Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

i'm not talking about etiquette, etc.
i'm talking about the way they eat, like... whether they eat slowly, savouring every bite and enjoying every taste... or whether they just rush and gobble their meals quickly towards their final goals.

does it necessarily describe how they behave behind closed doors?

2007-07-08 03:43:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been married since November 2005 We got married when i was 16 and he was 19 ( EVERY YOUNG.. I KNOW) in November 06 we split up due to a number of reasons, but never legally did anything. About 3 months ago i Moved to Florida because we decided to work things out. Since i have been here our relationship has been gold. Everything we ever wanted it to be. However, neither of us have been that happy. We both love each other. In fact i am deeply in love with him. He is having a very hard time in his life, and is very unhappy with everything all around. When he gets this way he pushes everyone away and wants to be alone, genuinely. I as well am facing a lot of hard times and feel as though i need to settle a lot of inner problems. We have decided to continue to live together for a number of reasons. We are still very close and the best of friends. We are trying very hard to not let this come between us in our friendship, However..

2007-07-08 03:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Sera L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In other words, if she picks out his outfit and he wears it. Can other women tell that a woman picked it out? (assuming, of course, he is by himself when they see him)

2007-07-08 03:42:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didn’t over drink, we brought a bottle of vodka and drank it there- surprisingly no one cared- the waitresses offered us soft drinks and ice and the security guard joined us. However, it was the first time that I smoked grass after drinking, and it didn’t went good at all…I threw up in the parking lot, where I smoked with my friends and they took me back inside and put me on one of the sofas. I fell asleep for the rest of the night and my dress was short so my panties showed.

The sofas weren’t in the center, so I’m not so sure how many people actually noticed. And one of the waitresses came up to me every once in a while to check if I’m alive, she got hysterical and the security guard who works at our school had to talk with her and convince her that he knows me and that I’m all right. I have no idea of how long did I sleep there. I was also barefoot, because I couldn’t manage to walk with my high heels.

2007-07-08 03:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get past the fact that my girlfriend who is my fiance now has a genital piercing? she says she doesnt have a reason for getting one, however they are to stimulate sex. should i just get out and move on, im not the type into all those piercing especially in the genital....why else would a girl get one. plus she was 25 when getting it b4 i knew here and just showed it to me the first week i knew her, not 16 and stupid

2007-07-08 03:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Singles & Dating

you would like a relationship with her or would prefer just to hook up with her?

And lets say she is not easy at all.

2007-07-08 03:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

instead of her cel phone number (she claims she didn't have one but lets just say she has a cel) what does this mean?

2007-07-08 03:40:57 · 18 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a deployed soldier married for 14yrs with 3 children. As most people know a deployment can be hard on eveyone in the family. When I left it was hard. filled with hugs and kisses and promises of my return. Over the months things have changed dramatically for the worse. She won't say she wants a divorce or even say she doesn't love me anymore. Now with weeks left she wants to find me an apartment for when I come home. I have continued to send about 90% of my pay home for the kids, mortgage and all the other expenses. Before I left we thought for the kids sake it wouldn't be a good idea to take any leave. The whole I am home now,and then I have to leave again. That had already happened a couple of times between the MOB and we didn't want to put them through it again. I try and call every other day to talk to the kids, but the lines can be long. She does work full time. I just want to know if this makes any sense to anyone. She did have PPD with our first child. I am not a doctor.

2007-07-08 03:37:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well what is a flirt, and how do you get a flirt 2 like u?

2007-07-08 03:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

when my parents got a divorce my whole family got really messed up, except me. they all had to go to counciling, except me, and a lot more. im not complainingbut why didnt i? im the youngest 12 years old.

2007-07-08 03:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 03:34:56 · 26 answers · asked by Blondie 5 in Weddings

everytime i see this girl, i cant stop gazing at her and when she turns to look at me, and do something stupid, and then i look away in embarrasment. Also i find it hard to even talk to her, but occasionally, i get an 'um' or 'hi' out before i go high tailing off. We are not even together, and I've known her for a few years and we've never even spoke before. What is it that i feel, cause i cant call it love its too simple, theres got to be a better more explainatory word. Any ideas on what i should do?
Is there a word for it?

2007-07-08 03:33:55 · 15 answers · asked by Nick W 2 in Singles & Dating

Reminisce

2007-07-08 03:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-08 03:33:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1.) What day of the week are you usually supposed to get married on?
2.) How far in advance do you have to book the DJ?
3.) When do you send out invitations?
4.) How far in advance do you have to book the place to be wed at?
5.) If I do not belong to a church, how do I get a preist to marry us?
6.) What things should I do first in planning a wedding?

We've been engaged since May of 2006 and just set the date last night...so I don't even know the first thing about planning a wedding and thought I'd start with those questions...thxs so much in advance.

2007-07-08 03:32:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The question basically was: Why would you automatically think a guy was lying if he told you he didn't have a GF?

2007-07-08 03:31:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few months ago I asked my mom if she could make me an afghan. I went out and bought all the materials, it cost about $50. The reason I wanted her to make it is A) I can't knit or crochet and B) she's getting older and I wanted something I could have as a family heirloom, just from her. The problem is she couldn't do it so she gave everything to my aunt who has now went ahead and made a baby blanket from the materials. I am very upset because I already had a new blanket for the baby and I really wanted the blanket for myself. I feel like my mom didn't listen to a word I said and did what she wanted. If I had wanted a baby blanket I wouldn't have asked for an adult sized afghan. I almost burst out crying when she told me my aunt had finished the baby blanket. I know it's just an afghan but I feel so disappointed. Is it just my hormones going into hyperdrive(I'm 23 weeks with my 3rd) or do I really have a reason to be upset? All I wanted was a piece of my mom.

2007-07-08 03:31:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lostlove 5 in Family

My co-worker (female) is whining about how the guys at work go to lunch every day and exclude her. She says "they is my boyz", cusses with them, smokes with them and flirts/cuts up with them every day. One day she asked them to bring her some food, and they didn't. She said she thinks it is a "racial" matter and wouldn't speak to them for the rest of the day.

In my opinion, they are just being guys, hanging out together for lunch. I also suspect that they don't really respect her.

What do you think is going on?

2007-07-08 03:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We work fulltime jobs and have 2 kids so I'm more of a home body. We have this conversation every so often. To focus his attention on our family,should I become unpredictable?

2007-07-08 03:25:49 · 10 answers · asked by Selina116 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so he's like either 2-4 yrs older than me, but the thing is, he's like an instructor for one of my sports (not gonna metion it just in case he goes on here) we like smile at each other like all day, and then when he says my name, he gives me like this big dopey grin, and then like, he tries to stan close to me(not in a bad way or anything) and i need to know if that like means he likes me or anything.... plz help....i like really need it,

2007-07-08 03:24:10 · 13 answers · asked by Brunette_Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 03:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Toves 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend's stepbrother is getting married. He is not close with his own mother, and plans to dance with his stepmother. She and his father have only been married a couple years. Any song suggestions?

2007-07-08 03:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Weddings

been dating him for 3 months. we were just fooling around. i wouldnt let him put it in. claims i hurt him down there when i was pushing him away. i KNOW i didnt.
why did he pretend i hurt him?

2007-07-08 03:20:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive bin with him before n i still love him he had a girlfriend n he still likes her he started gettin over her n liked me but then one mornin we were all cuddled n had a few kiises then on the night he went to the party n was kissin wid her all night what do i do because i got realli jealous and went mad at him for it and now he wont even tlk to me n picked her HELP ME i still realli love him n dnt no what to say ........

2007-07-08 03:19:13 · 15 answers · asked by ema louise 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 03:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by gina 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't you think that is dangerous? They have been talking for about 8 months. Should I say something? Some people say I should but she won't listen if I did.

2007-07-08 03:18:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just 3 days ago I breakup with him...and all he said was

I love you,you know why?
cause Im an idiot!!

what did he mean by that?

2007-07-08 03:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 03:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

Even when you are depressed.
Unhappy about something.

2007-07-08 03:15:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is communicative boy, and I have to admit he like girls a little bit more, listen to metal music, drinks a lot :) - like every boy who likes parties all night long, also he is a smart person, funny, always there for a friend and other stuff. But…I was wondering what would be a perfect girl for that kind of guy?
The last girl, they were together for 1 mouth.

2007-07-08 03:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating