Men when you first meet a women how do you know wether or not?

Question

you would like a relationship with her or would prefer just to hook up with her?

And lets say she is not easy at all.

Answer 1

Perhaps the same way a woman knows that information when she meets a man. But I don't think men really make a clear distinction on the hookup/relationship question, simply on the desire to mate with that female. It's either attraction or it's not. And never let anyone tell you differently - there are some women who are so overwhelmingly sensuous and attractive that their presence in a room makes it impossible to focus attention elsewhere. Somehow their mere presence fills the room with estrogen and captivates whoever is there...

Answer 2

if she gives off a good vibe, and is polite yeah i would start with the hook up to see if she would like me and visa versa. Then if it works out for more than a week or two, then yeah relationship would be great. yeah, im one of those guys who like it when a girl is polite, and likes to take things a little slower, it makes it more enjoyable to be with them i think. no wanting to do so much fast time, city style stuff, just take time and go to the park and watch the sunset or the sunrise(if she wakes up that early)

Answer 3

Yes. There are some basic requirements I expect out of a potential partner like intelligence, class, style, a few physical attributes (I tend to like shorter medium to thin build), and whether she is talkative or not.

FYI - I am not into hookups. I have more respect than that for women so any women interested in a hookup with me is automatically disqualified.

Answer 4

I would say an attractive appearance combined with a good heart, that is obvious and can be readily perceived.

I'm talking about a genuine relationship, not a whoremongering use of her (if that's "hooking up").

I'll tell you honestly, however, I haven't been able to get a date in many years.

Answer 5

I don't don't do "hook ups" or "one night stands". Too many diseses going around that make me stay away from that. You said she's to easy at all. So, I'm going to say have a relationship with her.

Answer 6

Well, when I first meet a girl, I can only judge her looks at that point.

So if her looks are something that I would want to date, then I would talk to her and see how her attitude is etc. Only after a conversation would I be able to know if she is somebody I would want to date.

Answer 7

Depends on how desprate you are.Sometimes if we try to hook up with women then we actually want a relationship.Depends on the guy and how bad or if any they want the woman.Its hard to explain but us guys just know.

Answer 8

When I see she doesn't flirt with other guy's all the time, has a good work ethic and is not selfish or lazy. Thats when I can hear the wedding bells a ringing.

Answer 9

They don't until they spend time with her, which is usually why men date. A date is not a relationship, it's a get to know you time.

Answer 10

well, i would have to get to know her before i would consider a date. you know, find out some of her interests, how she acts. basically, i need to know who she is beyond her appearance before i actually consider a relationship with her.