she and I fell in love. That was back in October. We had an intimate relationship and all. When he came back, he kept telling me that he wasnt interested in him in any way. I never said anything. He has been away again since March. She lives in Texas with her family and I am in Turkey at the moment for a year. I told her in May that I wasnt happy being the other guy anymore, so she is in the middle of the divorce now. (Yes, I do know this is a fact as he has written me many times asking me how I could do this.) I love her with all my heart. Am i terrible?

2007-07-08 05:00:44 · 3 answers · asked by bob h 2 in Singles & Dating

seems like they are lying to me...becuz when i was talking to my friend's gf who is like a sister to me on the phone she said shell call me back after she talks to her mom, then when i called my friend he wanted to hang up right away....so i tried calling both of them again they both never answered, then his gf calls me back like 1 hour later and says hold on and all that stuf and told me shell call me back when she never did.....so im guessing that they were tryna lie to me about doing something else so they can talk to each other and not make me feel bad

2007-07-08 04:55:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-08 04:50:23 · 9 answers · asked by andrea 1 in Singles & Dating

a collague (sp?) full of pictures. I'm gonna buy the poster and make doubles of the photos and stuff like that. Do you think it's selfish of me to put "by Jennifer" or should I put my parents names too? I mean I doing the whole poster..they are not helping.

2007-07-08 04:47:47 · 17 answers · asked by J 2 in Friends

Hi. I really fancy this boy. I've fancied him for a year or so now, and we used to be really good friends - we have a lot in common. But now he really really likes another girl, and he's sometimes really rude to me. I still fancy him though. What do I do? Should I give up on him? How can I get him to like me? Please help, I feel really upset about this.

2007-07-08 04:47:22 · 7 answers · asked by Goldenfield 2 in Singles & Dating

He annoys me and he's cheap.

2007-07-08 04:46:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 04:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by mcgeepat60 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like her and all but she is going off to college and i still have another year of high school and she is living at college. and i have trouble keeping my mind on just her when she is around let alone across the city and at the same time she has been doing stuff lately that has jut been bothering me and i am not sure if i should wait it out longer or utillize the rest of my summer being single or have less tied down relationships if you know where i am coming from.. or just stick with this one becuase overall so far it is working out ok and there is nothing seriously wrong. like there is another girl i am interested in..and we are very good friends and like share similar personality traits and stuff but i am scared we wont have similar ideas about how a relationship should work. i am also really scared to hurt the girl i am giong with. i would feel terrible. if i do break up with her i will use the college excuse since that is the most understandable and she may not get as hurt by it

2007-07-08 04:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by ed b 1 in Singles & Dating

So I found out my only friend at this campground was using me so I confronted her by email because I tried in person and she never listened and she never replied so I decided to break off the friendship and I am going to do so but I am really sad now cuz she was my only friend here and I watch her real friends hang w/ her and it bothers me but we arent meant to be friends/ How can I cheer up?
The only disctraction I have is internet and tv so any videos on yputube or anything I can do 4 a disctration?

2007-07-08 04:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Friends

2007-07-08 04:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is 22 and is still a virgin! In fact she's never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. She was very shy growing up and has only started to come into herself now! She is really pretty and has a great personality. I'm just afraid she's missing out!

2007-07-08 04:35:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends